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  • Build (slim/petite/burly/zaftig/etc.)

    8 25.81%
  • Breasts

    1 3.23%
  • Butt

    1 3.23%
  • Height

    8 25.81%
  • Body as a whole

    10 32.26%
  • Eyes

    14 45.16%
  • Lips

    1 3.23%
  • Face as a whole

    10 32.26%
  • Hair

    8 25.81%
  • Voice

    10 32.26%
  • Complexion (light/dark skin tone)

    3 9.68%
  • Hygiene

    6 19.35%
  • Grooming

    4 12.90%
  • Graceful movement

    3 9.68%
  • Clothing

    4 12.90%
  • Scent

    8 25.81%
  • Confidence

    11 35.48%
  • Arrogance/Conceit

    2 6.45%
  • Aura of untouchability

    1 3.23%
  • Intelligence

    18 58.06%
  • Kindness

    16 51.61%
  • Humor

    20 64.52%
  • Quiet

    4 12.90%
  • Innocence

    2 6.45%
  • Nerdiness

    5 16.13%
  • Easygoing

    6 19.35%
  • Crazy

    0 0%
  • Cutesy

    1 3.23%
  • Similar interests

    11 35.48%
  • Chemistry

    8 25.81%
  • Tolerance of others' quirks

    8 25.81%
  • Enjoys alcohol

    4 12.90%
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Thread: What Attracts You First? Poll #1 for Women Only

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    Good reasons.

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    Many women/girls are potty about polygamy and arranged marriages too.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Delta40 View Post
    Many women/girls are potty about polygamy and arranged marriages too.....
    Could you elaborate on this idea?
    "L'art de la statistique est de tirer des conclusions erronèes a partir de chiffres exacts." Napoléon Bonaparte.

    "Je crois que beaucoup de gens sont dans cet état d’esprit: au fond, ils ne sentent pas concernés par l’Histoire. Mais pourtant, de temps à autre, l’Histoire pose sa main sur eux." Michel Houellebecq.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delta40 View Post
    Many women/girls are potty about polygamy and arranged marriages too.....
    Are you?

    The girls I've know are not so happy about polygamy, but I know they were very pleased with monogamy-and make sure I always know it.

    It sounds like when a feminist says something they would like to be true (but know isn't true and certainly is not true for them).

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    Why do guys always have to tell us what we like. Do they think we don't know? Peraps it's their own bruised egos looking for excuses?
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    OK. Thanks for the reminder!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by papayahed View Post
    Why do guys always have to tell us what we like. Do they think we don't know? Peraps it's their own bruised egos looking for excuses?
    Are you suggesting that the proportion of women who get in relationships with a-holes isn't unreasonable?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandis View Post
    Are you suggesting that the proportion of women who get in relationships with a-holes isn't unreasonable?

    I'm suggesting that it's probably around the same proportion as guys who get in relationships with crazy women. Yet you don't see the women on this forum bellyaching every time this subject comes up.

    To say that women only go after jerks with big wallets is probably a lot easier on the ego than to acknowledge that you ( not you specifically Mutatis, but the general male) might not be the ladies man you think you are.
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    I think that's the point. We all know we aren't ladies' men (except Alex, most like), because "ladies' men" are jerks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandis View Post
    I think that's the point. We all know we aren't ladies' men (except Alex, most like), because "ladies' men" are jerks.

    Hahahahahaaha, ok go with that.

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    I just observe the world around me.

    And ladies' men are jerks. You know those classes now on how to pick up women? You know what they tell you? Be a jerk to women. Make snide remarks, act like you're better than everyone else, etc etc. Apperently it works. One of me best friends acts this way, and women pretty much offer themselves to him. I have another friend who's overweight and kind of dorky looking, but he's the same way, and he's had so much strange it isn't funny.

    Oh, and there's another reason we know we're not ladies' men. We don't get many ladies.

    If its any consolidation, I have an equally low opinion of men, if not lower.

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    Long ago when I worked for the MoD police as a civilian I was pretty much gone on a couple of the female officers and although their personalities were a strong pull, their uniforms were a great turn on.
    Although it doesn't suit every woman, a trim figure in a well-cut uniform is more than a little erotic. Here's what I mean:


    Emil's gotta end his fixation with those little Chinese girls that he can boss around. He needs a woman more along these lines... and surely the "uniform" is one hell of a turn on.









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    This thread is not showing the male member's of this forum in a good light, at all.
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    If one wants to go empirical, the data on couples suggests that we're most likely to partner up with people of similar IQ, socio-economic status, and cultural history. So, it's very likely that humour and similar interests are a major determining factor. Then there are also a number of studies that suggest humour plays a major role in human sexual selection. I don't know about other people, but I firmly agree that someone becomes a lot more attractive as a potential sexual partner if they are funny, even for one night stands.

    And I'm enough jerk to do for two, so I agree kindness is a plus. So, I'll agree with Buh4Bee, it's about humour, kindness and a big....
    "If the national mental illness of the United States is megalomania, that of Canada is paranoid schizophrenia."
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