How are you feeling today?

[ShoutGrace]

But I need advice desparately ^_^
Not so different from Caesar's situation.

Forget about him!! He's not good enough for you . . . reason all the way.

[AimusSage]

, this reminds me of something

Anyway, I feel tired

Oh, and to oppose David's view, and show a more emotional side of me you will rarely see:

GO FOR IT!

[thevintagepiper]

I agree with the reason part, but there are two (really great) guys in this dilemma and I don't know what to do either way.

[AimusSage]

create a quiz and whoever gets most answers right is the winner.

[ShoutGrace]

I agree with the reason part, but there are two (really great) guys in this dilemma and I don't know what to do either way.

FORGET them both!!!

Hold out for someone worth your while (a situation which is, admittedly, highly unlikely to occur).

[thevintagepiper]

Interesting idea!
I definitely know where my heart is leading me, but reason doesn't go one way more than the other. I guess that means I'm just being absurd, but I feel bad because one person is a good friend and I don't want to hurt his feelings. It may be silly, but that's me...

And forgetting them both isn't a bad idea either, but then I'd be thinking "what if" all the time, and besides, then I'd have two hurt friends on my hands, and a pretty diasppointed me

Argghh!

[AimusSage]

Gah, just decide, it's the best thing you can do, and franckly the only thing to do. Holding out for mr. Perfect is useless. Indecision only leads to bigger problems.

Don't worry about hurting feelings either, he'll get over it.

[ShoutGrace]

Don't worry about hurting feelings either, he'll get over it.

Easy for you to say.

Would you get over a lass like that?

[Idril]

The fact of the matter is that the lady has put the ball in my court; not directly, though. But you can easily tell when a girl goes gaga over you.

I’m indecisive because, firstly, she is my subordinate and it might lead to complications at my office and secondly, because I have fallen merely for her looks and I already want, regardless of my falling in love with her, to change her (because I disagree with almost all her opinions, ideas and even ideals). This again might lead to complications because one should love another the way he/she is.

Just because you date, doesn't mean you have to fall in love. Not all dating situations need to turn into long term commitments. Sometimes it's fun to just have a fling. Although, the office thing is more of an issue than anything else I think, especially if you would consider this more of a fling than a possibly serious relationship. Things could get awkward if the relationship fails and considering the fact that there's nothing you really admire about her other than her looks, that's probably a given. There is such a thing as opposites attract but there usually has to be some common ground for that to work.

[AimusSage]

Easy for you to say.

Would you get over a lass like that?

I'm not answering that.
It's not a matter of getting over anything really, it's all about being as cold as ice. A day in the fridge will solve any and all love related problems.

Besides, better to decide now and tell him than to keep them both on a leash and make both of them feel even worse in the end.

[kilted exile]

lethargic.......

[ShoutGrace]

A day in the fridge will solve any and all love related problems.

Oh, I could learn a lot from you!

Besides, better to decide now and tell him than to keep them both on a leash and make both of them feel even worse in the end.

That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

[thevintagepiper]

The one I'm not sure about has had a really hard life/year, and is a good friend, so I feel bad. Still, he hasn't said anything and the other has, and frankly I do really like the other.


To add to it all, there is a previously unmentioned person (back home) who I had some sort of understanding with, and though he seems to be drifting away, that makes me feel worse, but it wasn't exactly my choice not to like him anymore.

But I don't "date" anyway, so it could get complicated

[AimusSage]

That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

Which reminds me, better check up on something in the basement.

[thevintagepiper]

That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

Which I completely don't! I know you know that, but that's part of my dilemma.