so i managed to stop smoking...but i gained 18 pounds in the process im now at the horrible 5'2 118pounds... and well the boyfriend is getting pissed at his less than perfect girlfriend, thats me, and wants me to weigh 80 before may...help? any sugestions
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80 lbs.?!
Exercise, exercise, exercise.
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yeah, i joined curves. nd track.
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Cut some calories too, but not too many. Drinking a glass of water before meals often helps.
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im on a diet pill diet...
i have like 20 im taking...
i eat one meal, and its a 20 calorie no carb protein shake that is disgusting!!!
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Diet pills are the worst invention ever.
Just eat a normal diet and exercise daily and you'll be on your way. Of course, you might not lose as much weight as your boyfriend wants this way, but it is the better way to do it. And your boyfriend sounds like a jerk, if you don't mind me saying.
com-pas-sion (n.) [ME. & OFr. <LL. (Ec.) compassio, sympathy < compassus, pp. of compati, to feel pity < L. com-, together + pali, to suffer] sorrow for the sufferings or trouble of another or others, accompanied by an urge to help; deep sympathy; pity
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i ddont mind at all dori in fact i think the same thing allllll the time... i realy hate him sometimes. as long as i keep him happy he seems okay and dont yell much. so i realy neeeeeed to do this
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Why are you still with him?
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hes 26 and a body builder with a nasty temper...im 15, and a lot smaller than him with a scared of men attitude...
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I am sorry to say this but your boyfriend needs a kick up the arse...
He doesn't have the right to dictate to you what you should look like.
If you're not happy with yourself then sure do something about it. Otherwise, tell him to stick it.
What business is it of his anyway?
In fact, I think you should start with your own healthy regime at your own pace then purchase a HUUUGE fat suit just to p*ss him off
Edit: Sorry that probablly wasn't very helpful.
"Then I feel, Harry, that I have given away my whole soul to someone who treats it as if it were a flower to put in his coat, a bit of decoration to charm his vanity, an ornament for a summer's day"
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I would agree with all who say your boyfriend needs a kick up the ***!
That's outrageous!as long as i keep him happy he seems okay and dont yell much. so i realy neeeeeed to do this
Erm....such an age gap. By the way, if you are so scared of men then why are you still together with him? (I hope I am not sounding mean, but I am finding it a bit weird)hes 26 and a body builder with a nasty temper...im 15, and a lot smaller than him with a scared of men attitude...
As for weight loss, you have to do it for yourself not him. Try to eat lesser but not too much. Exercise is good too but not suddenly too much. As for dieting....hmmmm I don't know, I have never been on diet....
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I sang of leaves, of leaves of gold, and leaves of gold there grew.
80 pounds?! That's the size my mom is, and it's not attractive at all. Sucked in eyes and all that, like an old person. Diet pills & shakes only give you no solid food, which I hear is bad for your digestive system.You could start smoking crack, but I wouldn't recomend it...and um...nevermind.
I think if you make a signature, you should inspire some emotion in someone else. I also think it would be pretentious for me to think I could do that.
I'm sorry but that really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.
And it shouldn't matter how much you weigh exactly so long as you are healthy and happy. I'm a little lost though coz here we use kilos not pounds so I'm not sure if the weights you are talking about are really bad or what.
I do hope you manage to lose the weight you want to lose, as long as it's what YOU want and if it'll make you feel good; not just because it's what your boyfriend wants.
80lbs is about 35 kg.
I think if you make a signature, you should inspire some emotion in someone else. I also think it would be pretentious for me to think I could do that.
Thanks, but gee wow that's bad. Right now I'm happy that I'm just under 70 kg! And I'm 15 too! And I am short compared to most of the people I know - I'm around 165 cm tall
I don't think that's a healthy weight for a 15 year old no matter how short they are. I know one girl whos probably around 40 something kg and about my height and being that thin just really isn't nice looking.
Sounds like your boyfriend just wants a skeleton rather than a relationship with a living human being.
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