Oh yeah, that guy is now in the Obama administration.
I understand the points you made above, and they crossed my mind to as I was putting together my argument. I can't answer why. Culture is complex. Was there a prejudice toward paying women? I would say yes, that is part of it. Do the traditional women's jobs have lesser skills? Yes, I would say that is part of it too. Have women had a propensity toward those jobs? In an old fashion industrialized world, is there a greater requirement for a brawny man to do physical labor, and therefore commend a higher pay? Yes, i would say historically that is true. I would say that is part of it too. Have women accepted lower pay? There are studies that show they have, so yes, that is part of it too. How do you unwind such complex interweaving threads? My irritation with the feminists is that they focus on a male conspiracy approach as if women weren't part of the decision making. If no one would accept a job as a secretary for $20,000/year (to pick a number) then the market would adjust and offer $25,000/year.
You think men aren't told to settle for high school teaching also? I don't know. I've had lenty of female professors.While I certainly have nothing to complain about personally in the way my own professional career has progressed thus far, I have fairly often gotten comments from people (men and women) who are surprised that I'm becoming a professor because professors are supposed to look like men with beards. I've even gotten more than one person telling me I should just settle into high school teaching because that would be easier for a woman. With a few exceptions most of the people making such comments aren't raging misogynists, but they do have a certain image of what a professor should look like and a certain idea of how much time and energy a woman has to put into her career. I can see how a young woman who has not had the sort of strong female role models that I've had in my life and/or doesn't have an exceptionally strong innate ambition might simply accept that women just don't chose to go into certain types of careers and assume that applies to her.
Well, that's true, women have had the major responsibility of raising children and it's tough to do both. Frankly, call me sexist, but I think it's natural for women to be the nurturers. But those decisons should be made at the family level. I know lots of men who jest they would love to be house husbands.The biggest factor, however, is as you rightly point out, the issue of a woman's role in raising children and tending to home and family. This has obviously long been the factor in women's liberation and it's no accident that things really started changing dramatically in the 20th century with the birth control pill which allowed women to chose to have a manageable sized family and not have the physical impediment and the danger of constant pregnancy holding them back. I'll agree that the issue now of women being less successful in their careers because they have taken time off for their children is a very complex one. Certainly as things are now, women do have to chose between work and family or strike a balance between the two in a way that most men never have to, and I can see that the desire to be home with one's children is in many cases coming from the woman herself rather than any particular social pressure. At the same time, not too long ago the argument ran that women couldn't have any kind of career at all because they had to stay at home with the children and tend the family home, and things have changed a lot with, among other things, fathers becoming more involved in the home life and the raising of their children. Now we're hearing that women simply can't get into top positions because they need to be home more with the children. I don't really know if we've reached a settled point or not with this. I don't know if the care for children will become much more 50/50, if we'll start seeing some dads who prefer to stay home, or if this really is where things will settle. I think it's an open question at the moment and I'll be interested to see where things go as my generation gets older.Most working career couples do share roughly 50/50. There is no alternative around it. There is only so much time in a day.
Sure, I agree. There is a certain gravitas that is perceived in a man when picking for leadership. Not right, but I think women need to adjust certain aspects to the way they relate to people. I think the teaching of women in the last twenty, thirty years has done wonders here. This is part of the success that has occurred in the teaching skills for women. I don't know if it has to do with roles, though I'm sure role models provide a sense of comfort. Women's sports has been great for women. Whatever the teachers are doing is working. Hey, my female R&D director is a pretty forceful lady. And i have seen some very aggressive women in the business world.I agree that for men and women with the same qualifications and experience in the same position these days the pay is usually about the same. I don't think it's true that there are absolutely zero incidents of preference for men over women in appointing people to top positions.
Wow, that's so old thinking. And in the very liberal world of university culture? Are you sure they weren't just coming up with excuses? People, including myself, come up with rationalizations when getting passed over. If true, that is wrong.I have known a couple of women who, in recent years, have been clearly passed up for promotion because there was some slight preference for having a man in the position (one was told that "Ed" needed the job more because he was the breadwinner for his family when both she and "Ed" had the same number of children and spouses who worked). I do, however, believe that such prejudice is absolutely the exception to the rule, quickly disappearing altogether, and that salaries on these terms are more or less equal.
I just find that hard to believe. Women professors are making less than a male professor for the same level of experience? And how is the college getting away with that? If you women can prove it, I suggest you take it to a lawyer and sue.Again, I am not claiming that the disparity in pay is primarily because of a difference in pay for the same job. I am saying that women with my level of education are making less than men with the same level of education. I'll agree that this could largely be because they're simply not either getting or pursuing the same high paying job and that this could be for a variety of complicated factors, but it doesn't mean you can throw out the numbers as bogus for indicating that women are not getting as far as men.
And I don't blame them and let me tell you there is probably greater satisfaction in being a successful mother than any sucessful career. There are many, if not most, women who swear by it. I have said many times here on lit net that women and especially mothers are the glue that holds society together. They are ourt true heros.Exactly. While I'm sure that this particular woman is happy with her choices and that it works for her, the implication here is that a woman who is going to make it to the top is one who will have given up marriage and/or children. We never hear that a man was able to make it to a top position because he didn't marry or have kids. Obviously most women are not going to forgo children and marriage altogether if they beleive that's the price they have to pay to make it to the top or if we all agree that it is the necessary price. Most men wouldn't either.
I did not mean to put words in your mouth. I was rebutting the feminist argument.You are putting words in my mouth based on your own assumptions about my attitudes toward feminism.
I do not believe that there is a coordinated effort by men to restrict women's salaries, and I can certainly say that I have always been treated as an equal in the workplace myself. I was not bringing these numbers up because I wanted to vilify men. I was bringing them up because you were making remarks about the "feminization of our culture."Well, truth be told, our culture has probably improved with it being more feminized. I was feeling particularly masculine when I wrote that.
Oh good, we agree.I agree with you that the reasons behind the gap in pay shown by the census numbers are much more complex and debatable than simply misogynists not wanting to pay women well, and I think that it probably has as much to do with the attitudes of women as it does with the attitudes of men.
Good rebuttal. You did a better job in debating than Neely. I'll leave it at that.Still, while the reasons behind it are up to debate, the gap itself is not, in fact, a myth. Men overall are getting more pay and more status in our society and, regardless of the reasons for it, I think that means that it is ridiculous to imply that we are living in a "feminized culture" that puts young men at a disadvantage. When the women have really taken over I will hear your complaints.
It is vague. I'm no educator, and really these things require experimentation. It may be vague to everyone at the moment. In my engineering, when we are trying to feel our way toward a solution, I refer to it as a lack of visibility. I believe that's the thrust of the article.To get back to your initial suggestion, I have no problem with talking about teaching approaches that might help either boys or girls succeed. I had, in fact, noticed that young men are especially competitive (it still shows a lot in the college classroom too, where the young men are definitely the majority of those who feel the need to challenge my authority, though that sort of challenge is very easy to deal with at the university level) and I don't see why, as Paulclem says, teachers couldn't capitalize on that sometimes if it will help them to reach a certain part of the class. What I was reacting to was the implication that men are at a disadvantage in our society, when I'm not really seeing that this is true at all (at least not yet) when you look at the bottom line of where men end up in terms of their pay and career as compared with women.
The only problem I have with the suggestions Virg. is making about competition is that they seem a little vague to me and I would be more interested in hearing some specific examples of things that really work in practice with hard to reach young men.
But that's not the competition I'm talking about. Women apparently need some form of sport to bring out the competitiveness out of their personalities. Boys already have the competitveness. They need to focus it on education, not ball playing.I am sure that any teacher, man or woman, dealing with the bottom 20-50% of boys and young men would grasp at anything they thought might get the kids engaged. I also don't really know that I'm seeing where competition has been washed out of schools. The high school scene is still very much focused on football,
Hey, i made an offer to that perspective female new hire today, and we did not offer her less than any man.Actually she has a 3.6 grade point average and that's outstanding in engineering. I hope she accepts.




Most working career couples do share roughly 50/50. There is no alternative around it. There is only so much time in a day.
Well, truth be told, our culture has probably improved with it being more feminized. I was feeling particularly masculine when I wrote that. 

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It is one of the things I'm not too thrilled with regarding the current administration.
I personally absolutely want to be a mother someday and think that it is probably one of the most satisfying experiences to be had. I imagine, though, that fathers might also say that their children are more important to them than any career. I don't see that having children for either men or women should mean that they have to give up a career that, even if secondary to family, is also a very important way for them personally to contribute to the world. 



... although my last girlfriend in college used to say I reminded her of a sort of medieval monk... of the Friar Tuck variety (not likely to give up his women
or good spirits
easily, handy in any barroom brawl
... yet ready to quote Dante or Chaucer.

