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    Quote Originally Posted by papayahed View Post
    I think the confusion comes in when we don't recognize the difference between an opinion and open-mindedness. I have opinions about a lot of things on a very superficial level I don't like fish. To be open minded do I have to try every single type of fish out there before I can make that statement? If that's the case how can I have an opinion about anything?
    What if you say you don't like fish, but are ready to try a fish you've never tasted before if someone asked you to? What would that make you?
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    Vacuum - good point papayahed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Annamariah View Post
    What if you say you don't like fish, but are ready to try a fish you've never tasted before if someone asked you to? What would that make you?
    It really depends. Fish, if I'd never had it before I would probably try it. However if it was that puffer fish that was being sold on a street corner in Omaha probably not. Does avoiding potential illness make me close minded? We have a brain to guide us why not use it.

    Would you do something just because somone asked you? I don't think it's all or nothing. I don't have to engage in a same sex marriage to know I don't care if someone else does it, nor do I need to try herion to determine if I am willing to accept the risks.
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    I agree. Common sense should always be used.
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    I don't know about you all, but I always feel like I'm at my open-minded best when I'm criticizing others for not being as open-minded as me. (joke )
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    Quote Originally Posted by papayahed View Post
    How do you not have preconcieved ideas? None of us live in a vacuum.
    My understanding of The Atheist's comment was that yes, we do have pre-conceived ideas, but we should try to consider other possibilities as well without letting those pre-conceived ideas interfere.

    Eg, in the case of fish... One can refuse to try any fish (even the new ones) based on the pre-conceived idea that they do not like fish. Or they decide to give a new kind of fish a try.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Comedian View Post
    I don't know about you all, but I always feel like I'm at my open-minded best when I'm criticizing others for not being as open-minded as me. (joke )
    So farrrnyy

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    I run across people, usually professors or professor wannabes that proclaim that they are absolutely open minded about life
    it seems professors all around the world are the same
    To me , having an open mind means having , always, enough rooms in your brain for new visitors without prejudices or preconceptions . And to allow these new visiters to take place of another one of your residents if they proove to be better of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scheherazade View Post
    However, that might be because I am only a woman with a lil' brain in me lil' 'ead.
    Well, there;s your answer!

    Quote Originally Posted by papayahed View Post
    How do you not have preconcieved ideas? None of us live in a vacuum.
    As Scher noted, you just put them away and use critical analysis to decide.

    I had an excellent example this morning when a friend sent me an e mail claiming a link between underarm deodorant and breast cancer.

    I'd never heard this one before, but it turns out to be an old theory. My initial thought was "Wow, that makes some sense", having regard to breast cancer incidence increases since 1950 and the fact that beasts are in fact quite close to armits. (In most cases! )

    Even better, there has been very little proper scientific enquiry into the subject, so information was sparse. On some fairly deep analysis, it turns out that the premsie is extreme;y unlikely. We can't prove that no link exists, but it appears that it isn't true, so we can ignore it while keeping an open mind as to new evidence.

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    In fact all of us kind of are not open minded and we live with lots of prejudices.

    “Those who seek to satisfy the mind of man by hampering it with ceremonies and music and affecting charity and devotion have lost their original nature””

    “If water derives lucidity from stillness, how much more the faculties of the mind! The mind of the sage, being in repose, becomes the mirror of the universe, the speculum of all creation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by isidro View Post
    I run across people, usually professors or professor wannabes that proclaim that they are absolutely open minded about life and therefore have no need to consider religion.

    However, if we ignore a certain manner of thinking or persuasion based upon a negative reputation it has acquired for being narrow minded and oppressive, are we really open minded? Or are we being narrow minded in refusing to consider it?
    We seem to be talking about two different things here. People can be open-minded whether they're religious or not. However, religion itself doesn't promote open-mindedness. Faith, by definition, is believing something without regard to evidence. Such a belief can't be tested or refuted, and it isn't meant to be.

    I think we all believe things we can't necessarily prove. But only religious believers consider credulity a virtue. And believing things even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary is no virtue.
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    The OP:
    Quote Originally Posted by isidro View Post
    I run across people, usually professors or professor wannabes that proclaim that they are absolutely open minded about life and therefore have no need to consider religion.

    However, if we ignore a certain manner of thinking or persuasion based upon a negative reputation it has acquired for being narrow minded and oppressive, are we really open minded? Or are we being narrow minded in refusing to consider it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Annamariah View Post
    There's a lot of things one can't be or do without upsetting all those open-minded people
    Well done, Annamariah!

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Open minded is in the eye of the beholder. There are things to be open minded about and things not to be open minded.
    Yes, I think you hit it right on the button there.

    Quote Originally Posted by Scheherazade View Post
    I consider myself very open minded...

    As long as my belief system is not challenged.
    Well done, Sher!

    Quote Originally Posted by feignfeign View Post
    i try to be respectful to all beliefs and life styles... but as i get older, i find it harder and harder to be respectful to Christians.
    That is interesting... I find it easier, probably because I no longer feel that I need to win every discussion or argument (Oh, yes, I think I may have been a handful in my younger days ).

    Quote Originally Posted by feignfeign View Post
    i am destined for hell after all.
    You too, eh? I had this information handed to me by a bloke handing out leaflets downtown the other day. It would seem that he took exception to the fact that I questioned the logic of some of his reasoning ).

    Quote Originally Posted by feignfeign View Post
    i am trying to stay steady and veer away from becoming some kind of christian hater... but ITS HARDDDD
    Hate is overrated: It consumes too much energy...

    Quote Originally Posted by Annamariah View Post
    But I can respect other people's views too, and like a good conversation about things we might not agree on. So what does that make me?
    Open minded, I guess...

    Quote Originally Posted by Gladys View Post
    Can one really understand the views of others without believing in them?
    I would like to think so. At the very least I would interpret an honest attempt to do so as openmindedness.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Atheist View Post
    To me, having an open mind is weighing up the evidence without any pre-conceived ideas, which is what I try to do with everything.
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    I think one can be open-minded about those subjects, but quickly come to the conclusion that they're wrong. It doesn't make you closed-minded, just sensible.
    I think that is a very sensible outlook.

    Quote Originally Posted by Annamariah View Post
    I agree. Common sense should always be used.
    Yes... The problem is that common sense is not all that common.

    Great discussion, everyone

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    A mind as open as the sky is indeed worthy of having, but not so wide that the ground is no longer a boundary. The doors of perception need to be able to close and occasionally lock, this is why I could never fall into any sort of religion, it is actually more closed-minded, IMO, to limit all the possibilities in the universe to one answer: God. Not that I have totally shut out any possibility that a god could be true, but it is really a hypothesis no longer worth investigating as it does not really explain anything. The 'higher power' worth keeping an open mind for would be truth, which no god can top.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Serena03 View Post
    it is actually more closed-minded, IMO, to limit all the possibilities in the universe to one answer: God ... The 'higher power' worth keeping an open mind for would be truth, which no god can top.
    An interesting counter to such a dismissal of God is offered in Ibsen's first successful play Brand of 1865. Here the priest Brand, living in a humble manse under the overhang of a remote glacier subject to avalanches, willingly sacrifices his life to an omnipotent and unchangeable God, a God of love.

    His God is fully defined by an unqualified, infinite and absolute love for the individual, a love without weakness or wavering. Brand is unreservedly a disciple and, for him, uncompromising love is the only possible truth. Human truths fade into insignificance alongside his timeless and limitless perspective. He is a man of action while other look on.
    "Love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself"

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