Originally Posted by
ftil
Hm…..I see it a different way. I don’t look for the answers, because when I look for the answer and accept a belief, I close my mind to find an alterative explanation. So, I constantly ask questions, seek, and search.
Secondly, as one of my professors said, “every theory is just an educated guesswork” It is very freeing, isn’t it? I question everything and I am comfortable doing it even though I had many times storm over my head for doing it. I also pay a careful attention when I become defensive. It is always a signal to look deeper and uncover beliefs that are blocks.
Finally, I see being open minded as being comfortable to challenge any belief I hold as truth. There are people who have a quite rigid belief system. From psychological point of view, psychologically healthy people have a flexible belief system. I have found it very freeing too. I wouldn’t say that a person is open minded who tolerates as you said, “ without having to deal with having to deal with anything that might bother you about the ways of the larger world of which you are a part” I would see it as an example of close minded person or a person who uses denial as a way of coping with uncomfortable reality. People are so unique and perceived ignorance may have different roots.