Is it really entirely about that? It sounds more like something the author would be looking for rather than the narrator - a search continued in Ada. Humbert himself does not seem like an old person, which implies that for the most of it (or even entirely), the book is not about trying, but succeeding to recapture youth - about ageless youth, or rather the abandonment of concerns about one's age. So truly, Lolita is about human interactions without the pressure of social and moral constraints, which does not exclude sexuality as an integral part of the central theme.It is about aging and trying to recapture youth. Nabokov referred to Lolita elsewhere as "the Cup of Hebe".
But it does put an interesting question. How would the young percieve Lolita?
Think of the beginning, where the author set up the story. It was about eternal, youthful love, but it was not about physical sexual activity.
Humbert was not old, but he was middle-aged. I don't recall whether a specific age was given, but I had the impression that he was in his late 40's at the beginning. That is certainly far from old age, but it is well out of youth.
I think that it might be more accurate to say that it is about regaining the freedom and lack of responsibility of youth. Of course, sexuality would not be excluded, but that was peripheral, and the novel is certainly not concerned in sexually stimulating readers.
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That would depend on the reader...sexuality would not be excluded, but that was peripheral, and the novel is certainly not concerned in sexually stimulating readers.
Actually, if you refer to Humbert's childhood relation with Annabel, it suggested plenty of erotism - not necessarily passed to the reader, but present between them. Have you ever been in love at age 12? Eternal, youthful love? Drawn, tantalizing prelude, desire to explore, fantasies, expectations - unfortunately cut loose by the moral, the vulgar, and by fate.
Same thing with his meeting of Lolita. Humbert percieved the moment through a haze of erotism. Do we dismiss it as irrelevant, as secondary? It's a mater of choice. Sex it's not all about intercourse. It's circumstance, thoughts, senses.
Humbert tries to regain the freedom of youthful love? I'll agree with that. But can we say that youthful love is platonical?
I suppose that it's a matter of how one defines eroticism. I don't consider eroticism to be possible before puberty, so per-pubescent love is, by necessity, non-erotic. While Humbert engaged in eroticic behavior with Delores, that was not included in the book.
I didn't see any signs of eroticism in the relation between Annabel and Humbert. You can, if you like, but there was nothing explicit.
Puberty starts at 9-10. Lolita was 12, while Annabel and Humbert were around the same age when their relationship unfolded.I suppose that it's a matter of how one defines eroticism. I don't consider eroticism to be possible before puberty, so per-pubescent love is, by necessity, non-erotic.
"All at once we were madly, clumsily, shamelessly, agonizingly in love with each other; hopelessly, I should add, because that frenzy of mutual possession might have been assuaged only by our actually imbibing and assimilating every particle of each other's soul and flesh; but there we were, unable even to mate as slum children would have so easily found an opportunity to do."I didn't see any signs of eroticism in the relation between Annabel and Humbert. You can, if you like, but there was nothing explicit.
"we would sprawl all morning, in a petrified paroxysm of desire, and take advantage of every blessed quirk in space and time to touch each other"
"sometimes a chance rampart built by younger children granted us sufficient concealment to graze each other's salty lips; these incomplete contacts drove our healthy and inexperienced young bodies to such a state of exasperation that not even the cold blue water, under which we still clawed at each other, could bring relief."
"and there, in the violet shadow of some red rocks forming a kind of cave, [we] had a brief session of avid caresses, with somebody's lost pair of sunglasses for only witness. I was on my knees, and on the point of possessing my darling, when two bearded bathers, the old man of the sea and his brother, came out of the sea with exclamations of ribald encouragement"
annabel dies of typhus after sexual/erotic episode on the beach with humbert.
If it were done when 'tis done, then 'twere well it were done quickly.
--Shakespeare
What does it matter whether they had actual sexual intercourse or not? What they were engaged in was clearly erotic, and could be titillating to some. These passages with Annabel, and the others where he describes his sexual activities with Dolores, are explicitly sexual and not symbolic. So Lolita does have quite a bit of sex in it. I wouldn't call it porn though.
Thanks for posting those quotes, Petronius. It's been a while since I read the book, and I had this mental image of an enraged young Humbert trying to sheild Annabel from the onlookers' gaze as she hopped into her shorts, and till I read your post I wondered if I was making it up.![]()
Says who? It's obvious the characters feel sexual attraction, but they are inexperienced, although Humbert does mention that "my father gave me all the information he thought I needed about sex", scared and under vigillent watch. How about, from the following chapter:Humbert and Annabel were too young to copulate, so there was no clear erotic activity, and it is clear from the quotes that you provided that there was no actual sexual activity.
"She would try to relieve the pain of love by first roughly rubbing her dry lips against mine; then my darling would draw away with a nervous toss of her hair, and then again come darkly near and let me feed on her open mouth, while with a generosity that was ready to offer her everything, my heart, my throat, my entrails, I have her to hold in her awkward fist the scepter of my passion."
That they didn't manage to have intercourse doesn't mean there was nothing sexual about the relationship. In fact, should you read the first part of Ada or Ardor, you will see Nabokov treat this same theme more elaborately, and in this case there will be no doubt that the characters (ages 12 and 14) develop erotic feelings towards eachother and, to perfectly satisfy your requirements, do manage to successfuly copulate.
You're welcome.Thanks for posting those quotes, Petronius. It's been a while since I read the book, and I had this mental image of an enraged young Humbert trying to sheild Annabel from the onlookers' gaze as she hopped into her shorts, and till I read your post I wondered if I was making it up.
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They may have felt physical attraction and lust, but there is no evidence that they engaged in sexual intercourse, and there it reason to believe that Humbert was incapable of doing so. I got the impression that Humbert was prepubescent at the time of those encounters, but I wasn't there, so I don't know for sure.
They didn't, but there were plenty of things to stop them other than just physical incapacity, of which I didn't notice any signs. Please quote the passage/ explain why you would think so.They may have felt physical attraction and lust, but there is no evidence that they engaged in sexual intercourse, and there it reason to believe that Humbert was incapable of doing so. I got the impression that Humbert was prepubescent at the time of those encounters, but I wasn't there, so I don't know for sure.
They weren't prepubescent (since they experience sexual emotions), merely preadolescent.![]()