Have you even read the articles you quoted? Because they kind off label Lolita as masterpiece, reduce the problem to be an aesthetic one and justify the books due to Nabokov (and his family) own lost childhood. The best they do is to identify the theme of Lolita as Nabokov yerning for lost childhood. Not him with HH (which should be obvious, he may have meet someone like Lolita and he is emotional about it, your you thought his eyes flickering was his perveted mind?).
In fact, Amis article pretty much debunke you over and over (I guess someone already quoted Amis here to debunke you).
So my question is: are you in a cruzade against reading?