Good reasons.
Build (slim/petite/burly/zaftig/etc.)
Breasts
Butt
Height
Body as a whole
Eyes
Lips
Face as a whole
Hair
Voice
Complexion (light/dark skin tone)
Hygiene
Grooming
Graceful movement
Clothing
Scent
Confidence
Arrogance/Conceit
Aura of untouchability
Intelligence
Kindness
Humor
Quiet
Innocence
Nerdiness
Easygoing
Crazy
Cutesy
Similar interests
Chemistry
Tolerance of others' quirks
Enjoys alcohol
Good reasons.
Many women/girls are potty about polygamy and arranged marriages too.....
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The girls I've know are not so happy about polygamy, but I know they were very pleased with monogamy-and make sure I always know it.
It sounds like when a feminist says something they would like to be true (but know isn't true and certainly is not true for them).
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Why do guys always have to tell us what we like. Do they think we don't know? Peraps it's their own bruised egos looking for excuses?
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OK. Thanks for the reminder!!
I'm suggesting that it's probably around the same proportion as guys who get in relationships with crazy women. Yet you don't see the women on this forum bellyaching every time this subject comes up.
To say that women only go after jerks with big wallets is probably a lot easier on the ego than to acknowledge that you ( not you specifically Mutatis, but the general male) might not be the ladies man you think you are.
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I think that's the point. We all know we aren't ladies' men (except Alex, most like), because "ladies' men" are jerks.
I just observe the world around me.
And ladies' men are jerks. You know those classes now on how to pick up women? You know what they tell you? Be a jerk to women. Make snide remarks, act like you're better than everyone else, etc etc. Apperently it works. One of me best friends acts this way, and women pretty much offer themselves to him. I have another friend who's overweight and kind of dorky looking, but he's the same way, and he's had so much strange it isn't funny.
Oh, and there's another reason we know we're not ladies' men. We don't get many ladies.
If its any consolidation, I have an equally low opinion of men, if not lower.
Long ago when I worked for the MoD police as a civilian I was pretty much gone on a couple of the female officers and although their personalities were a strong pull, their uniforms were a great turn on.
Although it doesn't suit every woman, a trim figure in a well-cut uniform is more than a little erotic. Here's what I mean:
Emil's gotta end his fixation with those little Chinese girls that he can boss around. He needs a woman more along these lines... and surely the "uniform" is one hell of a turn on.
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This thread is not showing the male member's of this forum in a good light, at all.
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If one wants to go empirical, the data on couples suggests that we're most likely to partner up with people of similar IQ, socio-economic status, and cultural history. So, it's very likely that humour and similar interests are a major determining factor. Then there are also a number of studies that suggest humour plays a major role in human sexual selection. I don't know about other people, but I firmly agree that someone becomes a lot more attractive as a potential sexual partner if they are funny, even for one night stands.
And I'm enough jerk to do for two, so I agree kindness is a plus. So, I'll agree with Buh4Bee, it's about humour, kindness and a big....
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