I hope you don’t mind my butting in on this discussion but I am fond of both the Iliad and the Odyssey and read them both at least once a year.

With regard to the discussion about the Trojan’s being civilized:
In his introduction to The Iliad, transated by Robert Fagles, (1990) Bernard Knox also comments on the civilized nature of the Trojans vs the Greeks. Interestingly, he describes the qualities we associate with civilization, as being the Trojan’s weakness.
“Unfortunately for Troy, the Trojans have the defects of their qualities: they are not so much at home in the grim business of war as their opponents.” (1990 p32).
Both the Iliad and Odyssey in my library are Fagles’ translations and I would agree that the Iliad is a far more compelling read, inevitably so in my opinion. The subject and scope is grander, more violent and concentrated into specifics of time, place and purpose. The Odyssey meanders like the journey of it’s hero, and is inter-cut with Penelope’s plight and Telemachus’ own wanderings in search of news of his father.