Litnet Crushes

[BienvenuJDC]

Unconditional love is not something that you "fall into", it is an action that one makes a commitment to another. Although it is difficult to do for another that does not reciprocate, sometimes you just have to wait until the other is receptive. However, it is possible to maintain that love.

[grace86]

Good idea, you will definetly be in an unconditional relationship as one knows the person through verbal interaction and not physical.

Hahaha now I just gotta find a nice chap. He should be handsome, intellectual, he should love to read...all sorts of literature - fictional and philosophy, maybe some history... (muahaha) and not be too young, nor too old....anyone know someone?

[Maryd.]

Hahaha now I just gotta find a nice chap. He should be handsome, intellectual, he should love to read...all sorts of literature - fictional and philosophy, maybe some history... (muahaha) and not be too young, nor too old....anyone know someone?

Ah er... B... Oops... I won't mention names.

[grace86]

Ah er... B... Oops... I won't mention names.

Ah Maryd dear you have to!! How else shall I participate in LitNet crushes unless I get a little help...seeing as how I frequent the forum so little!! How shall I ever meet him?

[Maryd.]

Well all I will say, is that there is a fellow who has been on this thread recently and fits your criteria... Hahahaha, criteria.... Hahahaha. Sorry... I got lost there.

[grace86]

Well all I will say, is that there is a fellow who has been on this thread recently and fits your criteria... Hahahaha, criteria.... Hahahaha. Sorry... I got lost there.

He hasn't to have commented first on this page has he? Hmmmm???

[Maryd.]

Hmmmmm, back at you dear. Maybe, maybe not. Oieew, I am so naughty.

[grace86]

Hmmmmm, back at you dear. Maybe, maybe not. Oieew, I am so naughty.

Haha that makes me laugh! You should be a litnet matchmaker

[Maryd.]

Yes, yes, I could do that... No wait, I would probably match up the same gender by accident. You know, with all that unconditional love... I wouldn't bother to find out their genders. Hahaha.

[BienvenuJDC]

Does anyone here think that I'm not reading all of this?

[Maryd.]

Does anyone here think that I'm not reading all of this?

You love the attention...

[soundofmusic]

"Overlove" now that's a term that will probably fit within my own dictionary! But perhaps it's not overlove that is a problem. Some of ya'll know that I'm a Christian...so I guess my godly love for people has had a tendency a number of times to give certain young fellows the wrong impression. Call me a nice girl I guess.

But as to actual relationships and or love interests, I guess I am counting down near having them all. One serious relationship I was cheated on like, five times. Next serious relationship I was engaged for two years and called it off. The third never turned into an "official" relationship...but guys are dumb like that because it was a relationship nonetheless. That one was kind of romantic - waiting a year for a godly led Prince Charming who plays the guitar, running off to far away countries...then to be dropped on the head. Then, later, again I was a bit emotionally used by another young fellow. And currently...the new prospect is a dear friend in the military I've known since childhood. He's coming home on leave from Iraq...and there goes another blistering Nicholas Sparks novel.....
So. In real life...that's my love life in a nutshell. But we all have some of those stories right?

Is it my imagination; or are Christian relationships more complicated than others. It's like one of the couple thinks, "Wooo, I guess if I'm a Christian the marriage thing is for real...
I was married to a Christian, the first year was okay; after that, everyday he told me he didn't want to be married. Finally, 71/2 years later, I said, "Guess What, I'm giving you what you want" He was shocked, "But we don't believe in divorce unless.....

Yes...yes, we do...
Don't you all wish that love was easy?

I've made a new rule, Jethro, from now on, Love is going to be easy or I'm not letting it in the house

Mums the word! On relationships for me... They are tedious and annoying. Everyone wants to be loved and needs to be loved, but foolishly we are all forgetting about the unconditional kind. This is where relationships get tested. That is my theory on love and why love fails. Because one or the other or both, cannot or will not love unconditionally.

It would really help if people would like us for who we are when they first get into a relationship instead of saying, "He'd be great if I could get him away from his friends" "Boy, you'd look so hot if you lost 10 pounds"

Well all I will say, is that there is a fellow who has been on this thread recently and fits your criteria... Hahahaha, criteria.... Hahahaha. Sorry... I got lost there.

He is perfect; maybe we can clone him

[BienvenuJDC]

He is perfect; maybe we can clone him

There's a perfect man? Yeah...and I'm Spiderman...

[Heathcliff]

Mums the word! On relationships for me... They are tedious and annoying. Everyone wants to be loved and needs to be loved, but foolishly we are all forgetting about the unconditional kind. This is where relationships get tested. That is my theory on love and why love fails. Because one or the other or both, cannot or will not love unconditionally.

Mother-child.

There's a perfect man? Yeah...and I'm Spiderman...

Are you Spiderman? That would be impressive.

I think love is an illusion entirely and a practical waste of time. Then again if you ask me when I'm in a good mood, I'd probably change my mind.
My theory is that is is total rubbish, but total rubbish could be magical in the eye of the beholder. Without 100% honesty from the time it begins, it will keel over.

Good thing all of this is only crushes. So much easier.

[soundofmusic]

There's a perfect man? Yeah...and I'm Spiderman...

My gosh, he is perfect and he can leap tall buildings and kiss you upsidedown out of windows...