The Art of Seduction

[cacian]

Fancying someone is one thing but getting closer or asking them out is a different thing all together.

Women and men differ in the sense each one looks up to the other with different expectations and so the moment of truth the minute one decides to gather strength and get closer to that person by asking them out becomes of games of hopes and lows.
In other words women expect to be asked and men think it is the hardest thing they have to endure.
I however has had the pleasure of doing the other way as in asking the men I decided I liked the look of.
The art of seduction after that was not what I had expected however.Totally different from the books I had read and the flims I had watched. There was no Darcy after all.

So how do you approach the one you like and what do you do to seduce them into thinking you are the one for them?

[Varenne Rodin]

I am myself. It seems that that has always been enough.

[Delta40]

You mean you don't have to put your ankles behind your ears?

[cacian]

You mean you don't have to put your ankles behind your ears?

I am not acrobat and so no it is all about tacts haha.

[Alexander III]

I however has had the pleasure of doing the other way as in asking the men I decided I liked the look of.

On a side not, me as a guy, I detest when women approach me or ask me out. If it is not I who does the picking I just don't like it. I always refuse any laddie who approaches me regardless of how pretty she is, because I find it so irritating. I figure there are other guys like me, so careful when you decide to approach the guy, for some it is a turn off.

[cacian]

On a side not, me as a guy, I detest when women approach me or ask me out. If it is not I who does the picking I just don't like it. I always refuse any laddie who approaches me regardless of how pretty she is, because I find it so irritating. I figure there are other guys like me, so careful when you decide to approach the guy, for some it is a turn off.

Indeed and well I guess it is also a question of who is who and how things unfold.
My fist one I have approached is now my ex husband and the second one I approached am now with and have been for eight years.
The others I did not approach I did not like. If you like I did not notice them and so when they asked me out it was kind of annoying because it is hard to say no.
I guess I am like you.
I ended going out with someone I did not like because they just obsessed and won't leave me alone. I felt sorry for them but it did not last.

[tonywalt]

You mean you don't have to put your ankles behind your ears?

You hit the nail on the head. When a girl pins her ankles behind her ears- let's call it an "indicator of interest" - it signals, to me at least, that she may like me and I approach. We then begin to chat about really cool stuff.

[cacian]

You hit the nail on the head. When a girl pins her ankles behind her ears- let's call it an "indicator of interest" - it signals, to me at least, that she may like me and I approach. We then begin to chat about really cool stuff.

It is all about the signals. So how do you read them or how do you know they are the right ones?

[tonywalt]

Well the ankles to ears signal is fairly easy to read for most guys, although it is discouraged in many European and North American establishments.

But in the event I do not get sort of obvious indicator of interest(and I won't) - I would say laughing at my jokes and leaning towards me(but not leaning into me, as in drunk, which is a whole other thread )

Women also observe how you interact with the people you are with or around and also how you interact with their own friends.

Did we not have a similiar thread that 'went to hellfire and brimstone"?

[cacian]

Well the ankles to ears signal is fairly easy to read for most guys, although it is discouraged in many European and North American establishments.

I have to admit I am not getting the ears and ankles bit.

But in the event I do not get sort of obvious indicator of interest(and I won't) - I would say laughing at my jokes and leaning towards me(but not leaning into me, as in drunk, which is a whole other thread )

I thought more eye contacts was an indicator of interest.

Women also observe how you interact with the people you are with or around and also how you interact with their own friends.

Do they?

Did we not have a similiar thread that 'went to hellfire and brimstone"?

Did we?
I do not recall it haha.

[Volya]

I do not understand why you would or want to seduce somebody...

[MANICHAEAN]

I normally carry a club and pull the wench by the hair.

My father had an unusual technique. He used to pick women up physically with his arms around their ***. If he got slapped in the face, he took it as a no, but invariably they laughed and presumably he had his wicked way.

Delta. How you got away with the ankles behind the ears bit I will never know. There seems to be some confusion also, as to exactly what it means!

[Delta40]

Delta. How you got away with the ankles behind the ears bit I will never know. There seems to be some confusion also, as to exactly what it means!

Lol. Nobody appreciates my sense of humour on Lit-Net

[MANICHAEAN]

Delta I always have.

What was even more amusing was your “sock em between the eyes” forthrightness, followed by Tony commenting on body signals as if it was a scene from wild life in the Serengeti

[Buh4Bee]

I do not understand why you would or want to seduce somebody...

I agree Volya. If you have to seduce them, you're barking up the wrong leg. You may get short term play, but lack long-term success.

You'll eventually get this: