Originally Posted by
Ecurb
The Brontes hated governessing (and tutoring, in Branwell's case) but Jane Eyre didn't seem to have been too badly off. Her ward liked her, Rochester was rarely home, and when he was home, he fell in love with her (too bad he was married).
We don't have to look that far afield to find a governess, though. I'm sure Mrs. Weston (poor Miss Taylor, formerly) had to deal with Emma's moods, and had to cater to Mr. Woodhouse's ailments. She did (acc. Mr. Woodhouse) choose to leave Hartfield for a house that is half the size (and who can blame her?). Still, it seems she was introduced into Highbury society as a social equal who could marry Mr. Weston, and she remains Emma's good friend.
I'm sure many jobs, back then, were worse than today's cushy jobs, but Miss Taylor seems to have lived a better life than most slaves in Antigua. Besides, (if I remember correctly) Mrs. Weston was in the party when Jane Fairfax whines about her prospects and compares them to slavery. Isn't that rude and condescending? I wonder if Mr. Knightley noticed, like he noticed Emma's transgression against Miss Bates?