Ecurb wrote:
I don't understand a word you say. Ftil says "emotional responses that are reactive are not blissful for those who deal with a reactive person." Suppose you say, "I love you" to someone, and that person, without pausing to think, responds by gushing, "Oh how I've hoped and dreamed for this day! I love you too, with all my heart and soul!" Then she starts covering you with kisses. According to ftil, the person who first said “I love you” cannot, somehow, find that "blissful". I don't get it.
Hehehe…...I was not talking about expressing love. I talked about less pleasurable emotions like anger or rage that is expressed in inappropriate or even a threatening manner.
Ignorance is not an emotional state. I agree on that. I was talking about the lack of knowledge about appropriate ways of dealing and expressing emotions. In other words, it s not about we feel but how we express it. We may be happy and out of happiness we may want to dance naked on the street. But for how long we can enjoy dancing…..ftil goes on to say, "In other words, emotional ignorance is only blissful to the reactive person." Since my entire point was that "ignorance" is not an emotional state, but a description of the level of knowledge someone has attained, I have no idea what “emotional ignorance” refers to. But, in my previous example, it appears that the emotional reaction of the “reactive person” (this sound like a legal brief) will probably create a “blissful state” for the initiator.
I don’t say emotional response or rational responses. If we emphasize emotional response, we ignore relational mind and vice versa. We need both and we can’t ignore one or the other……..if we don’t want to be blissfully ignorant of others. Some may call it emotional immaturity or we may call it emotional ignorance.



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