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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander III View Post
    Anyone can have beautiful clothes, but the mark of distinction is in knowing how to wear them, and that only a few are able to do.
    Good point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander III View Post
    Anyone can have beautiful clothes, but the mark of distinction is in knowing how to wear them, and that only a few are able to do.
    I envy those guys who can style up a t-shirt and jeans, as I am among the opposite class of men who can look frumpy in a nice suit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Calidore View Post
    I envy those guys who can style up a t-shirt and jeans, as I am among the opposite class of men who can look frumpy in a nice suit.
    Nobody ever looked stylish in a t-shirt and jeans except to someone else wearing a t-shirt and jeans.
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    Okay, I have a list. I've left out a couple of entries that won't be part of an initial impression, such as

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    Functional genitalia.
    ...and renamed a couple others to be more inclusive, thus trimming it a bit more. As it turns out, I've ended up with 16 each of tangibles (physical stuff) and intangibles (mental/psychological stuff).

    I'll post the list here first, in case anyone want to make additions or clean-up suggestions. And remember, it was a woman who first mentioned breasts.

    TANGIBLES

    Build (slim/petite/burly/zaftig/etc.)
    Breasts
    Butt
    Height
    Body in general
    Lips
    Eyes
    Face in general
    Hair
    Voice
    Complexion (light/dark skin tone)
    Hygiene
    Grooming
    Graceful movement
    Clothing
    Scent

    INTANGIBLES

    Confidence
    Arrogance/conceit
    Aura of untouchability
    Intelligence
    Kindness
    Humor
    Quiet
    Innocence
    Nerdiness
    Easygoing
    Crazy
    Cutesy
    Similar interests
    Chemistry
    Tolerance of others' quirks
    Enjoys alcohol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emil Miller View Post
    Nobody ever looked stylish in a t-shirt and jeans except to someone else wearing a t-shirt and jeans.
    It's cool how you can read the minds of everybody. I wish I could do that.

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    Nobody ever looked stylish in a t-shirt and jeans except to someone else wearing a t-shirt and jeans.





    Sometimes the jeans are even "optional".



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    ^Paul Newman and James Dean are the two that popped into my head as well, they looked their best in jeans and a t-shirt (well, if we exclude wearing nothing at all from the list).

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    I'll volunteer for that. I think it's time for a poll anyway. Is there a way to do a "check all that apply" poll rather than a "pick one"?
    Yes there is, I don't make threads very often and when I do I usually screw up on the polls, but I've seen it before so it can be done. Must be an option somewhere.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Calidore View Post
    Okay, I have a list. I've left out a couple of entries that won't be part of an initial impression, such as
    Not part of the initial impression? There are places where that particular feature will be ascertained before, if ever, names are even exchanged.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emil Miller View Post
    Nobody ever looked stylish in a t-shirt and jeans except to someone else wearing a t-shirt and jeans.
    haha I agree, unless your name is James Dean of course...

    Edit: just noticed St.lukes and Juniper said the same thing, funny how we all thought of James Dean there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandis View Post
    It's cool how you can read the minds of everybody. I wish I could do that.
    Pay attention to what others do and say and in due course you too will be able to do so.
    "L'art de la statistique est de tirer des conclusions erronèes a partir de chiffres exacts." Napoléon Bonaparte.

    "Je crois que beaucoup de gens sont dans cet état d’esprit: au fond, ils ne sentent pas concernés par l’Histoire. Mais pourtant, de temps à autre, l’Histoire pose sa main sur eux." Michel Houellebecq.

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    I think the point Emil was making is that unless you have a beautiful body, you will look bad in a t-shirt and jeans, for people who don't look like james Dean or Paul Newman suits are more forgiving because if they are well cut, they enhance one's physique - the artificial physic created by a well cut sport coat or suit or blazer is often more beautiful in my opinion than a natural beautiful physic.


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    Quote Originally Posted by JuniperWoolf View Post
    ^Paul Newman and James Dean are the two that popped into my head as well, they looked their best in jeans and a t-shirt
    It's Marlon Brando not Paul Newman but yes when I think of 'cool' and jeans and t-shirt I think of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander III View Post
    I think the point Emil was making is that unless you have a beautiful body, you will look bad in a t-shirt and jeans, for people who don't look like james Dean or Paul Newman suits are more forgiving because if they are well cut, they enhance one's physique - the artificial physic created by a well cut sport coat or suit or blazer is often more beautiful in my opinion than a natural beautiful physic.

    Point taken.


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    Last edited by Scheherazade; 06-24-2012 at 09:09 AM. Reason: Thumbnail images, please.
    "L'art de la statistique est de tirer des conclusions erronèes a partir de chiffres exacts." Napoléon Bonaparte.

    "Je crois que beaucoup de gens sont dans cet état d’esprit: au fond, ils ne sentent pas concernés par l’Histoire. Mais pourtant, de temps à autre, l’Histoire pose sa main sur eux." Michel Houellebecq.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patrick_Bateman View Post
    It's Marlon Brando not Paul Newman but yes when I think of 'cool' and jeans and t-shirt I think of them.
    Oh. Damn thumbnails. Well, add Paul Newman to the list of people who look good in jeans and a t-shirt.

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