Exactly what does passive-aggressive mean?
I really don't like it when girls or women use the F--- word. Please, it's vulgar when said in front of women, but it's just downright disgusting when said by a woman.
It's totally repulsive when a girl with a nice body part says something to bring this to my attention. Please, if you really do have a nice-looking a**, then I would have noticed. Don't point it out to me. Immediate turn-off.
Whether male or female, it is unnattractive to be overly argumentative. I enjoy discussing my opinions with people who believe otherwise, but there is no fun in arguing. I'm not reffering to someone who is opinionated; it is admirable to have firm beliefs. What I'm refferring to is like Everybody Loves Raymond type of argumentative, where people argue about trivial things.
In girls I do not like those which are popularly regarded as being sexy. I find the more guys who want to "get inside" a girl, the less I am attracted to her.
I don't like big breasts in a lady. They are just not something attractive. I prefer small breasts. Perhaps this is related to the reasoning in my previous note: many guys find big breasts sexy, therefore I am offended when a girl thinks she's attractive just because she has big breasts.
Oh and of course feminists. Like I said, there is nothing wrong with having firm beliefs. But I'm talking about the feminist women who are offended by the most sincere and heartfelt compliment, the ones who get defensive when no offense was intended. Did I somehow upset you by thinking about you? Or are you angry because I said hello?
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I really don't like it when girls or women use the F--- word. Please, it's vulgar when said in front of women, but it's just downright disgusting when said by
F- that! The dude has too may rules or issues with what should and should not be.![]()
And if we combine these responses together, nobody finds anybody else attractive.
J
After years of being somewhere between a punk and a hippie, I've found that I'm very much not attracted to "counter-cultural" girls. The whole culture of parties, booze, pot, casual sex, and drugs irritates me now - it all seems so shallow, impersonal, and ugly. I like high-strung feminists, and girls that are a bit more down to earth, and, dare I say, "boring." The ones that would rather spend a Saturday night studying than getting wasted.
Yes, high strung feminists and girls that are down to earth in equal measure.
And yes - like any red blooded guy, any girl into casual sex is down right repulsive-even if she is charming and attractive(No Way). How many times does I guy have to say "Stop touching me there, or I'll to ask you to leave!!" or "No, you cannot blankity blank by duwop!!- on the first date!!
"L'art de la statistique est de tirer des conclusions erronèes a partir de chiffres exacts." Napoléon Bonaparte.
"Je crois que beaucoup de gens sont dans cet état d’esprit: au fond, ils ne sentent pas concernés par l’Histoire. Mais pourtant, de temps à autre, l’Histoire pose sa main sur eux." Michel Houellebecq.
Thank you for totally missing my point. Clearly, because I'm in favor of caution on the part of both sexes about who they end up in bed with, and am not in favor of indulging in casual encounters, I think women should have to wear chastity belts. Better yet, maybe they should all get stoned on their fathers' doorsteps.
I didn't say I'm don't think people should have casual sex, smoke pot, drink copiously, or whatever else they want. I just don't want to partake in any of the above. Sure, I'm often totally reviled by how often men get women drunk or strung out enough to consent to something they'd otherwise not want to do...But, I'm all for women having fun when they say yes and really mean yes. I'm just not attracted to women who only want a casual thing and nothing more. I'm not that kind of guy.
It's called kidding around, Desolation. I don't think the humor in Tony's post cou,d be any clearer.
^I thought Desolation's was a solid post.
Eh, that's not so boring. First of all, more people get wasted on weekends than study, and rarity is intriguing. Secondly, I'd find it much less tedious to talk to someone about something intersting than to clean vomit off of them and pull them out of fist fights.
What is "casual" anyway? I wouldn't have a physical relationship with anyone I didn't strongly admire, but at the same time I wouldn't plan a joint life and a shared ma and pop business together or something.
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Actually, this is weird, but I don't think I could ever be with a girl like that. I am just so used to a certain routine, if you will, and certain types of people, that a girl who actually cared and took life seriously would just make me feel awkward. I have never thought, how getting drunk on the weekends is such an important ritual in my life, but it is and a girl who was not like that, I don't think I could ever care for her, especially if she is one of those many "flaws don't matter because they can be changed"
Anyone else concur with my sentiment?
It's not that it's a solid post or makes legitimate points (it does), I just found it odd that Desolation seemed so offended by what was obviously a jocular post made by one of this forum's most jocular members.