What do you NOT find attractive?

[ClaesGefvenberg]

There are plenty of turn-offs, but the first one that comes to mind is the tough girl act: When someone is putting up a rather abrasive facade to hide inner insecurity. N.B that I am not saying that anyone should be meek, submissive, not stand their ground, or anything like that. That can be achieved without acting like a cast iron *****. It is a turn-off even when I see through it.

I don't think I am altogether mistaken in assuming that the ladies have similar gripes concerning cast iron bastards of the male kind?

/Claes

[stlukesguild]

-Lack of independence
-Clinginess
-Sobriety
-Vulgarity (think jersey shore)
-Naivety
-Shyness
-Lack of social grace
-Excessive use of make up
-Easily offended if I say cruel things in a moment of anger
-Jealous
-Does not propose to do something illegal/dangerous once a week
-large nose
-large lips
-lack of sarcasm in every third sentence
-Doesn't think she is better than me
-Unwilling to preform fellatio
- Fat



Alex... I think I'd find you highly attractive if you were a girl.

[Darcy88]

Me too, GOD I hate it. It's the most frustrating thing in the world, I don't know what to do when someone is being passive-aggressive.

Some others:

-people who are easily offended
-self-pity
-pleasantries
-flirting, which is basically like small talk except there's more expected of you.
-long hair on a male (anything past the shoulders grosses me out)
-sloppy eye makeup on a female
-hippies

Agree with your last one. Hippies do not make for good companions, romantic or otherwise.

[Alexander III]

-Lack of independence
-Clinginess
-Sobriety
-Vulgarity (think jersey shore)
-Naivety
-Shyness
-Lack of social grace
-Excessive use of make up
-Easily offended if I say cruel things in a moment of anger
-Jealous
-Does not propose to do something illegal/dangerous once a week
-large nose
-large lips
-lack of sarcasm in every third sentence
-Doesn't think she is better than me
-Unwilling to preform fellatio
- Fat



Alex... I think I'd find you highly attractive if you were a girl.

Easy there Encolpius...

[tonywalt]

Spitting. I know it's more prevalent in the West Indies, but has to be said.

Gotta learn learn to swallow

[LitNetIsGreat]

-Lack of independence
-Clinginess
-Sobriety
-Vulgarity (think jersey shore)
-Naivety
-Shyness
-Lack of social grace
-Excessive use of make up
-Easily offended if I say cruel things in a moment of anger
-Jealous
-Does not propose to do something illegal/dangerous once a week
-large nose
-large lips
-lack of sarcasm in every third sentence
-Doesn't think she is better than me
-Unwilling to preform fellatio
- Fat

I would have been disappointed with anything less.

I don't know - a few things, I'm a little too tired to think. I don't like women's feet very much. Actually, I think I'm quite forgiving as long as I get some peace now and again and I'm not nagged too often.

[Alexander III]

Spitting. I know it's more prevalent in the West Indies, but has to be said.

Gotta learn learn to swallow

hahaha, I did not expect anyone to mention this. But I don't think it's any more prevalent in the west indies than in Europe, most girls just think that spitting is more ladylike and that only sluts swallow. It's quite sadly a popular misconception.

[JuniperWoolf]

There are plenty of turn-offs, but the first one that comes to mind is the tough girl act: When someone is putting up a rather abrasive facade to hide inner insecurity.

Nah, I like that. The so-called "b*tchy" girls with perfect hair, cheerleader types, harsh and strong and cruel, and hiding their vulnerability deep inside which they'd rather die than let anyone see.

[tonywalt]

hahaha, I did not expect anyone to mention this. But I don't think it's any more prevalent in the west indies than in Europe, most girls just think that spitting is more ladylike and that only sluts swallow. It's quite sadly a popular misconception.

Double entendre aside, they actually spit - as in walking down the street and spitting. It's vile.

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

Maybe they're just spitting mad.

[The Comedian]

Unattractive, by category. . .

Physical
Obese
Tattoos
Body Odor
"Attention getting hair color" (purple, pink, Kool-aid blue)
Frowns a lot

Emotional
Drama Queen
"The world is against me" attitude
Passive-aggressive
Mean, antagonistic
Self-centered, takes everything personally

Intellectual
Intensely political (heavily aligned to a single political party)
Mocks the intellectual values of others
Humorless
Reads & loves Twilight, Harry Potter, and Dan Brown, and asks me "Why don't you teach these novels to your classes. They're so addicting." To which, I want to say "So is cocaine, but I don't pass that out to the students" . . . but I refrain and say some lie like "maybe. I'll have to read those books more closely".

Peccadilloes
Constantly plugged into an electronic device
Checks phone/txts constantly
Picky eater (picks olive off of a pizza, for instance. I mean, unless (a) you're deathly allergic to olives or (b) you're 5 years old. Just eat the damn olive).
Scared of nature: mosquitoes, poop, fish, worms. . . . . .

I could add to this list, but it's all I can think of right now. . .

[Mutatis-Mutandis]

I also find fromunda cheese a slight turn-off.

[The Comedian]

I also find fromunda cheese a slight turn-off.

Oh! Oh! Can I add that to my list!?

[stlukesguild]

Easy there Encolpius...

Never fear, Giton... I have no such interest in becoming a switch hitter.

[stlukesguild]

I don't know - a few things, I'm a little too tired to think. I don't like women's feet very much.

So you wouldn't have gotten on well with my college girlfriend... a lovely redhead with a thing for toe-sucking.