Let’s see what you wrote and what I was responding to:
“If the child (and later the adult) ends up never reading anything more than Dan Brown, Rowling, pulp fiction and romance novels is this really better than not reading at all?”
So you’re seriously suggesting that it may be better to read nothing at all than for an adult or whoever to only read Dan Brown, Rowling, pulp fiction, and romance novels, thus implying they are wasting their time, and you cannot figure out how that is condescending?
Condescending (from dictionary.com):
showing or implying a usually patronizing descent from dignity or superiority
Your words fit the definition perfectly. Moving on . . .
Funny, I don’t remember calling you or anybody an elitist snob. Thanks for playing the Victomhood card ™. Nevertheless, this is not a red herring because my comments directly relate to your question about whether people who read non-Canonical literature should bother reading. I answered with factors that were relevant, especially since you put it in question form (even though slightly rhetorical); basically, I answered the question by noting that reading “great” Literature and reading only Dan Brownish works hasn’t affected the quality and success in their life, and they take pleasure in those books, so I see no reason that reading nothing is better than reading some kind of novel.
See now a red herring would be going on a long rant about how you define elitism, which bears no relation to the original question of why you think reading nothing might be better than reading Dan Brown or Stephen King, especially when no one has called you an elitist.