Sexual misbehavior as defined by whom, exactly? Would that include any sexual act other than sex between a married man and woman only for procreation using only the missionary position?
You're right, the only thing I, at least, consider as "sin" (though I don't call it that) is causing harm to others, and I don't see sex between consenting adults to be a harm to anyone.We "rail" about sin because we know that it ultimately leads to self-destruction. Non-believers see "sin" as little more than some sort of mistake, or crime - they don't see it with the same eyes we do - namely, that it has eternal consequences.
Actually, I would have a problem with that, because if those things aren't abused they don't harm anyone at all. If Christians don't like those things, they're free to not do those things, but banning them just because their particular diety is considered to not like them is merely oppression.You'd not have a problem with Christians "railing" about smoking, or heroin use, or prostitution because (I assume) you'd see those as self-destructive; well, sin is WORSE.
Life is what leads to death; we are all under a sentence of death for the crime of having been born. Aside from that, things like driving cars or burning candles can "ultimately lead to death", would you therefore ban those things?It leads (ultimately) to death.
So, if it's not a valid alternative to heterosexuality, then simply don't engage in it - but Christians are the ones pushing their "morality" on everyone else.The Bible lists homosexuality as a sin - so we think its self-destructive. What we "rail" about is not that homosexuality exists but that society seems hell-bent on pushing it as a valid alternative to heterosexual behavior - that's why we're "railing" - just like you might "rail" is you saw TV shows advocating prostitution or drugs as viable alternatives to traditional jobs or medications.



