Game: Ask the Person Below You

[lilimarlene]

go find a stranger and talk to them

Which has been the best decision you ever made?

[BienvenuJDC]

To move on with my life

What should I do next....tonight...(it's too late to find a stranger)

[Delta40]

The job you've been avoiding most.

How interested should I act with my date tonight?

[BienvenuJDC]

I don't know.
Who is your date?

[Delta40]

A friend who needs a push

Should I wait till we're parked by a cliff?

[lilimarlene]

Why not....
Now, how should I handle my date tonight ?

[Sancho]

Always a good policy to leave him wanting more.

And, based on the tardiness of my answer, my question for you is: How did it go?

[lilimarlene]

I agree, and that's what I did.It went very well and thank you for asking!

What have you done recently that you're proudest of.

[tonywalt]

I just did 18 pull-ups.

What would you do that would make you proud?

[lilimarlene]

Living my life with integrity.
What would you do that would make you feel less than proud?

[tonywalt]

If I forgot to bring Sam the Corgi to play group (where he has met another Corgi named Tobi and they are great friends).

What do you want to do as a career?

[lilimarlene]

some form of royalty or perhaps run my own country


If you had only 24 hours left to live, what would you do?

[Buckthorn]

Eat whatever I wanted, drink whatever I wanted and kiss that person who doesn't know how I feel about them.

If you are going to die, would you rather know before or have it come as a surprise?

[lilimarlene]

[QUOTE=Buckthorn;1185507]Eat whatever I wanted, drink whatever I wanted and kiss that person who doesn't know how I feel about them.

(Please don't wait until your death bed to act. Go find that person you care about Buckthorn and kiss them and tell them how you feel. It might be the very best thing that can happen because they might feel the same way or they may see you in a completely different light. Think less, act more. What’s the worst thing that can happen? There can never be anything so sad than agonising about what could have been….)

I would rather not know.

Under what circumstances would you adopt a child?

[Calidore]

If you are going to die, would you rather know before or have it come as a surprise?

Heh, that reminds me of a Steven Wright joke:

My girlfriend and I were lying in bed, and she said, "Let me ask you something."

I said, "Yeah?"

She said, "If you could know how and when you were going to die, would you want to know?"

I said, "No."

She said, "Forget it then."

[lilimarlene]

ok then.....

Under what circumstances would you adopt a child?

[tonywalt]

If this price was right, they were really cute, and also properly washed and scrubbed- then Yea definitely.

What charity would you put in your will?

[lilimarlene]

probably something that had to do with animals and feeding hungry children.


What were the qualities that attracted you to the people you've had long term relationships with.

[tonywalt]

She has to be good plow puller and quick with a joke!

Same question.

[lilimarlene]

same answer

Do you ever experience jealousy?

[tonywalt]

Not really

Would you sing along with headphones on in the gym?

[lilimarlene]

( how is it possible to never experience jealousy? I'm jealous just thinking about that!)
as much as I'd like to, it's very annoying, so no.


At what age did you start drinking?

[tonywalt]

on a regular weekend basis - 17ish i suppose.

Would you ever manage a restaurant?

[lilimarlene]

sounds like it could be fun, though I know the hours are a killer.

Would you?

[tonywalt]

No, the hours are crazy.

Would you be able to fool people if you had to?

[lilimarlene]

to some level yes, because I can control how I react (mostly) but it's not something I'd like to do.

same question

[tonywalt]

If I have to do it I can.

Go to Church or never Church?- (glad you went, when you went? Was it comforting?)

[lilimarlene]

I used to go to church when I was a child as we went as a family. I'm not religious, more on the spiritual side so I don't go to church anymore unless it’s to accompany someone or a special occasion. I'm sure it's a comfort to some, it really is a personal decision.

No matter how bad things get, are you aware that someone always has it worse than you do? and would that change how you feel about things?

[tonywalt]

That's what my therapist always says..right before the electroshock scream therapy session.

(having a bad fright)
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/9691022/Spooked-red-panda-cubs-fright-goes-viral.html

Is there something about you that people would be surprised to know?

[lilimarlene]

aahhhhh poor lil thing

I worked as a professional Dominatrix for about a year

same question

[tonywalt]

:wink5:(I'm not surprised)

In university i worked as a gorilla in an amusement park and was terminated for an altercation with another 'gorilla' much to the shock of the kids peering in the Cage.

Do you often change your hairstyle? - when last? (God!- That's got to be one the gayest questions I've asked in a while).

[lilimarlene]

(Haha did my avatar give me away....gorilla! yeah that's about as honest an answer as mine!)

I change it sublety, I like it on the longish side but change the length or colour from time to time. My hairdresser cut about 3 inches a couple of months ago. I wasn't happy!

same question?

[tonywalt]

(I was a gorilla-a good student job that was).

I always say 'the usual'.

What's the first thing characteristic you want to know about a potential bf/gf?

[lilimarlene]

it's a combination of things. Aside from the physical attraction, they must be sincere and kind/warmhearted, have intelligence, humour, integrity, good communication skills. I like a man that has a quiet confidence and a certain level of sophistication. Am I asking for too much?


same question

[lilimarlene]

oh, I guess the first thing I would need to know would be; can they be faithful and are they well balanced with no major issues.Then the rest above would apply...

[tonywalt]

HHmm, warmhearted and sweet, and, oh yea - A nice rack and a bubble a ss:hurray:

What year did you obtain your first cell phone?

[lilimarlene]

Ok plus, ripped abs, chiseled chest,broad shoulders, a butt I can bounce a dime off of, full lips, direct confident gaze, olive complexion and strong and rugged looking, and he needs to smell good too.


Over 10 years
Have you ever had a workplace romance?

[tonywalt]

Yea. Sure.

Are there any siblings or parent(s) that you barely speak to?

[Jerrybaldy]

*Rings Bell on reception desk* "Dinnnggggg"
"Manager, get these two a room"
:D

[tonywalt]

Anyone can join - just bring protection!

[lilimarlene]

Yea. Sure.

Are there any siblings or parent(s) that you barely speak to?

yes

same question

[tonywalt]

yea, unfortunately.

Cruiseship vacation to quite a few places (nice one, not so crowded) or airplane?

[lilimarlene]

small cruise could be nice

What are you passionate about?

[tonywalt]

In words -Buono, bravo, bene, bella, bellissimo- Ciao!

Same question

[lilimarlene]

music, words, beauty, the unknown, travelling, adventure, speed, kissing and.....

What drives you?

[jweyek]

What drives me?

Fear of death. I mistakenly believe that my efforts will help me avoid death. I know I'm wrong.

What do you drive?

[lilimarlene]

I drive people crazy.

What makes you happy?

[jweyek]

Kindness makes me happy.

Are happy families all alike?

[lilimarlene]

I would say yes. Common traits would be a nurturing environment, acceptance, respect, good communication and spending fun time together.

What's on the walls of your bedroom?

[Buckthorn]

Paper.

Do you think people and their companion animals look alike?

[lilimarlene]

no one I know looks like their pet

Do you?

[Buckthorn]

I don't look like her but we do have some of the same qualities (being grumpy, vicious and sometimes feral).

Bread: Toasted or not toasted?

[lilimarlene]

[QUOTE=Buckthorn;1187578]I don't look like her but we do have some of the same qualities (being grumpy, vicious and sometimes feral).

(lol...ok, well then my dog and I also have similar traits. We are sociable, cheerful, affectionate and hard to train, I don't pee on the carpet though.)

depends on the bread.If it's just freshly baked I will rip into it like a crazed shopper at walmart on black friday(google that!)

Speaking of food, if you could eat anthing right now, what would it be?

[tonywalt]

Grilled stuffed portobello mushrooms (which is what i'm having)

If you had could eat only 3 things going forward (dnt worry 'bout calories) what 3 foods or dishes would they be?

[lilimarlene]

well bread for sure, pasta, cheese ( there's no way I could keep to 3 things cause I have a very long list of things I love)

same question

[lilimarlene]

[QUOTE=tonywalt;1187586]Grilled stuffed portobello mushrooms (which is what i'm having)

(that sound delicious, what's it stuffed with and did you make it yourself?)

[BienvenuJDC]

Breakfast, lunch and dinner...

Do you prefer heavy socks, stylish socks, or no socks?

[lilimarlene]

well I would prefer no socks in the summer, unless I'm at the gym, but when it's cold, stylish socks even if they're hea

do you untie your shoes when you take them off?

[tonywalt]

I do - adds decades to shoe life!

What's the wildest colour you've ever painted(or had painted) a room?

[lilimarlene]

I'm afraid there are no wild coloured wall in my past or present. My walls are usually neutralish so they don't clash with art work, pictures, accessories etc...

same question

[tonywalt]

A greenish bathroom

What name would you name your kid? (m and f)

[lilimarlene]

Franny and Zooey or maybe Donny and Marie, haven't decided.

What are you wearing right now? (don't lie now, I can see thru the computer)

[tonywalt]

Boardshorts.

(Hall and Oates for my pick)

Did you sing along to milli vanilli as a kid?

[lilimarlene]

no, you're not wearing board shorts:nonod:

I did ,I did, did you?

[tonywalt]

Yea, i got um in Trinidad - very cool

I'm singing "Girl you know it truee" right now! - so yes.

What is the deepest water you ever swam in?

[lilimarlene]

as we speak, I'm in over my head.....

What would be a better thing for you to be doing right now instead of this?

[tonywalt]

I had a Big night last nite, until a bbq late - i'm on the sofa.

Can you float well?

[lilimarlene]

(did I get that right, you had a late night bbq? fun?)

yes I'm buoyant, I float very well.

what was the last big purchase you made?

[tonywalt]

A kayak.

*late nite last nite much wine , i'm supposed togo to a bbq later

Do you look forward to checking your email/texts when you wake up?

[lilimarlene]

sometimes, but at the moment, no

same question

[tonywalt]

yea, most daze

Do usually have finance car purchases?

[Joreads]

No I don't

What is the next holiday you have planned

[tonywalt]

Nicaragua

What is the one place you'd like to go on holiday and never been there?

[lilimarlene]

argentina

is there anyone from your past that you regret losing contact with?

[tonywalt]

No, but I regret a few people losing contact with me.

Same question

[lilimarlene]

No, but I regret a few people losing contact with me.

(so, you call them and make it right, life is too short for regrets that can be mended....)

Same question

yes and I'm looking for them

If were given $10,000 and told you that you had to spend it today, what would you buy?

[tonywalt]

Probably invest it.

For what price would you walk out of the current job?- right now.

[lilimarlene]

that is a tough question. I was going to give a higher number, but I think if someone walked in with a suitcase with $100,000 to leave this very minute, I might grab the cash and go, but I'm not 100% sure if that is enough.....

same question

[tonywalt]

hhm, US$150g.

Would you give your partner a hard time (when) you see they have viewed porn on the internet (or tv) on their own?-

[lilimarlene]

no, as it's pretty normal, but it's a lot more fun if it's shared.

same question

[Hawg Horse]

Just registered. Not sure how to post on-site?

[lilimarlene]

just do what you just did

[tonywalt]

No.

Could you tell the difference between Italians, Greeks, and Spaniards - at least 50% of the time?

[lilimarlene]

(so seriously as a man, it wouldn't bother you to know your gf was watching porn on her own? )

most of the time, I'm pretty good as I have friends from all over.

What is your favorite time of day?

[tonywalt]

(eh...It's different for women. Cuz you all are from Venus:willy_nilly: - or somewhere..dunno?)

Around 10 after the gym or whenever the whistle goes off, I just slide down the dinosaur and I'm off!

How many times a month do you go to the salon?

[Hawg Horse]

The salon? Never. Physical ethnicity markers fading fast ... noses can still be telling. Best times for me ... all post meridian. Porn ... good for every body ... and soul. Thanx for the instruction lili.

[Hawg Horse]

The salon? Never. Physical ethnicity markers fading fast ... noses can still be telling. Best times for me ... all post meridian. Porn ... good for every body ... and soul. Thanx for the instruction lili.


Does anyone know a reputable on-line site to document the original source of literary quotations? Like the one in the movie Tombstone, "she walked out of our lives forever."

[lilimarlene]

Re: salon at least twice a month for some general pampering and hawg horse, you're welcome.

[tonywalt]

The salon? Never. Physical ethnicity markers fading fast ... noses can still be telling. Best times for me ... all post meridian. Porn ... good for every body ... and soul. Thanx for the instruction lili.


Does anyone know a reputable on-line site to document the original source of literary quotations? Like the one in the movie Tombstone, "she walked out of our lives forever."

Yea, facebook is a good place for that.

[tonywalt]

How did you 'find' Litnet?

[lilimarlene]

I didn't find litnet, it found me.

[Hawg Horse]

Thanx Tony. 'Tis time then to join the frenzied masses, who've suffered long enough in waiting for my FB debut.

Do you think the human face can be read ... like a book? The Face as (of) Literature.

[tonywalt]

Litnet finds some wild and crazy people

If I ever get as crazy as Hawg Horse would you shoot me?

[Hawg Horse]

Yes. 'Tis a time ... for everything.

Right?

[tonywalt]

I'm shunning you Hawg! (I never imagined having to ever say that)

[lilimarlene]

Ok...
.
So, Do men like women to ask them out ?

[Hawg Horse]

No offense intended Tony. Just crackin' corn. But, even the coldest shoulder is better than death. Yes lili. Style points there, for a throughly modern lady.

Have I interrupted or intruded here?

[tonywalt]

Yea, of course.

Do women ever actualy lose arguments?

[tonywalt]

No offense intended Tony. Just crackin' corn. But, even the coldest shoulder is better than death. Yes lili. Style points there, for a throughly modern lady.

Have I interrupted or intruded here? No - your cool. Your'e just a little above my head on the abstract statements. Lil problems understands what you are saying.

[Hawg Horse]

Thanx Tony. Your head is good by me. The answer, in my opinion, is never ultimately. At most ... a round, or two. To win, however, is not to best an argument. In the end, beauty trumps truth, as truth is but a sorry chameleon.

What's not to like 'bout living on an island?

[lilimarlene]

(re: woman asking a man out.I know that not all men feel the same way. I've had this discussion with some male family members, my brother being one, and some friends and it’s a mixed bag of responses. My brother likes to do the asking out at least at first, he does not like aggressive women. For me, unless I’m already dating someone I am not comfortable (maybe I’m not so modern, but I am definitely stylish) asking a man out because for me the quote ”The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.” Is very accurate. If I don’t feel desired and they don’t make an effort and do a little chasing, I’m not really that interested. I also hate man that play it too cool)


(awg Horse …you aren’t interrupting , this is a public forum after all)

Well I have lost a few, maybe you’re debating skills are lacking or you give up too easily.

What is the nicest thing someone has done to you /for you recently?

[tonywalt]

You are right. I wasn't on the dating scene and was in a realationship for a long time. It's actually good to know - I do make an effort, but just like you, if i don't feel chemistry or she puts up too many hoops - well, i'm not a poodle. (then again, chasing to me means, calling and calling and she puts me off more than say.. Twice). But yea, i like women who ask guys out.

A friend gave me an old Vespa scooter for fun, he's leavin island, it's a good lil hop n' go

Can you find the oil dipstick in your car without looking around?

[lilimarlene]

(chasing means that at the beginning he make the moves, not me, cause if he is not brave or interested enough to ask me on a date, he will not be the man for me. I don't require that a man jumps through hoops but I will test him a bit to see what he's made of)

I admit I would have to look around for a bit. I do have someone take care of that for me.

What's the best thing you can do to show someone you care for them?

[Hawg Horse]

Real men can find the(ir) dipstick. Most cars have two. Jealous over the scooter. Sadly, you're right 'bout my social debating skills. It seems, to me, the skills improve with a stoggie and scotch, just sayin'. Like the insights you both gave on the (your) lustful mind. You must see the Toa of Steve (at least 10 years old, but available on DVD). All the true answers are there, for the taking. The quintessential "chase" is far more art, than science. Can sting some when you run, and "the" one does not give chase. I've heared it said, you've never loved; 'til you've been loved back. I was assaulted a few weeks ago now. Stabbed twenty times; three in the face. My office landlord still refuses to take my rent until I can get back to work. He's not a wealthy man. I won't soon forget his kindness.

Call me crazy (again), but I can tell by talking to a girl when someone likes me in a lustful way (or doesn't). Even before the fateful first kiss, it's an unmistakeable gaze in her eyes, her body language and her tone of voice. Like an invitation ... you can have whatever you want. Certainly not a surrender, but a submission to being caught. Chase over; at least temporarily.

[Hawg Horse]

The best show of affection is that look :)

Again, What's not to like 'bout living on an island ... anything?

[tonywalt]

uum, what's not too like. Well, this is a small island (55,000 population half of which are from another islands to the east{see map} so the small population a thing I don't like at times (other times I do like it) - community is important.

What do you like and what do you not like about where you live?

[Hawg Horse]

The Economy has remained strong here through the recission, which is a big advantage for me being in business for myself. I like 3 of the 4 seasons, but December, January and February are too cold to enjoy normal activities. Then there's also the challenges of living around snow. When I owned my motorcycle, I would have to park it 4 or 5 months out of the year. There's skiiing, of course, which can be nice, but the slopes are crowded and it's quite expensive. The Rocky Mountains are our beach-front for beauty and outdoor activities. Where I live in downtown Salt Lake City, most residents are very liberal and progressive, but outside of that area most are conservative and members of the Mormon faith. More diversity would be welcomed. There are approximately two million people living in the state. I was on a work assignment last year in Western Samoa for 4 months and both my sisters live in Kauai so I've been charmed by my time visiting there. Many people living there want to live on the mainland, and those of us here ... long for the sea. Perhaps we're born by nature with wanderlust? The natives in Samoa were hospitable, but with some their kind gestures were tempered too obviously with a financial agenda.

Are there many native people who still live in the Caymans?

[Hawg Horse]

The Economy has remained strong here through the recission, which is a big advantage for me being in business for myself. I like 3 of the 4 seasons, but December, January and February are too cold to enjoy normal activities. Then there's also the challenges of living around snow. When I owned my motorcycle, I would have to park it 4 or 5 months out of the year. There's skiiing, of course, which can be nice, but the slopes are crowded and it's quite expensive. The Rocky Mountains are our beach-front for beauty and outdoor activities. Where I live in downtown Salt Lake City, most residents are very liberal and progressive, but outside of that area most are conservative and members of the Mormon faith. More diversity would be welcomed. There are approximately two million people living in the state. I was on a work assignment last year in Western Samoa for 4 months and both my sisters live in Kauai so I've been charmed by my time visiting there. Many people living there want to live on the mainland, and those of us here ... long for the sea. Perhaps we're born by nature with wanderlust? The natives in Samoa were hospitable, but with some their kind gestures were tempered too obviously with a financial agenda.

Are there many native people who still live in the Caymans?

[tonywalt]

Cool Background!- thanks.

The islands are very British so we are the natives settled here circa 1700. I like the blend both European Culture and North American culture - plus it's safe. I suppose the only thing I do not like about it is we get alot of people here from the other Caribbean Islands and they bring some crime in, but we are tightening immigration thankfully.

Do you know what you will be doing for Christmas yet?

[lilimarlene]

yes, I'm spending it with my family and close friends

you?

[lilimarlene]

[QUOTE=Hawg Horse;1188800]The best show of affection is that look :)

true that look is VERY important and powerful, it can literally make my heart skip a beat, but also touch and displays of affection are important, pay attention to what makes that person happy and surprise them with little treats to show them you were thinking of them, and let them know you feel, even if it's awkward for you the most important thing is to be sincere.

[Hawg Horse]

Like the spirit of Christmas, but I'm usually relieved by the time it's over. These last few years, I've thought of running away to a place in the sun for the holidays, but never quite get up the nerve. Family first ... usually carries the Big day. I live alone and my children are grown and live on their own, but reside in the general area. Their Mother passed on several years ago now, so ... I'll most likely be cookin' again this year and spreadin' a little peace ... and joy. Hope yours are Merry and Bright.

Do you believe in God?

[Hawg Horse]

lili ... luv your post! Gave me chills. You should write ... 'bout birds and bees. I envy the one who wins your heart.

Can a heart be broken ... more than once?

[papayahed]

Absolutely.

What, if any, is your favorite Christmas Carol?

[lilimarlene]

Joy To The World or O Come All Ye Faithful

how about you?

[lilimarlene]

QUOTE=Hawg Horse;1189033]lili ... luv your post! Gave me chills. You should write ... 'bout birds and bees. I envy the one who wins your heart.

thanks HH:smile5: that's very sweet of you to say.

[Buckthorn]

Probably Little Town Of Bethlehem.

What food are you most looking forward to eating over Christmas?

[Hawg Horse]

Hello Papa. Nice to see conviction ... and hard to find personally, or in others. lili ... you're killing me ... two favorites :) Out West that's called polygamy. Not sayin' it's a bad thing. Silent Night brings me in from the cold ... best sung by Johnny Cash.

How telling are a person's favorite songs?

[Hawg Horse]

Buckthorn. Like your name ... and your pic. Answer: caramel popcorn.

Was Skyfall a hit in England?

[tonywalt]

Yay

Do you take vitamins daily(ish)?

[lilimarlene]

Aye (ish, which reminds me....)


What's the best thing that's happened to you so far today?

[tonywalt]

Two mormons showed up at the door. Entertainment for me!

Have you every told anyone about this forum?

[Buh4Bee]

Sure.

Do you like cold weather?

[papayahed]

Yes.

Have you ever built a snowman?

[lilimarlene]

Yes I have.
Do you have a favourite holiday movie?

[tonywalt]

National lampoon christmas vacation/charlie brown christmas

What breed of dog do you like best?

[Hawg Horse]

Small Munsterlanders. About 40 lbs. Point and retrieve upland fowl. Easily trained. Good watch dogs. Light shedder. Will chase away missionaries.

Do you think animals with eyes have souls?

[Irving39]

Yes I do!

What is the first thing you do in the morning?

[lilimarlene]

Check my phone , turn on the news, put on the kettle for a cup of tea.

Same question.

[Buckthorn]

Drag myself out of bed, clean out the litter tray, feed & water the cat, drink coffee.

What is the last thing you do before going to sleep?

[lilimarlene]

Take the dog for a walk, perform various hygienic rituals ,anoint myself with my potions and lotions perhaps read a bit or play on the computer....turn off the light.


Same question.

[Buh4Bee]

turn out the light.

Would you enjoy hunting dinosaurs?

[tonywalt]

Great question, and one that i've given a lot of thought to . I'd love to, and i think a tyrannosaurs would be tasty

What was your first car?

[Buh4Bee]

VW Cabriolet- convertible

Would you feel comfortable mentoring someone?

[tonywalt]

Yea, that would be cool

Would you look forward to being a grandmother?

[Irving39]

Yes! A grandmother surrounded by family..

Which books (if any) do you wish for Christmas?

[tonywalt]

Signed copy of Catcher in the Rye

What thing that you can buy in the store do you want for Chirstmas?

[Buckthorn]

Kahlua Mocha.

What is your favourite flavour of Jam?

[lilimarlene]

Blueberry

What's yours?

[Buckthorn]

Raspberry (although its Blackcurrant when paired with peanut butter).

What Olympic sport would you most like to compete in?

[tonywalt]

Weightlifting.

What is your favourite 'big game/match' to watch? (ex.football world cup, olympic track, 5 nations rugby etc..)

[lilimarlene]

Olympic's track and field followed by the World Cup.

What's the worse thing someone has done to you?

[Hawg Horse]

Stabbed me with a knife. I know ... 'twas crazy.

Can words really cut ... like a knife?

[tonywalt]

This question was addressed by Bryan Adams: they can, but it ''feels so right''

Can you do any impressions?-who?

[Hawg Horse]

Tarzan.

You?

[tonywalt]

Willy from "Free Willy" and also a respectable "Babe" the pig.

Who do you support in world cup?

[Hawg Horse]

I need your input. Haven't seen any rankings or prdictions. I was going to root for Chelsea, but feels a little weird, since the British team is owned by a Russian. Short answer, I don not have an educated opinion. Would only be a guess.

I put the question back to you?

[Hawg Horse]

Didn't read your question right. I would support Chelsea, but not sure which team is favored, if any.

Which team do you think will win it thisw year?

[tonywalt]

I support Italy in the World Cup. In the premier league I support Westham(only for family ties).

What time of you do you like the most?

[lilimarlene]

after 3pm, I'm not a morning person, the later in the day, the better.

What's your favourite thing about the holidays?

[Buckthorn]

Not having to go to work, not swimming, no waking up early. Drinking.

Do you test your smoke alarms regularly?

[lilimarlene]

(do you swim to work?:) )

No actually I don't, but as long as the light is on I figured it's good to go.

Do you spend the holidays with your family?

[Buckthorn]

(do you swim to work?:) )


I swim on my way to work - I leave at 6:40, get a train to the next town, swim 2.5 K, then get another train into work. Can't wait for time off!

I do spend the holidays with the family.

Do you have a favourite Christmas/Holiday movie?

[lilimarlene]

That's quite the schedule! Are you training for anything, or you just like swimming?

I've already seen “It’s a Wonderful Life" the other day, I love "Miracle on 34th Street" and "White Christmas" and for something funny I like “A Christmas Story.”

What do you like to watch?

[Buckthorn]

I just like to swim (have been going 3 times a week for 6 years) and it also helps keep down insulin requirements.

The night they saved Christmas, Santa Clause the movie, Its a wonderful life.

Do you have any books that you read at Christmas?

[lilimarlene]

(are you diabetic or pre-diabetic ?)

there is always so much going on that time of year that I don't really have that much time to read.

Do you have any books you read at Christmas?

[lilimarlene]

[QUOTE=Buckthorn;1185507]Eat whatever I wanted, drink whatever I wanted and kiss that person who doesn't know how I feel about them.

did you kiss that person yet or at least tell them how you feel?

[Buckthorn]

Eat whatever I wanted, drink whatever I wanted and kiss that person who doesn't know how I feel about them.

did you kiss that person yet or at least tell them how you feel?

Not yet (I think they may already have someone)


(are you diabetic or pre-diabetic ?)

there is always so much going on that time of year that I don't really have that much time to read.

Do you have any books you read at Christmas?

I am diabetic (since I was 22).
I try and read a Christmas Carol at Christmas if possible and I always feel as if Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell is a Christmas type book (maybe because its starts out in Winter)?

Peanut butter: Crunchy or smooth?

[tonywalt]

Crunchy (I used to sometimes add my own peanuts!)

White or Brown Bread? (for those not on the paleolithic diet)

[Buh4Bee]

white (although I mostly eat brown)

Will you be going somewhere for the holidays or New Year's?

[lilimarlene]

Not yet (I think they may already have someone)



I am diabetic (since I was 22).
I try and read a Christmas Carol at Christmas if possible and I always feel as if Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell is a Christmas type book (maybe because its starts out in Winter)?

Peanut butter: Crunchy or smooth?

I really enjoyed Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell, have you read The Ladies of Grace Adieu and Other Stories?
(smooth!)

[tonywalt]

I'm going to Cayman Brac where my family comes from-need to buy tickets.

Same question

[lilimarlene]

no, staying put here for Christmas, I'm thinking I might fly off somewhere for NYE though.

What makes you happy?

[tonywalt]

Skimming across the sea with a white tail of water behind the boat.

What have you learned this year?

[Buckthorn]

I really enjoyed Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell, have you read The Ladies of Grace Adieu and Other Stories?


No I have two copies but have not read it yet (FYI Jonathan Strange is being made into a TV serial).

I have learned that being nice gets you further than being nasty.

Do you have any goals for next year?

[lilimarlene]

(Re: JS, that's great. I just googled it to get more information. I will anxiously await that mini series!
being nice gets you further, most of the time. Just don't be so nice you get taken advantage of, be nice with an edge.)

Well I have a few at the moment. Not to be so hard on myself . Be aware that time is a very precious commodity that I shouldn't waste. I want more meaningful experiences. Appreciate what I have. Appreciate the people in my life that give it meaning and make sure they know how I feel about them. Do something that takes me out of my comfort zone. Lose 5 pounds. etc etc

same question

[papayahed]

To be in shape enough to get a good time and try all the obstacles in the mud fears me race.

What was your first job?

[tonywalt]

Construction (child labour laws are lax here)

What was your worst job?

[Hawg Horse]

As Pres. Clinton would say, that depends on your definition of "job." First one working for non-family at set wage ... farm hand for Simplot Potato Farms, Howe, Idaho. Torture at the time ... great memories now.

In your mind's eye, do you see anything as your life's work?

[Hawg Horse]

Worst job ... church Deacon.

Yours?

[papayahed]

Cashier at 7-11, all those pesky kids trying to bribe me to sell them beer.


Do you believe in Santa?

[tonywalt]

I do i've heard that he's very mean to the elves

What year did you get your first cell phone?

[Hawg Horse]

Undecided, uncertain and undone ... over the question. No doubt about my firm faith in Mrs. Clause. She'll even deliver beer to underage children every year ... no bribe required.

Seriously, did you ever take ... one of those bribes? Your secret's safe with me.

[Hawg Horse]

First cell phone ... not for sure ... about 1980 to 1985. Memory best served.

Been thinking about a ipad ... any recommendtions?

[papayahed]

Seriously, did you ever take ... one of those bribes? Your secret's safe with me.

No, it seemed cheesy.


First cell phone ... not for sure ... about 1980 to 1985. Memory best served.

Been thinking about a ipad ... any recommendtions?

yes, get one. My only experience is with an ipad. I would always eschew Apple then I got an ipad for christmas. Once I let go of my snobbyness I've grown to love my ipad. It doesn't replace an actual computer but you'd have to pry it from my cold dead hands to get it away from me.


Do you think Starbucks would exist if the British had squashed the American revolution?

[lilimarlene]

no, I think you'd be drinking tea at Bettys Café Tea Rooms instead.

What are you looking forward to this week?

[Hawg Horse]

Papa ... thanx for the recommendation/encouragement. Just the push I needed. On purchase, I'll probably make the world go away for a few days after, to make time with my new toy/computer.
Starbucks ... best question yet. Lili's right, Starbucks not nearly suave enough for the Brits. Tea ... now there's a drink ... for the civilized.
Looking forward ... to Christmas drinks with old friends this coming Friday. Here's hoping they don't serve eggnog.

Is blue a color by itself, or should it always have an adjective to paint the shade?

[tonywalt]

Blue balls is a very serious condition, but with proper treatment you function quite well.

When is the last time you watched the sunrise?

[papayahed]

Last tuesday from atop the dry tower. (And I don't think you quite answered Hawgs question..)

What did you have for breakfast?

[tonywalt]

I breakfasted after lunch, which is my custom - Grilled Zucchini

Blue needs and adjective.

Does your pet prefer a certain brand of food? (What brand?)

[Buckthorn]

She will eat anything made available, at the moment it is dried food for fat cats.

Do you think the world will end on December 21st?

[lilimarlene]

No, well at least not my world.
Do you?

[tonywalt]

No, but I predict that Mayan civilization has ended a long time ago -and did know!

If you were the only person left in the world what would be your first self indulgence? (first of many).

[lilimarlene]

I don't think I would be feeling particularly self indulgent if I was the only person left in the world.

Same question.

[tonywalt]

With all competition eliminated I would search for (soul)mates.

Do you like your work Christmas party alot?

[lilimarlene]

(If you were the ONLY person left in the world, then there would be no one to mate with (soumate ,yeah right , you sound like you're looking for a harem!:hand:)

Yes, our Christmas parties are lots of fun!

Same question.

[Buckthorn]

We had ours Friday, I stayed sober and was in bed by midnight. But it was still a good night (previous years have been raucous including people breaking bones and getting arrested so it was nice to have a quiet one).

What time do you start drinking Christmas Day?

[tonywalt]

Mmm, i dont drink til later on christmas day-a few glasses of champers, but we meet up christmas eve early - so it's more a christmas eve thing.

same question

[Buckthorn]

I usually wake up, have breakfast (Toasted sandwich with dark chocolate peanut butter, black cherry jam & dessicated coconut and a large hot chocolate). Then have my first Cognac at about 8:30 or 9 AM. Or I shove some Grand Marnier in the hot chocolate.

What is your favourite Christmas dessert?

[Hawg Horse]

A toasted sandwich with dark chocolate peanut butter, black cherry jam & dessicated coconut and a large hot chocolate. Yea, I want to spend Christmas at your place.

Do you have any friends that don't celebrate Christmas?

[papayahed]

Yes. My cousin turned Jewish a while back but he still sniffs around at Christmas to see if any gifts have his name on them.


What was your most memorable christmas present you received as a child?

[Hawg Horse]

I wondered if one could convert to, and be accepted into, Judaism. I thought it required a Royal Blood-line (decendants of one of the twelve tribes of Israael), like most Native American Tribes require a pedigree to be enrolled.
Most memorable ... a pup tent ... I know ... leave me be.

In your heart is there one child you adore (love) more than all others?

[tonywalt]

Yes - shirley temple, but don't tell gary coleman.

What song do you mostly sing out loud?

[lilimarlene]

Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend.

same question

[tonywalt]

The muppet song
(Mahna Mahna
Do doo be-do-do
Mahna Mahna
Do do-do do
Mahna Mahna)

Will ernie and bert ever come out?

[lilimarlene]

ernie and bert are not gay, they are simply having a bromance.

Do you have a recurring dreams and if so what is it?

[papayahed]

I've been dreaming of zombies for years.

Would ou cry to get out of a speeding ticket?

[Hawg Horse]

Crying men not likely to avoid the ticket, but not above it if it would work. Willing to do almost anything to keep the insurance rates down.
Back to dreams ... what emotions most vistis your dreams (Love, Fear, Lust, etc.)?

[tonywalt]

Lusty love usually on a yacht that i own- then I wake up

What is your favourite musical group? (boring question - yes. But never asked that i remember)

[Hawg Horse]

Michael Franti and Spearhead. Second favorite Shaggy, when he sings with Sean Paul.

Have you ever personally used weed for medicinal purposes?

[tonywalt]

I've never used weed for the purpose of medicine......

same question

[lilimarlene]

same answer.

Do you give yourself a present at Christmas? And if so what are planning on getting?

[Hawg Horse]

Weed.

You?

[Buckthorn]

3 new cookbooks, about 10 other books and as I have been sober for 50 days I will be getting very very drunk.

Do you read your horoscope?

[Hawg Horse]

Congrats Darlin'!

Yes ... even worse, I'm slowly converting ... find it all so beautifully poetic.

If you could have chosen an astrological birth sign , which one would you have ... and why?

[Hawg Horse]

No, not a Troll.

What is your best memory of 2012?

[islandclimber]

A bottle of champagne to accompany surfing bio-luminescent waves through a midsummer night. Amazing.

Post-modernism or Modernism? (in literature)

[Hawg Horse]

Now that's a memory ... to long remember. Can't hardly wait for the book ... to follow :)

I'm not for sure ... maybe that means I think in the post-modern. In 1994, or so, How Late It Was, How Late won the Booker Prize, and it was hard for me to read, yet alone relate to its themes. Knowledge of Angels was shortlisted, and it remains my favorite novel. Truth is, I think I prefer moderism, but not sure I fully understand the difference.

How would you explain the difference between Modernism and P-M, and do you have a clear preference?

[islandclimber]

Briefly, I would suggest Modernism as trending towards the rational, organized, hierarchical, determinate, objective. Whereas Post-modernism trends towards the irrational, chaotic, anarchical, indeterminate, subjective.

My clear preference would be Post-Modernism. Thomas Pynchon is my favourite writer.

Did you travel to another country in 2012? What one(s)?

[Hawg Horse]

Western Samoa, Germany and U.S. Virgin Islands (not sure if it's another country).

Two questions: Which Pynchon novel is your favorite (I'd like to start a P-M adventure), and where did you surf "bio-luminescent waves through a midsummer night?"

[Buh4Bee]

Canada, Norway, Sweden, and Denmark.

What relative do you loath to interact with?

[islandclimber]

Well it appears I am blessed with the great fortune of answering multiple questions. You've both been all over. That's fantastic.

Hawg Horse

Gravity's Rainbow is my favourite. It is wonderfully disturbing. I'd start with Against the Day though. There's just something about it that makes it a great spot to begin.

Bio-luminescent waves were surfed at Florencia Bay on Vancouver Island after midnight this past July. Surreal.

Buh4Bee

I suppose, one of my cousins. He's quite bigoted, very ill-informed, a loud-mouth, and borderline alcoholic. Great combination of things, makes him quite charming! HA

Insomnia? Do you ever fall prey to it?

[Hawg Horse]

You are blessed indeed. Sounds like we may be related, or at least share a common relative. Thanx for the recommendations. I'll get back to you on Pynchon in a few weeks ... no doubt a better man.

Yes ... since my assault, I've gone to a stiff nightcap. If my insomnia persists, I may have to read the Bible for the 5th time, or worse, get married again.

Do you still maintain a land-line telephone at home?

[Buh4Bee]

Never suffer from insomnia- I can't sleep enough. I'd gladly sleep 12 hours a night if I could get away with it. Have always been a great sleeper. However, my husband is an insomniac.

No land line.

same question-but which will you answer?

[islandclimber]

I do. An old rotary phone. It spins wonderfully. I answer no one, I answer all. I'm confused.

Have you ever flown in a dirigible?

[Buh4Bee]

no.

Are you having a merry christmas if you celebrate the holiday? If not, are you having a nice day?

[islandclimber]

I am. It has been brilliant.

Do you sleepwalk?

[Hawg Horse]

A "brilliant day" has me thinking. I guess that means you were brilliant in the day, or that the happenings of the day were enlightening, or perhaps the time within the day itself took on a human quality, with a mind of its own. I like the coupling.
Hope today is another.

Yes, but only twice that I remember. Both times were during periods of high stress. Once I awoke on the stairs, another time in the kitchen. On both occaisions I had no memory of how I got there, or what skulduggery may have happened enroute.

I put the question back to you (?).

PS: What's a dirigible?

[papayahed]

No I don't sleepwalk.

I got snowed in today, what would you do if you got snowed in?

[islandclimber]

If I got snowed in... I'd likely curl up in bed all day with a couple books, watch a film, drink copious amounts of various herbal teas.

Would you live on a sailboat. If yes, where? If no, why not?

(PS. Hawg Horse... A dirigible is a lighter than air, airship. Like a blimp, or a zeppelin.)

[tonywalt]

Yes, and probably here and in Bermuda.

What time do you go to bed?

[Snowqueen]

Before midnight.

When do you get up in the morning?

[Buh4Bee]

About 8 am.

How often do you change your underwear?

[lilimarlene]

Everyday and when I work out twice a day.
What's the plan for New Year's Eve?

[Buh4Bee]

Unfortunately plans got cancelled due to plane cancellations/rescheduling. Had reservations to a really nice restaurant. Really sucks, so as of this point there are no plans.

same question

[lilimarlene]

party at a friend's house with my bf,it turned out really lovely. Small intimate group, good food, good drinks and great conversations and lots of dancing!

How's the New Year so far?

[Buh4Bee]

Lovely!

The last 3 days have been pretty typical.

How do you get to work or school?

[islandclimber]

In me very own automobile.

What do you do for work?

[papayahed]

I'm an operations manager at a chemical plant.

Where do you want to go for your next vacation?

[Buh4Bee]

Hudson river valley to visit my sister.

What kind of coffee do you prefer? (If at all...)

[lilimarlene]

espresso/ cappuccino

what is your favourite meal?

[Hawg Horse]

Breakfast on the twelves (noon or midnight).

In your astute opinion, what percent of married people cheat (not talkin' 'bout taxes here)?

[papayahed]

I want to believe the percentage is very low because I have a great hope for humanity, 10%.


I'm curious what everyone else thinks so same question?

[J.S. Ven]

I would hope low as well, but I wouldn't call one out of ten people I know low haha. My blissful ignorance/optimism tells me I should say about 6%

If you could save the life of one well known person who died prematurely, who would it be?

[lilimarlene]

Biggie Smalls aka The Notorious B.I.G :smilewinkgrin:
same Q

[lilimarlene]

I want to believe the percentage is very low because I have a great hope for humanity, 10%.


I'm curious what everyone else thinks so same question?

unfortunately, I think it's higher, like 20 %

[Hawg Horse]

Let's see there are quite a few to choose from ... must be a real Hippie, right, but, can't say Jesus, 'cause he already came back to life, so the next in my life line would be Bob Marley.
I also think that percentage point, at least in the U.S., is over 20% (near 100% if you include those who've cheated in their "hearts" aka day dreams).

Do you think there are clear advantages to being formally married over merely living in a committed relationship (aka living in "sin")?

[papayahed]

I think maybe.


Do you have any hobbies? (I'm looking for one)

[Twota]

Reading..

What is your most frequent dream?

[lilimarlene]

I actually don't have one.
What's the best movie you've seen so far this year.

[tonywalt]

The Master, it's from last year though.

What was the best song of last year?

[lilimarlene]

It's a toss up between Gangnam Style or Hot Problems.:banana::banana:

Same question.

[Twota]

Well, I was gonna say Gangam Style, but then decided to look up Hot Problems, it was funny. XD

But I give it to Gangam Style. :D

Your favorite chocolate? :D

[tonywalt]

Cadbury (as far as everyday counter chocolate goes)

PC or Apple?

[Twota]

PC, I just never get used to Apple. :D

What's your full name? :D

[lilimarlene]

why lilimarlene, of course!
What's yours?

[Twota]

Ali Ahmed Fahmy Ahmed Ali Soliman...

what is your height?

[lilimarlene]

162.5cm or 5"4'

how about you?

[2X2E5]

6"4
What's your dream vacation destination? (provide a picture if you have a specific place in mind)

[Twota]

England.

What is your biggest fear?