Mililalil XXIV,
It is absurd how you make claims that have absolutely nothing to do with the teachings of the Bible. There were MANY incidents in the Bible referring to polygamy, and it was not condemned in any way. Abraham a.s had two wives at the same time, Hagar and Sarah, and he as a Prophet of God. HOw can you claim that after becoming a Prophet, he needed more purification to actually get a son???? Ismail was his first born son; even if you do not accept Hager as his first wife, his first son was still Ismail. What does it matter who the wife is; a man becomes a father when a woman bears HIS son, and he doesn't chose which to name the first son and which the second. That is kind of determined by the order the sons are born.
Here are verses from the Bible stating exactly opposite of what you are speaking.
Deu 21:17If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, [both] the beloved and the hated; and [if] the firstborn son be hers that was hated:
Deu 21:16
Then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit [that] which he hath, [that] he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, [which is indeed] the firstborn
Clearly, the son who was born first, is the firstborn, regardless of who the mother is. If Christians only accepted the Bible as it is, we'd certainly had a more common ground than we do now.
Another thing..I guess you started talking about polygamy because of the hadith I stated in which Prophet a.s said: "I pray and I
sleep; I fast and I break my fast; and I marry women. Whoever turns
away from my way of life is not from me." (Bukhari) , however, even though polygamy is allowed in Islam, this hadith had nothing to do with that. The Prophet a.s simply stated that he lives a regular, balanced life, and that this is the way of Islam. He lived most of his life with his first wife Khatidje r.a until her death. After that he married he lived in polygamous marriages, and married a lot of widowers and poor women to give them protection. Also, the women of the Prophet a.s are known for the imortance of teaching Islam to other women and giving a lot of insight into the marriage life of muslims through hadiths that were narrated by them wich are of great importance to today's women. Islam allows polygamy, but it is not obligatory, nor is it very prevelant in the muslim world today. However, we do not try to corrupt our scriptures simply because it doesn't fit the social norms of the society we live in today. You chose that path, but my fear of punishment for changing God's word surpasses my wish to please the ever changing social norms and standards.