Sad, but true - but whether we act like it or not, we will be held accountable, and according to the Bible, we will be held even more accountable than many others because we knew better. Kind of like the fact that cops who commit crimes are given stiffer penalties - because they knew the law and swore to uphold it.
Christianity isn't about following "rules" - it's about a relationship with the God who created the universe - a God who desires to be in relationship with His creatures, and a God who values us so much that He sacrificed Himself (in the form of Jesus Christ) to pay the penalty of sin that we could not have escaped on our own. Once a person knows Christ, obeying the "rules" becomes a pleasure - not a chore.
Except those concerning religion - check out the vitriol from Dawkins, Hitchens, Harris, et al.
Except when it comes to religion and belief in God - then we're told that we're mentally unsound (cf. Freud's assessment of religion).
Atheists like to speak of the moral laws of God as if they are merely random restrictions, the only purpose of which is to cut down on our fun here on earth. This is patently wrong and shows a serious ignorance of human nature and the consequences of exercising our freedoms in whatever way we wish. If you think about it, what kind of world would we have if we honored the Golden Rule and if we actually kept the 10 commandments? Seriously, how can observing those rules make things worse (except that we don't get to indulge our lower natures as freely as we'd like)? How has sleeping with whomever we wish, lying, stealing, cursing, coveting that which isn't ours, etc helped us become better, happier people?
Being moral doesn't make you "narrow minded" anymore than not wanting to use drugs, booze or cigarettes makes you an ascetic.
Another stereotype. There are plenty of educated people who believe. Education is often a catalyst for people choosing (notice I said choosing) atheism because the theories that abound to explain our existence in the absence of God seem to make more sense to us (largely because we came up with them, and in the absence of God, what choice do we have in terms of explaining how we got here?). This is leftover stuff from the Enlightenment - science managed to explain some things that had erroneously been attributed to God, so we decided to push the argument all the way and decide that we've figured the universe out, and God isn't in it - because if He did exist, certainly we'd have seen Him [smart as we are] or He'd have bothered to prove His existence to us. Since He won't , He doesn't exist.
Some of the most heinous atrocities in the world have been committed by ostensibly atheistic governments. The numbers are staggering. Communist Russia comes to mind as the most obvious example.
Ephesians chapter 5 says this:
21Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
Paul tells husbands and wives to submit to each other - but their submission is different. Wives are commanded to defer to their husbands' authority; our feminist culture recoils at that, but look at what the man is asked to do: he is asked to love his wife sacrificially, as Christ did. Christ gave his life for the church - we men are asked to do the same. Think about that: wives are commanded to defer to our authority (but only if we are loving them sacrificially); we are commanded to love sacrificially - do you know what that means? That means we are to love with no thought to what we get in return. That is no easier for a man than submitting to a man's authority is for a woman. We have more responsibility, but we're asked to pay the higher price. My principal makes more money and has more power than me, but he also pays a heavier price than I do when something goes wrong at my school. I may envy his power, but I don't want to deal with his responsibilities. Women may desire the authority that God gave men, but do they want to pay the same price?
Example: women pushed to be allowed to enter the combat portion of the military; well, they got their wish - which now means that if the draft ever gets reinstated, they'll have no legitimate argument to get excused from being drafted. Most of my female students seem less than excited with having this "privilege" of being equal with the boys. The Bible may give more authority to men, but this doesn't make us better or more important; it primarily means more gets asked of us in terms of the relationship.





I'll explain it to you: it's probably not very different from yours (as in, i don't approve of murder, for instance), and it was undoubtedly influenced by the Judeo-Christian education I received. But it's also based on books that I've read, both fictional and philosophical; on my environment and what happened to me in my life; and on the questions I ask myself amost unceasingly. My value system has a few bases that don't change, but it evolves as I grow older and (hopefully!) in maturity?
And I've always defended female draft. This doesn't mean I don't acknowledge the fact that the fmale body is more vulnerable than the male's; but I just think they ought to be given suitable tasks.
