in response to the questions
I think that the topic has gotten a little off topic, so i'll go back to answering the actual question and inquiries that were originally brought up.
You have some very good questions. I had some of the same questions myself,
but with a little studying of the Bible, here's what answers I got for
your questions:
1) What is hell?
John Piper said:"The historic biblical view of hell is that it is "endless suffering." Both words are biblical and important: "endless"—hell is forever and never has an end—and "suffering"—in this endless condition people are in conscious torment."
So to use the definitions provided, hell is an eternal destination of endless conscious torment
The Bible addresses hell a lot, and so does Jesus. Here are some references:
Matthew 8:12
"....In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth."
Romans 2:8
but for those who are self-seeking and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, there will be wrath and fury
Mark 9:43
And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire.
Matthew 25:41
"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels.
Matthew 25:46
"And these will go away into eternal punishment"
Revelation 14:11
"And the smoke of their torment goes up forever and ever, and they have no rest, day or night"
these are all descriptions of hell, and what will happen/ is happening there. a place of unquenchable fire, wrath and fury, eternal punishment, weeping, gnashing of teeth, and complete torment. that is what hell is.
another way to put it: hell is the abode of those who are permanently separated from God. they create it and maintain it. hell is not a work of God, but the absence of God.
2) why would a loving God create such a place?
RC Sproul says: "We need to realize that those who are in hell desire nothing more than the absence of God. They didn't want to be in God's presence during their earthly lives, and they certainly don't want Him near when they're in hell."
As you said earlier, compassionate, loving and caring are words that describe him and rightfully so. He is all those things plus many more. But God is also a God a justice. Just as a mu rder er gets sentenced for his actions, we are sentenced for a life time of actions.
Jesus actually paid the ultimate price for all our actions. He died on the cross to save us from our sins. And there are some people who will accept that truth, and there are others who will deny it.
For example, if a man says that gravity does not exist, he is definitely going to pay the price when he tries to prove he's right and jumps off a 100 story building. He denied this scientific truth. In the same way, many people will deny the spiritual truth of God, and pay the price for it in the end. The man who jumped off the building fell to his de ath , and we will always fall a continuous dea th if we do not accept God before we go to hell.
2 Timothy 2:12 says, " ......if we deny him, he also will deny us:"
3) why was hell created at all?
Hell was actually created for the devil and his angels, as i believe i quoted earlier, but i'll quote it again.
Matthew 25:41
"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels."
Satan says, "I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High.' the "Most High" talked about here is God, and there is no one who can be above God. We can't even be equal like him! God is above all things. Isaiah 48:11, God himself says, "For my own sake, for my own sake, I do this. How can I let myself be defamed? I will not yield my glory to another." So hell was made for Satan to be his own master and his own god and have his own spiritual domain. But as James 1:15 clearly states, "Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth de ath ." Satan died spiritually when he wanted to be like God. And he could not be like God, and still can not be like God. So hell was made for Satan to reign, a continuous struggle against God, but always accepting God's judgment. He is in endless turmoil because he can not be like God, and his rage fills the earth to this day.
People who do not follow God have one alternative: to follow Satan. And Satan lives in hell, along with his demons and devils. So when one dies, they either accepted God and went to heaven to worship him, or go to Satan's domain and suffer along with their master.
4) Is there no hope then for entering God's kingdom? Is every sin, major or minor, bad enough to send you to hell?
yes, every sin is condemnable; and yes there is hope. Whether you sin once in your life, or millions of times in your life, one sin is enough to condemn you to hell, because you have gone against God. There is no difference between a mur der er and a liar in the end. They have both sinned, and they both are deserving of dea th (see James 1:15 again). But there is a way to escape this eternal destination of wrath, fury, gnashing of teeth, and weeping. This is where God's amazing love for us comes in. He knows we are not righteous. He knows we sin. And he gave us a way out of it. Romans 5:8 says, "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Earlier, in Romans 4:25, Paul also states, " He [Jesus] was delivered over to for our sins and was raised to life for our justification." Later on, in chapter 5 verse 19, "For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous." We are made righteous through Jesus dying on the cross for us, all sinners, and all people. Proverbs 11:4, "Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from de ath ." We are then delivered from dea th through righteousness, which was given to us when Jesus died. All we need to do is accept it, and truly commit our lives to believing it. A murd er er can get saved, because through Mark 3:28, we are reassured that " all sins will be forgiven the children of man, and whatever blasphemies they utter...."
So there is hope for getting out of this horrible place, but the only hope is through God.