How are you feeling today?

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Originally Posted by thevintagepiper

But I need advice desparately ^_^
Not so different from Caesar's situation.

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Forget about him!! He's not good enough for you . . . reason all the way. :D

:D, this reminds me of something :lol: :lol: :lol:

Anyway, I feel tired:as-sleep:

Oh, and to oppose David's view, and show a more emotional side of me you will rarely see:

GO FOR IT! :nod:

I agree with the reason part, but there are two (really great) guys in this dilemma and I don't know what to do either way. :(

create a quiz and whoever gets most answers right is the winner. :p

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Originally Posted by thevintagepiper

I agree with the reason part, but there are two (really great) guys in this dilemma and I don't know what to do either way. :(

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FORGET them both!!!

Hold out for someone worth your while (a situation which is, admittedly, highly unlikely to occur). :nod:

:lol: Interesting idea!
I definitely know where my heart is leading me, but reason doesn't go one way more than the other. I guess that means I'm just being absurd, but I feel bad because one person is a good friend and I don't want to hurt his feelings. It may be silly, but that's me...

And forgetting them both isn't a bad idea either, but then I'd be thinking "what if" all the time, and besides, then I'd have two hurt friends on my hands, and a pretty diasppointed me :)

Argghh!

Gah, just decide, it's the best thing you can do, and franckly the only thing to do. Holding out for mr. Perfect is useless. Indecision only leads to bigger problems.

Don't worry about hurting feelings either, he'll get over it. :)

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

Don't worry about hurting feelings either, he'll get over it. :)

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Easy for you to say. :p

Would you get over a lass like that? :D

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Originally Posted by caesar

The fact of the matter is that the lady has put the ball in my court; not directly, though. But you can easily tell when a girl goes gaga over you. ;)

I’m indecisive because, firstly, she is my subordinate and it might lead to complications at my office and secondly, because I have fallen merely for her looks and I already want, regardless of my falling in love with her, to change her (because I disagree with almost all her opinions, ideas and even ideals). This again might lead to complications because one should love another the way he/she is. :(

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Just because you date, doesn't mean you have to fall in love. Not all dating situations need to turn into long term commitments. Sometimes it's fun to just have a fling. Although, the office thing is more of an issue than anything else I think, especially if you would consider this more of a fling than a possibly serious relationship. Things could get awkward if the relationship fails and considering the fact that there's nothing you really admire about her other than her looks, that's probably a given. There is such a thing as opposites attract but there usually has to be some common ground for that to work.

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Originally Posted by ShoutGrace

Easy for you to say. :p

Would you get over a lass like that? :D

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I'm not answering that. :goof:
It's not a matter of getting over anything really, it's all about being as cold as ice. A day in the fridge will solve any and all love related problems. :nod:

Besides, better to decide now and tell him than to keep them both on a leash and make both of them feel even worse in the end.

lethargic.......

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

A day in the fridge will solve any and all love related problems. :nod:

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Oh, I could learn a lot from you! :lol:

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

Besides, better to decide now and tell him than to keep them both on a leash and make both of them feel even worse in the end.

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That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

The one I'm not sure about has had a really hard life/year, and is a good friend, so I feel bad. Still, he hasn't said anything and the other has, and frankly I do really like the other.


To add to it all, there is a previously unmentioned person (back home) who I had some sort of understanding with, and though he seems to be drifting away, that makes me feel worse, but it wasn't exactly my choice not to like him anymore.

But I don't "date" anyway, so it could get complicated :(

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Originally Posted by ShoutGrace

That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

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Which reminds me, better check up on something in the basement. :goof:

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Originally Posted by ShoutGrace

That, I suppose I definitely agree with. She could really inflict some strenuous torture if she wishes.

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Which I completely don't! I know you know that, but that's part of my dilemma.

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Originally Posted by thevintagepiper

Which I completely don't!

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I am still thinking you should dismiss them all!! Just inform them as to your greatly superior appearance/intellect and then get on with your life! :D

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

Which reminds me, better check up on something in the basement.

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It's comments like this, sir, that cause me to question whether or not you ingested any psychotropic substances after you left earlier. ;) :D (and cause me to laugh out loud)

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Originally Posted by thevintagepiper

Which I completely don't!

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Oh come on, inflicting torture is fun (or is that just me?). Anyway, here's my advice for what its worth, which frankly aint much.


Guy back home: screw him, he didnt stay in touch & long distance stuff never works.

Guy who hasnt said anything: He hasnt said anything, he has no reason to feel hurt, you can still be his friend.

Guy who has said something: You like him, he likes you. I dont see the problem.

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Originally Posted by kilted exile

Oh come on, inflicting torture is fun (or is that just me?). Anyway, here's my advice for what its worth, which frankly aint much.


Guy back home: screw him, he didnt stay in touch & long distance stuff never works.

Guy who hasnt said anything: He hasnt said anything, he has no reason to feel hurt, you can still be his friend.

Guy who has said something: You like him, he likes you. I dont see the problem.

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Pretty good philosophy (and basically what I'm thinking) but the guy back home did keep in touch, he just doesn't sound the same and it doesn't feel the same. And it isn't like I'm trying not to like him anymore; I'd rather not have to worry about people here...it just happened. At the same time I think emotionally it's probably better for me not to be obsessed with a person for too long...then you can get hurt (being my age anyway, and planning on courtship...). It's so confusing. I feel like a hypocrite too, since I've been raised to court and not date, yet I basically just don't put a name on it now.

I know who I like, and I know what my reasoning is, I'm just hesitant and afraid to hurt anyone, including myself (though I'm pretty sure things will be ok on that end because I'm extremely careful and obviously agonize a great deal over everything).

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Originally Posted by Shoutgrace

It's comments like this, sir, that cause me to question whether or not you ingested any psychotropic substances after you left earlier. (and cause me to laugh out loud)

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Psychotropic substances? :confused: I assure you I'm quite free of the likes, except perhaps a painkiller. :)

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Originally Posted by thevintagepiper

I know who I like, and I know what my reasoning is, I'm just hesitant and afraid to hurt anyone, including myself (though I'm pretty sure things will be ok on that end because I'm extremely careful and obviously agonize a great deal over everything).

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Hesitation ultimately leads to lots of hurt for everyone :nod:
Just take a chance! :D

Alright. I pretty much know my standing now and am feeling less confused, thanks to talking it out with y'all; but what say you, ShoutGrace, to Aimus' final statement?

excited but tierd now.
Also a bit miffed thy forgot to bring the costumes so we were stuck in boring 21st century close while the rest of the town turned 17th century

Amazing! i feel great!

Unsure.

I might have to go for this interview, that is, if at all they call, and I badly want to get into this company, I have to study, I dont know what they'll ask, what will I do, and in the end will I be selected. Oh, I wish, these interviews were not so frightening. I dont know why I have this feeling that I will commit blunders and may not get through.

The morning has chilled me , and now i'm feeling rather cold and lonely... :(

s A D


:( :(

I definitely feel a little misplaced and bewildered, and I'm thinking about some larger issues.

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Unsure.

I might have to go for this interview, that is, if at all they call, and I badly want to get into this company, I have to study, I dont know what they'll ask, what will I do, and in the end will I be selected. Oh, I wish, these interviews were not so frightening. I dont know why I have this feeling that I will commit blunders and may not get through.

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Good luck with it, Madhuri!

I am feeling bad. Monday is coming the day I hate! :(

why do you hate mondays? back to work and all that?

My ex is getting married and I;ve got a wedding invitation. So you can imagine how I feel. She's so much 'hotter' than me...but a complete and utter bimbo. so thats some consolation!

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Originally Posted by optimisticnad

why do you hate mondays? back to work and all that?

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Yes, yes and yes!

Awwwwwwwwwwwww

Cant u just saty and home and be poor? :-) Whats the alternative?

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Originally Posted by optimisticnad

Awwwwwwwwwwwww

Cant u just saty and home and be poor? :-) Whats the alternative?

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Not really. There is no alternative but to hate this "Monday." :(

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Good luck with it, Madhuri!

I am feeling bad. Monday is coming the day I hate! :(

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Thanks Pensy, I have to get a call first, it is only after that the real test will start, I have attended so many interview but everytime I feel as if its the first time. I have to study just incase they decide to call me. I wish, they call me only to take me, and not to give the usual answer 'We'll inform you' :)

I hate Monday's too, but I dont want to be poor, so I shall go to work. :nod:

so why specifically this monday?

whatever happened to the bank of mom and dad hey???!!!! If only I were five again and a quid couldl buy me happiness!
Mad, dont stress so much. i think most peole get scared by interviews, what i cant decide is that is one to one interviews better or worse than a whole panel of them??

not good... i think i might have over drank last night ... :eek:

I feel bad. The creative writing I have written for English teacher is really poor. And it's going to be my assembly turn in school tomorrow where I will have to present my own written poem and thought of the day. I don't know, how I am going to perform...I feel so much nervous too...

Oh dont worry! you'll do fine. If you forget something, jus' improvise. Good Luck!! and remember you dont have to be perfect, you have to be just you. :)

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Originally Posted by Madhuri

Oh dont worry! you'll do fine. If you forget something, jus' improvise. Good Luck!! and remember you dont have to be perfect, you have to be just you. :)

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Thanks, I know that I will need a good luck in order to do well. :)

:banana: happy :banana:

I feel good!

The assembly turn went really well!