what do you consider bad manners as opposed to good ones?
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what do you consider bad manners as opposed to good ones?
Belching with your mouth open and farting. I was always taught not to do that. My hubby does it every day several times (already 12 years of this...). It's become a kind of running joke now. ;)
Can your husband fart with his bum closed?
Speaking of S HIT at a restaurant booth and then saying I'm going to the REST room. LOL
Claiming that you care about people you don't really give a damn about is also extreme bad manners, although there are more accurate names for that particular sort of behaviour.
Oh, but hre does it with his mouth wide open and his farts must be the vilest ever. Thankfully he never embarrasses me in public.
I'm sure he does it purely to piss me off in the meantime. It's OK, I've put up with it for about 10 years now (10 years married in September and 2 years before that). I'm sure I can handle it.
Sneezing and shaking someone's hand with the one you just sneezed into.
talking about hygiene/bathroom/toilets and so on at dinner table or whilst one is eating.
not washing hands after using the bathroom/toilets.
telling me I have bad manners.
Walking in stiff, small, jerking steps around the alter pretending to be a penguin while the bride and groom are in the middle of their wedding vows.
Singing along the actors at a musical. Ugh. I did not pay to listen to you sing. I paid to listen to the actors on stage.
If a couple or pairs in their romantic moods join their lips in public places and when school children pass by.
Sex, romantic behaviors are private affairs and now in the name fashion of modernity and in the name of liberty people are stripping themselves in some public places. Even small kids see the erotic scenes and I do not understand what those little ones will learn from such social manners.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not in favour of PDA at all. But your stance is maybe a little extreme. I have seen many people kiss in public, or even a hand placed on some chest, during my childhood. That has not ruined me physically, mentally or emotionally. It's just that I don't like it, and I'd prefer if people did those things in the privacy of their own homes but it's inevitable. And not all that bad either. We don't want next generations to turn into the extreme prudes that other eras have brought forth, a bit of PDA now and again is not more than normal.
Considering that until very recently most of western society has lived in single room dwellings packed with people I'm sure children have been encountering more than a little PDA for centuries. If children seeing people kiss is traumatic are there any untraumatized children?