What Attracts You First? Poll #1 for Women Only

[Alexander III]

I'd like to study women more.

:aureola:

[KCurtis]

Aren't intellectuals, like Orwell and Hitchens, the ultimate alphas? Tell me if I am mistaken, but unless you are really into athletics or womanizing, it seems the ultimate expressions of one's alpha male dominance are in the realm of the mind, in debate.

The brain is the ultimate weapon, the most powerful feature of modern man. Women see a guy with a good head on his shoulders and this turns them on, on a surface and on an instinctual level.

To me its all about instincts. Charm is mostly cerebral. The best way to impress a woman is to charm her. Dancing is good too but I find there are a lot of women who are too self-conscious to dance and will only do so if they are drunk.

Which brings me to something I should express my annoyance at. The oversexualization of dance. Dance is not just a sex thing, its a fun thing. I go dance in a bar and I have these bleach-blonde tanning-bed-addicted Oompa Lumpas getting all over me when I really just want to dance. What is with that? Such things are supposed to be done in a bedroom or the backseat of a car, not on a dance floor in front of complete strangers.

I need a time machine. 12th century Ireland is where I belong. Any time God, any time......
No, you don't need to be in 12th century Ireland-we just need more men like you. A charming and smart man is what women love. You are wise beyond your years, but I have told you this already. And you are right about dancing- I'll take 1920's dancing any day.