I personally would not.
what about you?
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I personally would not.
what about you?
I thought that is what I was do every time I have sex. Am I doing it wrong?
Professional egg/semen donation seems like a good way to make money. However, after reading about the issue further, it seems to be a hellishly difficult and cumbersome experience.
http://www.cracked.com/article_19497...ing-sperm.html
http://jennaestefan.hubpages.com/hub...nation-Process
I think I would do it but I don't think anyone would want it.
The population of the planet shouldn't be encouraged to grow, in my opinion.
Not before we take a look at our resources responsibly and sustainably, ensuring that there are no longer issues such as poverty, death and easily cured diseases.
People selfishly think of themselves while, on the larger scheme of things, their world is literally crumbling around them due to that kind of thinking.
I've heard it's painful for women, so probably not.
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Originally Posted by Darcy88
I've thought about it, but I'm concerned by the legal aspect of it: my understanding is that it is no longer your legal right to remain anonymous as a donor. Any offspring produced have a legal right to find out the identity of the donor.
I would probably do it, but I don't want some sprog turning up on my doorstep fifteen years later wanting a father-child relationship from cold. Perhaps I'm being mean, but giving semen, like giving blood, should come with no strings attached in my opinion.
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Originally Posted by Helga
I would imagine it would be plus it is not something women do naturally as oppose to men.Quote:
Originally Posted by qimissung
I have decided not to have kids, for various reasons, but I do sometimes feel a bit guilty for hoarding all these perfectly good (I assume) eggs.
But I have heard it is a painful and time consuming process, so I would probably only do it for a friend or relative, say if one of my sisters needed them.
people are usually looking for something 'great' and I am as average as they come and mental and biological illnesses in my family on top of that.Quote:
Originally Posted by cacian
Unlike Bluehound I could not do it for family only strangers. I couldn't have a baby I knew was mine in the family.
The population of the planet shouldn't be encouraged to grow, in my opinion.
Not before we take a look at our resources responsibly and sustainably, ensuring that there are no longer issues such as poverty, death and easily cured diseases.
People selfishly think of themselves while, on the larger scheme of things, their world is literally crumbling around them due to that kind of thinking.
Of course, since something like artificial insemination and In vetro fertilization are costly procedures largely limited to the upper classes we probably shouldn't worry. Rather, we should be enforcing mandatory sterilizations and abortions for the poor. Eugenics is the answer if we wish to save the planet. Or perhaps we should continue to allow the poor to breed, but apply the modest proposal of Dr. Jonathan Swift.
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I would for a family member.
Well, it's a past time I'm pretty good at in the first place, so I don't see why I shouldn't get paid for it.
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Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandi
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Well, it's a past time I'm pretty good at in the first place, so I don't see why I shouldn't get paid for it.
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Originally Posted by stlukesguild
This is a good stance. There are more than enough foster children to go around.Quote:
Originally Posted by BookBeauty
Well, I hadn't proposed any solutions, and those ones sound a bit extreme.Quote:
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
But, I mean, we should think about it. We've got this huge planet, with all of these resources, and there are literally millions starving, and dying.
Resources are not being allocated efficiently, or sustainably.
We have an economy that continues to grow, and depends upon growth, and our resources are finite. We are heading for disaster.
We can't even trust what they put in our toothpaste, because toothpaste companies don't care about your health, they just care about the profit. Now think about all of the other companies that are selling things to you.
Everything should be healthy, with as little side effects as possible. Aspartame was refused by a health board 7 times before it was finally accepted, under dubious circumstances. The only reason it got pushed through was money, and profit. Nobody cares about anyone else.
Who would even want to raise kids in this world? There's so much to fix, but nobody really sees it, or refuses to see it. That being said....
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Originally Posted by JuniperWoolf
Although, admittedly, I may be one of those, as I named 'em, selfish individuals who decides to have my own one day. I can't rule that out. So I'm just as bad. :blush2:
Just call me an honest hypocrite.
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Originally Posted by BookBeauty
Having kids is a subject I have thought about a whole lot. First of all I never wanted kids but I always said that if I'd ever get pregnant I would keep it. I got pregnant and I kept and love it (him). I would never trade my life with him for anything but that being said, there is no way in he.. I'll have another one.
the reasons you said are a big part of it. This world is always getting worse and worse both when it comes to nature and people, mainly people.
also being pregnant sucks.
but mainly the world is mean.
Its because things are quite tolerable for most of us now, and humans have a high stress threshold, which means its very hard for the average person to get motivated about serious problems which will arise 10, 20, 30 years down the line. Themistocles rose to his feet in the Athenian assembly and time after time warned the Athenians of the impending Persian invasion, an invasion intended to annihilate Athens and its people. It was only when the invasion force was practically in its ships and marching formations that the Athenians could be moved to make the grand effort required to save themselves.Quote:
Originally Posted by BookBeauty
And then there is ignorance in addition to this complacency. I myself am complacent but I am not ignorant. I know the ****-storm which gathers dark and destructive on the horizon. But many people do not. The whole edifice of power rests on the still and stale sands of the status quo. To change things would mean changing who now make money and now hold offices of power. So they mouth platitudes in the case of politicians, or they distort information as in the case of the corporations. Its all a hellish quagmire of fiendish ghouls who care naught for no one, not even their own grand-children, willing to trample underfoot life, truth and beauty in their mad pitiful dash for wealth and power.
We can be a wise and heroic species, at least some of us, some of the time. Rarely if ever do humans as a whole exhibit much other than ignorance, apathy, a passive acceptance of what was, what is and what will be.
I don't like the genralisation that individuals make such as people selfishly think of themselves. I can only presume that the poster never does and its just the rest of us that do and of course if that isn't the case, then why on earth would I give any credence to what they are saying?
It isn't considered humane to force sterlization or abortion on the homeless and unemployed or third world but its ok to force their kids down the throats of families that have room for them through guilt tripping 'should' statements?
Why should one group retain a freedom while another is being asked to sacrifice theirs? I can't imagine ever adopting or fostering a child.
Why not? I think in the future I will adopt. As awesome as my genetics are it seems my family is prone to some very nasty illnesses, as are those peculiarly of most every girl I've ever been seriously involved with.Quote:
Originally Posted by Delta40
I think adoption is a wonderful thing. A good friend of mine was adopted and he turned out great and loves his adopted parents as I do my biological ones.
If you're referring to me as said poster, since I did cite that people are selfish, I had admitted to also being selfish, since I might one day make the decision to have my own children. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Delta40
In addition, many people don't think about the consequences of having children, and are usually not ready for the responsibility. There's another case of selfishness. I can understand not seeing the big picture-- The entire world is enormous, and it's difficult to see past our own environments.
But, people rush in and have children when they don't have the capacity. They want children, and they don't care if they can't raise them in a structured, safe, and nurturing environment. Making a conscious decision to have a child, knowing full well that you don't have the means to do so, is thoughtless and inconsiderate.
I'm not saying that these children can't grow up to be wonderful people-- But it is traumatizing for these children to grow up without proper care-- At least have enough to feed, clothe and shelter them.
At least in that sense, I hope to be thoughtful and selfless.
But I'll be the first to admit my many flaws.
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Originally Posted by Helga
That being said, congratulations of the life you've brought to this world! :) It sounds like he makes you very happy, and I'm sure that you make him happy as well.
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Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandi
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Originally Posted by stlukesguild
Hey, I just speak the truth that applies to what I'd estimate to be 90% of guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by Veho
And if a couple doesn't have the ability to have a child naturally, they should have every right to use science to have a child. I find the "the world is already populated enough so don't have children" line of thinking incredibly pompous.
Who suggested that anyone with a spare room should be forced to adopt a kid?Quote:
Originally Posted by Delta40
Whether it's pompous or not doesn't matter, that there are more people alive than there are resources to keep everyone healthy is a fact. The world's population of humans is in a J-curve. No one's saying that sperm and egg banks be outlawed, it's just a shame that people would spend thousands, sometimes hundreds of thousands if the process fails the first few times, to have a kid with their own genes when there are unwanted kids around who need people to take care of them. I don't understand why genetics mean so much to people, I don't care. I'm not saying anyone else should or shouldn't do anything, but I understand BB's position and I'd also adopt or foster someone who already exists before going the turkey baster route and creating yet another mouth to feed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandi
If you cannot have a child, but you want one, what is wrong with adoption? There are countless children with no parents, who will most likely spend their entire lives going from foster home to foster home, and their onus will be loneliness and sorrow, because how can one expect a creature which has never known what it is like to be loved, to care for another. If the world shall treat you like a beast, you shall become a beast.Quote:
Originally Posted by Delta40
Plus there are known overpopulation problems in the world. Naturally the mass mentality on this is such as Darcy pointed out; it does not affect me, I dont care. But if every man and woman instead of thinking about now, were to think about the past and the future, the world would have been a very different place. I could site countless examples in history were people chose to do the easy thing instead of the right thing, and the consequences were felt. Let us take some responsibility, are we not human? The actions of all our ancestors before us, have been judged and there are some which we thank today and a great many which we condemn today, if each of us remembered that all our actions shall create the future world, and our descendants shall justly judge us with the same severity which we have judged our ancestors - maybe at the very least, selfishness would not be flaunted as if it were a virtue.
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It isn't considered humane to force sterlization or abortion on the homeless and unemployed or third world but its ok to force their kids down the throats of families that have room for them through guilt tripping 'should' statements?
This has angered me. I would do very well to remind you that the cruel and conceited way you talk about and view these individuals, is the same exact way that your ancestors of one or two hundred years ago were viewed. Your ancestors were viewed in the same condescending and hostile light in the past because in the cream of societies eyes, your ancestors were nothing more than the lazy squalor of society; the squalor of society which the bigoted of one hundred years ago saw as your people, and the bigoted of now see as others.
Fortunately in the past amongst those of more fortunate birth, not all of them were bigots, and some saw beyond the hypocrisy and cold and selfish mindset which was common, and they labored to help, not their own people or class, but to help mankind. And it is because of these selfless people of the past that you now can sit at your computer and have the luxury of being bigoted. I would suggest that you be careful of certain views, because I assure you there are people now who view others like you, in the same bigoted and ignorant way, due to their selfish mindset.
Alexander, are you suggesting although I have had children and I do have a spare room that to not foster a child I am bigoted? I suppose being a woman it is a simple biological destiny in life me isn't it? Raise children because not to means that all I would do is enjoy the luxury of sitting behind a computer all day...
I think fostering and adoption are a wonderful option for those who can't bear children and for those who wish to give a home to foster kids but that still doesn't change how I feel about protecting my freedom and my choices without guilt. Frankly, people don't have to justify why they wouldn't foster a child and the truth is, most folk don't even consider it. So while your ideals are noble, that is all they are.
Well, I hadn't proposed any solutions, and those ones sound a bit extreme.
But, I mean, we should think about it. We've got this huge planet, with all of these resources, and there are literally millions starving, and dying.
Resources are not being allocated efficiently, or sustainably.
And how do you propose we correct this? The wealthy, modernized nations of the world produce far more than they need to sustain themselves. Do they owe it to the rest of the world to freely give away their surplus? Who do you propose will pay the costs of this to farmers, shipping, etc...? At the same time we need to face the reality that poorest nations also tend to be horrible at providing for any but the wealthiest of their populace as well as at controlling their own population growth and making proper use of their resources. Do we simply throw good money after bad (as it were), or force them to conform to our ideals? Obviously many of the problems with poverty in the "third world" stem from our own actions, behaviors, and excesses. How many of these are we willing to sacrifice?
We have an economy that continues to grow, and depends upon growth, and our resources are finite. We are heading for disaster.
Are you so certain about your conclusions? The earth has been able to sustain an ever increasing population. The standard of living of the average French or English citizen did not decline, but rather improved following WWII in spite of the fact that other other nations grew even wealthier and the population as a whole continued to expand. Rather than suggest that economic growth will lead to some great disaster, as if there is some clearly defined limitation of resources and wealth, is it not just as likely that such will lead to higher standards of living for the segments of the population whose lives have always been lived on the brink of disaster? As the economy grows there will be increased demands upon resources, obviously, but there will also be increased efforts to meet these demands.
Who would even want to raise kids in this world? There's so much to fix, but nobody really sees it, or refuses to see it.
At what point in history was this not true? Is this present century really worse than the past?
This world is always getting worse and worse both when it comes to nature and people, mainly people.
Really?
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/ste..._violence.html
...there are known overpopulation problems in the world. Naturally the mass mentality on this is such as Darcy pointed out; it does not affect me, I dont care.
Alex... are you suggesting that the current population is unsustainable, which contrary to Juniper's statement, is false. The wealthy Western nations have the wherewithal to feed, shelter, and clothe the entire planet. The reasons for famine, drought, and poverty are far more complex than a simple overpopulation of the planet as a whole. We must consider any number of variables.
Some years back I read a book on the Black Death that occurred in Europe beginning in the 14th century. The author argue quite persuasively that a large reason for the excessive number of fatalities had to do with poverty and malnutrition. Like many poorer "third world" cultures, the poorer populations of Europe of the time were having children beyond their ability to sustain them... in the belief that at least several of these children would survive and be able to care for the parents when they grew old. The problem wasn't that the population as a whole had grown too large, but rather that it had grown too large among populations unable to sustain them.
The author explored the growth of populations after the plague using birth and death certificates, tombstones, etc... and discovered that in the Northern nations of Holland, England, Germany, France couples stopped having large families... and as a consequence they were soon able to easily meet their needs for survival and grow economically. We see a similar situation in the former-Soviet Union where we have an educated population that realizes the limitations of their own resources and as a result the birth-rate has fallen. China, by contrast, has a huge, illiterate rural populace and as a result attempts at birth control have been imposed from the state.
But the question arises just how is that someone in England, or France, or Canada, or the US, or Japan decides not to have children going to help with the burgeoning populations in nations in Africa, Asian, or Latin-America where they are unable to sustain this growth? Are you then going to take that money that you saved in not having a child... in paying for his or her food and shelter and clothing and education, etc... and send it off to some African nation? And even if you do, will it likely end up providing food, shelter, clothing, and education for the poor... or will it not, more likely, end up being used to purchase weapons for some petty dictator?
Of course in all reality I suspect the whole notion of a grand sacrifice in not having children is just typical youthful idealism. I can't count how many of my friends back in college had the same ideas... and now they're saddled with 2 or 3 kids.:arf:
Is it? That doesn't seem logical. I think the US itself consumes enough resources that if spread out could supply the world. We're a bunch of fat ****s.Quote:
Originally Posted by JuniperWoolf
You should tell that to every professor I've ever had, I'm sure they'll be ecstatic to recieve your expert opinion. The Canadian foster care system is overburdened, and ****ty. There are many kids who need care on our own soil, and becoming a foster parent is comparatively cheap too - sometimes the government even gives you money, whereas anonymous in-vitro can cost up to $25,000 for one round (money which you might need to provide an optimum quality of life for your new family). Also I didn't say that every child without a stable home was in an industrialized society, and you are able to adopt outside of your country (like Virgil did). It's a bit troublesome, but the price is comparable to anonymous in-vitro, especially if you're using a donated egg (and that's only for one round, it often requires two or three, or it never takes). My assertion thus far in this thread has been that given the choice between costly anonymous in-vitro and costly overseas adoption/domestic fostering, I'd choose the latter because the children already exist and need to be cared for. Better to reduce suffering than to create more.Quote:
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
J-curve:
http://www.subdude-site.com/WebPages...es_703x578.jpg
Yeah, that should be happening any day now.Quote:
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
You're really going to have to stop beating that poor horse, it's long dead.Quote:
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
Yeah, but most of the really fat people in America are poor, and the reason they're fat is because they can only afford food that's high in fat and sugar and low in vitamins and nutrients, like fast food. The first world does have a lot of resources though, and I believe that scientific and technological advancement really could meet at least the basic needs for the world's entire human population and still account for our species' natural pyramidal distribution tendancy, but we've really got to get going on it. Agricultural biogenetics/pesticide innovation/ect. is a step in the right direction, that's why "organic" food isn't a good idea. Vastly decreased food output, those on the bottom suffer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandi
I agree. You clearly have a handle on what I was getting at. I'm impossibly bad at getting my point across with clarity, and I really appreciate that you, and so many others are better at it than me. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by JuniperWoolf
And to those of you who are fighting this--
Even if our planet can sustain the current population of the planet-- Are we using resources efficiently and intelligently? Sustainably? To clothe, and feed the population? No. We have an inadequate system. Many people think that, even if we run out of resources, we can play catch-up with science and fix things that way. I think that's an irresponsible way to look at it, and it's about time we all start trying to take some global responsibility.
We're using methods of energy that are wasteful, and if you're not thinking about profit, you're thinking about getting your own clothes, and taking care of your own mouths to feed.
This is really only the fault of our current system-- But, individuals aren't really thinking on a large scale, either-- Which is what I was jiving at. I'm not necessarily very good at organizing my thoughts well in order to communicate them.
Maybe you're under the impression that, as an individual, you have no say.
As I've said in another thread, and as I see it, it's just as relevant here:
People do make a difference. Everything we do, everything we buy, everything we eat makes an impact on someone, or something else. We don't get a choice on whether what we do makes a difference or not. We get to decide only if the difference we inevitably make is negative, or positive. There are no neutral actions.
Even if we can, and even if the resources are in abundance, we're not helping anybody. That is the true disaster. People are upset about the state of the world. Nobody is going to deny that people are starving, and that there is needless war, and needless waste.
By stating these things, I'm not setting out to upset anyone. I'm saying what I think are facts. Nobody's denying them, either.
There's just disagreement about whether we can last forever or not, but that's not really that important. I was trying to point out something on a larger scale. I was trying to point out that what we've got going on isn't working, and needs to change. And many of you agree with me, and have worded that far better than I ever could.
What you do with the information is yours. Any hostility or aggression shown towards this information is yours. It has nothing to do with me, and it should tell you more about yourself than about me.
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
Alex... are you suggesting that the current population is unsustainable, which contrary to Juniper's statement, is false.
You should tell that to every professor I've ever had, I'm sure they'll be ecstatic to recieve your expert opinion. The Canadian foster care system is overburdened, and ****ty. There are many kids who need care on our own soil, and becoming a foster parent is comparatively cheap too -
Tell me just how poorly those kids living in foster care in Canada are doing? Are they truly starving? Has UNICEF arrived? The fact that there is an excess of children in need of parents is not the same as suggesting that the nation is unable to sustain the current population. I doubt even that there are more children in need of parents than there are willing parents out there. If the Canadian system is anything like the US system, then it is likely that the bureaucracy is so convoluted, top-heavy, and labyrinthine (surely worthy of Kafka's horrific vision) that many qualified and willing potential parents give up. I don't know if this was Virgil's experience, but I have one relative and one close friend who both found it far easier to adopt overseas (Latin-America) than to go through the years of bureaucratic BS imposed by moronic underpaid social workers.
But is that what I was even discussing? I thought the issue was the inability to sustain the populace in the wealthy nations. I'll tell you about the children in the district in the US that currently has the largest percentage of foreclosures in North America. These children are all categorized as Title 1. That means every last one of them lives at or below the US federal poverty level. Every last one of them, the entire neighborhood population lives in what is deemed as "poverty" by the US government. There are many horrible things about their lives. They have to walk to school each day past prostitutes, gangs, drug dealers, alcoholics, etc... They have almost all been witness to a shooting and know what to do in a "drive by". They move frequently... skipping out on landlords. Their parents are often abusive... sexually, physically, emotionally... and yet in no way are they starving. We are not seeing walking skeletons ala some African famine. Most come to school clutching bags of candy and chips purchased on the way to school. They wear Adidas and Nikes and designer shirts and clutch the latest cell-phones and i-pods. They have computers at home... or if not, have computer access just around the block at the library. What you fail to grasp is that "poverty" is relative. In terms of food, clothing and shelter the vast majority of those classified as "poor" in North America or the rest of the modernized post-industrial world are better off today than the majority of the population at any other time in history... and they are certainly better off than a great majority of the "poor" in "third world nations".
...sometimes the government even gives you money, whereas anonymous in-vitro can cost up to $25,000 for one round (money which you might need to provide an optimum quality of life for your new family). Also I didn't say that every child without a stable home was in an industrialized society, and you are able to adopt outside of your country (like Virgil did). It's a bit troublesome, but the price is comparable to anonymous in-vitro, especially if you're using a donated egg (and that's only for one round, it often requires two or three, or it never takes). My assertion thus far in this thread has been that given the choice between costly anonymous in-vitro and costly overseas adoption/domestic fostering, I'd choose the latter because the children already exist and need to be cared for. Better to reduce suffering than to create more.
First of all... it would seem that the choice on how to use ones own money is probably something best left up to the individual, not to others to deem wasteful or not. The choice to have children is even more personal and certainly has little or nothing to do with some illusory notion of alleviating world suffering.
SLG- The wealthy Western nations have the wherewithal to feed, shelter, and clothe the entire planet.
Yeah, that should be happening any day now.
And did I say it was going to happen? Farmers in the US are frequently paid not to grow crops in an effort to manipulate the market and maintain a higher price. Vast expanses of the US farmlands alone are spent in growing tobacco or corn to create Ethanol to cut auto emissions. Canada, Australia, the former Soviet Union, most of Europe produce more than enough to feed themselves at an appropriate level and produce vast surpluses. But are the wealthy countries likely to hand over such surpluses freely to the poor out of the goodness of their hearts? Not likely.
And then we have the issue of wasted potential. India has a huge surplus of cattle... and yet because the cow is sacred, more than 50% of the population live in a state of malnutrition. Much of Africa is farm-able... yet continued wars, poor leadership continually undermines the efforts to create a sustainable society.
Yeah, but most of the really fat people in America are poor, and the reason they're fat is because they can only afford food that's high in fat and sugar and low in vitamins and nutrients, like fast food.
You need to stop pulling these stereotypes and nonsense statements out of your posterior. There are just as many obese middle-class and wealthy Americans. If any group has less obesity in terms of percentages than the populace as a whole, it may just be the wealthy... but that is because it is an issue of education and access to proper medical care and/or the time and money needed for gyms, trainers, etc... Certainly, there is an epidemic of obesity among the poor, but this has nothing to do with the lack of money to afford healthy foods. Fast foods and pre-processed foods and junk foods are in no way more expensive than healthy food. For the poor it often comes down to education. For the rest of the population it comes down to poor habits (grabbing fast food on the run rather than spending the time sitting down and slowly eating and enjoying the meal). It also has to do with excess wealth and our sedentary lifestyle. We no longer labor in the fields from sun up to sundown or put in 12 hour shifts in the steel mills.
The first world does have a lot of resources though, and I believe that scientific and technological advancement really could meet at least the basic needs for the world's entire human population...
Isn't that what I said at the start? The advanced cultures already have more than enough resources to feed themselves and most of the rest of the world... and future developments could likely continue to meet the needs of a growing population... but here's the problem. Why should they do so? And let's not go into idealistic fantasies that humanity will suddenly recognize the need to share equally and be their brother's keepers. Why should the United States or Britain or France or Germany or Japan or Australia, or Canada expend their labor and their resources to feed people in Africa or Asia or Latin-America?
Even if our planet can sustain the current population of the planet-- Are we using resources efficiently and intelligently? Sustainably? To clothe, and feed the population? No. We have an inadequate system. Many people think that, even if we run out of resources, we can play catch-up with science and fix things that way. I think that's an irresponsible way to look at it, and it's about time we all start trying to take some global responsibility.
Yet isn't this what we have always done? When, in the course of history, was the entire planet fully able to sustain itself... to meet and surpass the basic needs of every living human being? And yet as the population of the planet has increased, humanity has always developed the means to meet the increased demands. Do we really have solid scientific research establishing just exactly what the limit is on the world population before the planet can no longer sustain us... or is this based upon chicken-little, doomsday scenarios?
As for thinking globally... again what impact will it have if I, living in one of the wealthiest nations fully able to sustain its current population and and any foreseeable increase in population, decide not to have children? Will this somehow magically transfer into increased resources for those nations that are already unable to sustain their populations? How do we go about changing the situation in other countries where the heart of the population problem as it exists lies?
We're using methods of energy that are wasteful, and if you're not thinking about profit, you're thinking about getting your own clothes, and taking care of your own mouths to feed.
Ah... but you of course don't think about such things. Your thoughts lie with alleviating world hunger and bringing about global peace... you and every Miss America contestant. Me... I'm just selfish. Thoughts of how to pay for gasoline so that I can drive to work and earn enough to feed myself and my family are much more pressing than concerns for the starving in Bangladesh (if it even still exists).
This is really only the fault of our current system--
So what system do you propose as an alternative. "Imagine there's no countries..." A great idea... now how do you bring this about in a realistic, practical manner? What is your notion of a Utopian system?
But, individuals aren't really thinking on a large scale...
What is "larger" than meeting your own needs and those of your family? I am ever cautious of those who would place the state or the masses to the entire planet over individuals. We have seen this again and again throughout history... and it always end in a "reign of terror".
People do make a difference. Everything we do, everything we buy, everything we eat makes an impact on someone, or something else. We don't get a choice on whether what we do makes a difference or not. We get to decide only if the difference we inevitably make is negative, or positive. There are no neutral actions.
And? Perhaps we should stop buying all those clothes made in third-word sweat shops and stop typing on these computers also made in third-world sweat shops... and then we need to stop using oil... we'll walk 40 miles to work each day and figure that's the end of all our plastic toys and gadgets...
The problem lies with sweeping statements concerning wastefulness and our lifestyle as opposed to offering some meaningful and realistic solutions to the problems that you recognize.
Even if we can, and even if the resources are in abundance, we're not helping anybody.
Everything we do as human beings involves some motivation. The question I have raised repeatedly is why should we in the wealthier nations of the world spend our labor and our resources in assisting others in the poorer nations to meet their basic needs... which they should be meeting themselves? What possible gain or advantage is there? Are we to assume that the farmers in the US and Canada and Britain and elsewhere will jump at the opportunity to work for nothing... sending their crops to Latin-America or Africa? Or perhaps the average citizen in those countries will have no problem with sacrificing in the form of higher taxes so that our nations may play the role of the good Samaritan?
I am too sentimental and ruled by my emotions to donate sperm.
That doesn't mean I have a weird relationship with my semen it just means I would forever wonder if my 'seed had been sown', so to speak.
There's a sperm bank near my University of course and they only pay £12. Another reason not to sell my essence
I understand. You want me to give you solutions, rather than point out the problems.Quote:
Originally Posted by stlukesguild
And it is also an issue when richer countries spend extravagant amounts of money in other poor countries, when they have people freezing to death with no electricity or heat in their own country. I know this very well.
There's nothing overtly wrong with taking care of yourself, and your family, and dealing with problems on a small scale.
I merely suggest that very few actually do look at the bigger picture, and very few try to find solutions.
You've got me all wrong.
I mean, I never claimed to be better than anybody else, or that I have all the answers, or that I'm even doing what I'm supposed to, to help things on a global scale. I'm still learning and trying to figure out what needs to be done on a smaller scale that can affect things positively on a global scale. But, at least the intent is there, and I'm trying, and learning, and attempting to figure things out.
A lot of people aren't trying, learning, and being informed.
Also, I don't think it's necessarily a solution to quit buying things from sweat shops. The kids that work there are trying to raise money to support their families, and getting their income from these places. When you shut down the sweat shops, it eliminates a means of income, causing them to turn to prostitution or worse.
There has to be something that's brought in to replace it, or to make it unnecessary for these children to work and make money. What is that something? What is the solution? I have no idea, but I will keep reading and trying to figure it out. And I will keep asking these questions.
I'm not suggesting people stop buying oil and stop doing things, making their lives impractical. I'm not suggesting that I have any answers.
I'm suggesting people get informed and start asking questions and trying to find their own solutions, and their own answers.
I understand. You want me to give you solutions, rather than point out the problems.
Bingo! Of course I am not aiming this at you, specifically, I am simply saying that I have heard these sweeping doomsday statements for as long as I can recall... and individuals declaring that driving or having children or whatever is somehow irresponsible considering the fact that there are starving people wherever (indeed, I remember my mother admonishing me to eat those Lima Beans that I hated because there were people starving in China)... but they never come to illustrate cause and effect... ("How is my eating those damn beans gonna help the starving Chinese, Mom?") How is my choice to have or not have children going to impact conditions in Africa and Asia? Nor do they ever offer a logical, realistic alternative. "Stop driving." Yeah... and how do I get to work in a nation with crappy public transportation?
And it is also an issue when richer countries spend extravagant amounts of money in other poor countries, when they have people freezing to death with no electricity or heat in their own country. I know this very well.
Yes... there is this as well... although outside of the homeless (and that's another issue altogether) it is quite difficult to cut the electricity and heat on the poor in the US. But let's be honest here, are you willing to sacrifice your access to free public education, subsidized college/university education... are you even willing to give up your cell phones, TVs, i-pods, computers, video games, and designer clothes in order to alleviate world hunger?
There's nothing overtly wrong with taking care of yourself, and your family, and dealing with problems on a small scale.
"let us cultivate our garden?"
I merely suggest that very few actually do look at the bigger picture, and very few try to find solutions.
I suspect that any educated individual in the wealthier nations of the world is fully aware of what life is like elsewhere... aware of how "lucky" or "blessed" they are... but their concerns lie first and foremost with themselves and their families.
There has to be something that's brought in to replace it, or to make it unnecessary for these children to work and make money. What is that something? What is the solution? I have no idea, but I will keep reading and trying to figure it out. And I will keep asking these questions.
When any nation reaches a certain level of wealth, it will no longer be acceptable to labor under certain conditions or for less than an appropriate wage. The sweat shop conditions that we currently abhor, were a reality in our own not-so-distant past. It seems to me that every culture or society passes through the same stages moving from small villages to city-stages to larger agrarian-based nations, to industrial nations, to post-industrial nations. Can we expect that others will jump right to the same state as we are at without the same long-drawn-out growing pains as we went through?
:rofl: :rofl: Ummm, maybe. If you don't want little Darcy's.Quote:
Originally Posted by Darcy88
I think some little Darcy's in the world would be wonderful! :hurray:
lol. Thanks, but no little Darcys until big Darcy finishes his university degree.Quote:
Originally Posted by Delta40