
Originally Posted by
PoeticPassions
I wonder if there is a way, within societies, to actually work on preventing (reducing) rape (not through carrying guns or even increasing sentences for rapists) but through education, the shifting of norms, and empowering victims of such crimes...?
Look, rape seems to occur across cultures, space, and time. However, it does seem that certain places have much higher rape percentages than others. I wonder if this has to do with culture, the laws of the state, or the mentality of the people (I would venture to say that more machismo societies with very strong patriarchal structures would have higher percentages of rape). There was a survey completed in South Africa and it is alleged that 1 in 4 men have raped a woman. That statistic is staggering. It makes me wonder what it is in South African laws, society, etc that has made this type of behavior either acceptable or even encouraged?? Why such a high rate of rape, especially as compared to other places?
Anyway, I am not trying to stray from the original post and question (as I concur with most posters here that the raped is never to blame for the act of rape and that using excuses such as 'she wanted it and was asking for it' because she was dressed too provocatively or whatnot, are just rationalizations of our wayward actions and behaviors). Rape is mainly about power and control (the prison example someone mentioned is actually the best illustration of this fact). Rape has also been used a tool of war and ethnic cleansing... as a way to 'infect' the 'other,' and also to dehumanize. So in some sense rape isn't as deviant as it may seem, in that it occurs relatively often and sometimes systematically, but it is abhorrent nonetheless and in most countries seen as illegal.
I will add, however, that sometimes the rapist is not fully to blame... Think about a child soldier in the DRC, for example, who is abducted at age 9... forced to fight and kill, drugged, raped by his adult males... and then grows older, remains in the system, and ends up raping other boys or girls. Sure, he is still responsible... but to what degree should he be punished?
This entire discussion has had a very Western flare... and ideas of forgiveness, collective culpability, shared humanity, etc have not really been brought up, but I do think they merit some consideration. I generally do believe that we are all connected to one another and that we are responsible for each other's actions as well as our own. If I sin, you sin too (this stems from Desmond Tutu's philosophy and the South African notion of 'ubuntu,'--which may be slightly ironic given my previous statements about rape in that country). In any case, I actually think that communities and societies as a whole need to take more responsibility for criminal actions, and seek to empower women (and men) instead of always prescribing the label of 'victim' (which in some sense robs one of agency and deems them helpless).