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    I don't know.. I really have no idea .
    Sometimes we think we could be happy if .. we live in a bigger house.. have more money .. no work to worry about.. and... and ... and .. A long list of our wishes and desires and i have no idea if even after all that one can be happy.
    Problems are the salt of life.. and no one is ever happy about anything . Later on problems will come out from no where even if its the perfect life.
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    It would be nice to live in a perfect world... but only for a brief time.

    Sooner or later, that concept of perfection, like many other things in life, will grow dull, and quickly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheChilly View Post
    It would be nice to live in a perfect world... but only for a brief time.

    Sooner or later, that concept of perfection, like many other things in life, will grow dull, and quickly.
    I agree. At first, everyone will be all happy and such, but that wouldn't last long. Eventually people would want change, and they would want out. Take The Giver, for example.
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    Of course I'd be happy in a perfect life, that's tautological. If I weren't happy, it wouldn't be perfect after all!

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    I guess it would depend on the definition of "perfect." I always assumed "perfect" met that nothing was distressing, that everything was easy. However, if a person thought that a "perfect" world was one with challenges and wasn't easy, then I guess we are all living in a perfect world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SilentMute View Post
    I guess it would depend on the definition of "perfect." I always assumed "perfect" met that nothing was distressing, that everything was easy. However, if a person thought that a "perfect" world was one with challenges and wasn't easy, then I guess we are all living in a perfect world.
    I just saw you sort of defined terms in the original post. Yet even with 'distressing things', it depends from what perspective one looks at it. If something distressing turns out to have a good overall effect on your life, is it still distressing, or, with hindsight, actually something good?

    I don't think our current world is perfect at all, though I'm also not too pessimistic about it. It's a great question anyway. Extensive suffering is definitely bad, and should be eliminated if possible. On the question of whether 'a little' suffering is sometimes useful, I'm not quite convinced. Maybe up to some extent.

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    No. Conflict, strife and struggle are what keep me going and learning as a person. I wouldn't have any motivation if there wasn't a challenge or the risk of failure.
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    Society has shown that in times of economic boom, where there is high employment and a good quality of life for the majority, that crime actually increases dramatically.

    So there is no possibility of a perfect life unless you are alone with one you love and surrounded by books, music and juicy steaks.

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    I have to admit I get really bored when my life is going well. I start thinking about doing something totally stupid and self-destructive...like going to this online spanking party or something.
    I don't care if the glass is half full or half empty, I'm just glad to have a glass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SilentMute View Post
    I have to admit that I get bored very quickly when my life is tranquil and perfect.
    Ah, but if it bores you it cannot be considered perfect, can it? Your version of a perfect life would be what is perfect to you, maybe not what you expect or consider to be perfect.

    It is all in the eye of the beholder, or rather in the individual definition of perfect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SilentMute View Post
    I remember watching the movie [I]The Matrix[I], and there was one part where one of the bad guys was telling Keanu Reeves character (I think) that originally they had created a perfect world for humans--but that humans had rejected it. That part stuck in my head.
    I think the guys in the matrix decided to reject it not because it was "perfect," but because it didn't give them real or true knowledge about the world. Of course, one could say, that the matrix indeed was not perfect for exactly this reason. In other words, a prefect world has to give one real or true knowledge about it.

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    If there is a higher force at work, it does seem that our experiences--particularly the bad ones--help us learn lessons that move us towards enlightenment. Yet, I sometimes wonder if we would be happy in our concepts of enlightenment or heaven. Probably our concepts are flawed anyway--but do we really want to live in a perfect world? I have to admit that I get bored very quickly when my life is tranquil and perfect.

    Of course, I suppose I should define perfect--because it might be a different concept for everyone. By perfect, I mean a world in which nothing distressing ever happens and no need goes unfulfilled. There are no problems of any sort.
    Your notion of perfect is, I think, currently how most of us tend to see it.
    But by this definition of perfect, "I mean a world in which nothing distressing ever happens and no need goes unfulfilled. There are no problems of any sort," when you say your live is "tranquil and perfect" it's not really prefect. As pointed out by Claes, this is in virtue of (among other things) your boredom, which is a symptom of an unfulfilled need. If one can soundly argue (let's assume that they can) that humans need stress to some extent, and if the only way to solve your problem of boredom is by introducing distress, then a perfect world, by this definition, becomes an oxymoron. In other words, to need distress makes your conception of a perfect world unattainable to humans: it is an utter impossibility to have no distress and to fulfill every need simultaneously; and this, in itself, is a huge problem, which contradicts the definition further.

    As for the commonsense concepts of "heaven," which generally ascribe to similar definitions of perfect, we encounter similar problems.

    So I think we need a better definition of perfect. On a commonsense level the perfect world should be the world that makes one happiest. But how can most people's commonsense conception of perfection then be heaven, one might ask? The best conclusion, I would argue, is that people generally don't know what makes them happy (that is, along with the pleasures a daily dose of obstacles to overcome). But I digress!

    If we keep the first intuition that perfection entails happiness, though, then, in this perfect world a perfect amount of suffering would exist. This goes against the general notion of perfection but granted all the premises is a valid inference.

    To be continued...
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    If it's perfect, then we'd always be happy, right? From start to finish--womb to dust? Then there'd be nothing in contrast, nothing to judge it against. Happy wouldn't be happy--it'd just be the norm.
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    When I was a teenager, and still a practicing Catholic, I was terrified of turning into a barren spinster, and attempted to negotiate with Christ over the matter. I never had a beau in highschool, ever. I was the only disabled student in the district, and was accepted in class, but not socially, except when my mother managed to get every hottie I had a crush on to show up for my sweet 16. Never translated into a boyfriend, so most of my sexuality wrapped itself into my teachers, married or not. Ditto university, except toward the end I had a brief and not very pleasant relationship with a 23 year old more screwed up than I was. My only disabled liason proposed marriage when I was in my early forties, and had I been more assertive, I could have spared us both the fact that he disgusted me, but I tried very hard, and it is only through my failure with him I discovered that what my blind married friends tried to tell me was right, that spousal relations don't necessarily complete you, and so here I am, a spinster more happy to be alone than to take the trouble assuring male virility. Still, I sit here, through the looking glass, knowing how much I might have had to offer if someone might have been able to love me for my own sake, except that, you really would not be what you are in an alternate skin, and Lionel Shriver's excellent work suggests you might have wound up in the same place anyway, even if you had made other choices.

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    One of my favorite books at the moment is The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold. What I found interesting about this book is her concept of heaven.

    Heaven is sculpted by each person's point of view. It smells differently for each person, and it has different landscapes and activities. Oddly enough, a person may not meet the people they love right away who have predeceased them. Heaven expands and offers more as the person grows emotionally. For instance, the main character didn't initially see a beloved grandfather in her heaven until she started to let go of her unrequited desires for life on earth.

    That is actually very close to my idea of the afterlife. It isn't the concept of perfect that is popular, but it would probably be very satisfying because there would still be challenges to interest us.
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