Korova Milkbar (no girls allowed)

[Redzeppelin]

Oh great. I used to like this thread. How come you guys are talking about your looks? We should be talking about cute the girls look.

Motion sustained. They are lovely, aren't they? Here's a question: excluding the parts they conceal in public (which are getting to be fewer and fewer these days), what is the most attractive aspect of a woman? (That qualification should keep us reasonably safe... )

[Turk]

what is the most attractive aspect of a woman? (That qualification should keep us reasonably safe... )

I am not sure. Probably her flesh.

Ok being serious. For me most attractive woman is a smart, cute (behaviours i mean) and good one. Beauty comes after these kinds of things for me. What about you buddies? Virgil is married though, he can't answer this.

[Virgil]

Well, a pretty face is first priority. But then I always liked a nice round back side in tight jeans.

[Turk]

Well, a pretty face is first priority. But then I always liked a nice round back side in tight jeans.

If you act this way you will be old and alone guy when you are 60. You should say, i like women like my wife, and there's no woman like my wife!

[kathycf]

... I know it still hurts sometimes to look at a beautiful woman (which by the way does not happen for every pretty woman out there - only a very small few have the ability to make my stomach feel funny).

Um, are you sure that is isn't something you ate?

Peace, gentlemen...we now return your thread to you already in progress. [/end of silly feminist comment]

[Virgil]

If you act this way you will be old and alone guy when you are 60. You should say, i like women like my wife, and there's no woman like my wife!

Hey, I said "liked," passed tense. Now I'm just a humble husband who only thinks about his wife.

[jon1jt]

Hey, I said "liked," passed tense. Now I'm just a humble husband who only thinks about his wife.

aw c'mon virge, branch out a little.

[Niamh]

oh dear! definitely shouldnt have popped my head in hear!
Cant you lot not talk about something other that beautiful women? How about you general nice women or are you going to tell me that we dont exist and that we are all money seeking preyinmantis'?

[Redzeppelin]

oh dear! definitely shouldnt have popped my head in hear!
Cant you lot not talk about something other that beautiful women? How about you general nice women or are you going to tell me that we dont exist and that we are all money seeking preyinmantis'?

The danger of opening a "single gender" thread is that we'll "let our hair down" a bit and get caught doing so . I don't think any guy on this thread over the age of 30 is "fooled" by beauty anymore (at least I hope so); I, personally, know that beauty can often hide the most empty and vacuous of female minds, and that such emptiness wears very thin, very quickly. Personality and attitude go a long way in providing "sexiness" - that I know and believe. BUT: there is no denying that feminine beauty is very, very powerful to a male - but "powerful" does not equal "valuable" or "meaningful." For example, I can easily get slack-jawed looking at some of today's female celebs - but settle down with one and make a relationship? Nah - I can't see that. The teenager thinks that the beauty is the woman; the mature man knows that the beauty is only the first "layer" of that woman, and that what lies beneath will either enhance that first layer, or make it totally meaningless.

(OK boys - where were we?)

[Turk]

We where in a corner where we got warnings from Amazons. Fortunately you successfully changed the subject to protect us.

[Redzeppelin]

Right - so maybe we should shift the topic from what part of a woman is most attractive to what about a woman besides her body creates the impression of "sexiness"? Are there certain mannerisms, gestures, tones, expressions, ways of dressing or behaving that produce such an effect?

(We are free, of course, to degenerate back to the treasures of the female body at anytime though, being guys like we are. Maybe the girls won't notice? )

[Turk]

I don't believe in sexiness. It's just something feed by desires of genders.

Hmmm... That's really weird. You made me realize that i've never consider a woman as sexy. Hmmm...

[Redzeppelin]

WHOA. Come on...you're telling me that there have not been certain women who - by something about them - totally captivated you? Really?

[Turk]

You mean with her charm right? No. I look for a good heart first. I easily realize if a girl tries to be sexy and it makes me pity and despise her, because someone who has self respect won't do that.

[Redzeppelin]

You mean with her charm right? No. I look for a good heart first. I easily realize if a girl tries to be sexy and it makes me pity and despise her, because someone who has self respect won't do that.

Right - and I agree. But I'm talking about things she does that you find sexy more than her conscious attempt to be so. As well, I'm talking about those things that "speak" to you before you ever get a chance (if any) to know what her heart is like. "Charm" is pointing in the general direction, but are there specific things she might do or say that create the impression of "charm" or "sexiness" or whatever you'd like to call it?