that people (mostly of the opposite sex, 'less you're gay) most usually fail to see?
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that people (mostly of the opposite sex, 'less you're gay) most usually fail to see?
Nothing, I think they are able to see everything in me a person from my sex is.
My inner wonderfulness.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by PrinceMyshkin
That I often find them to be wonderful and magical creatures ;)
My amazing mental capacity:
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Why then do you hang around with dolts!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Scheherazade
who i really am.
The Opposite (and the same) sex just tend to judge me as a black-clothed, book-carriying, emo kid, Not worth their while.Quote:
Originally Posted by Niamh
...is this an anatomical trick question? :confused: ;)
My sincerity. I think.
the core of the maelstrom :)
that my geekhood is really rather fun and interesting, :P
Many, many things. I like to think of myself as very complex. :D :lol: :p
The opposite sex rarely sees me at all..... or they try not to.
The same sex (since you brought it up and I AM....) rarely sees that I'm a kind quiet gentle person.
Both sexes see my short, fat, scarred ugly, battered looking, bushy bearded, finger-missing body and assume that I must BE the troll/ogre that I resemble; when nothing could be farther from the truth.
bib...hilarious as usual...could not help but to comment on your comment...now what was this post abt???
that i can be calm and quiet...
Oh, you are! And I promise NEVER to try to figure you out!Quote:
Originally Posted by Idril
Oddly enough, that was one post that I wasn't trying to be humorous in..... that's just the way my life is.Quote:
Originally Posted by littlewing53
My extensive porno collection.
Busted! And I was hoping for some pretty graphic descriptions, maybe with accompanying photos.Quote:
Originally Posted by RobinHood3000
That I'm not nearly as confident as I pretend to be.
Interesting question, i'll think about that.Quote:
Originally Posted by PrinceMyshkin
Actually i've come to the conclusion that I tend to see and care about things that most people don't even notice..... small things some times that may be hard to even notice but that's what makes someone special.
My good intentions :lol:
I didn't think it was funny, I thought it was a really vulnerable admission and it made me a little sad for Biblio, although the bright spot is that we know at least one person saw through the troll-like exterior and made him a happy man. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by littlewing53
That's very sweet, Idril; but don't be sad for me..... There ARE benefits to being a soft-hearted troll. First among them are the fact that pretty much anyone who befriends me is a person WORTHY of friendship. Clearly they are not interested in me because of my looks or my money.... I have neither. They are someone that can see beyond the superficial and they place a value on what I have to offer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Idril
At this point in my life I would absolutely NOT want to be one of the "beautiful people".
When I was little and heard any woman complaining of her ugliness (by the standard of physical beauty in our area), I would always think she was lucky. At least someone wouldn't marry her by her looks then! :pQuote:
Originally Posted by BibliophileTRJ
I think loving one's characteristics and understanding them is the love which is more lasting. Because this shows the 'choice' of your loved one. What he would be like if he had had a choice. There is more 'choice' and 'battle inside oneself' while developing the personality I think than in your physical attributes.
:bawling: bib..i am ever so sorry for misreading your comment...i would have never hurt you intentionally...is there one who has never misread or made a mistake in seeing something that was not there...happy, sad, black or white...it has been said...beauty is in the eye of the beholder...are we all powerless to words that have been spoken...
LittleWing my dear,Quote:
Originally Posted by littlewing53
No need to apologize.... no harm done, no feelings hurt.
It is VERY easy to misread the intention and/or tone of these posts... you're right it happens to all of us. In fact, I've said the same thing that I posted to people in the past and they mistook it for a joke even though they could hear my tone of voice and see the look on my face at the time.
Ah, finally someone who won't be envious of me! :pQuote:
Originally Posted by BibliophileTRJ
Bib, I am delighted to read your posts; seems like you have reached a stage where you have accepted and are comfortable with who you are. Unless we achieve that ourselves first, we cannot expect it from others, I believe. :thumbs_up :)
Speaking personally, I cannot claim to have got 'there' yet.
That I can actually be serious at times, that I am actually pretty timid on the inside...
Its hard when peoples definition of beauty is exactly what you are not...and once you try to act exactly like what you are not then I think you end up loosing yourself and not being true to everyone else around you. Its better to be proud of yourself and like yourself than to try and cover it all up with todays definition of beauty.
Wonderful note. I've always said that the test of a good relationship is whether you like yoursel better when you're with that other person. But it might equally be that you're not self-conscious, not preoccupied with how you're coming across.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mortis Anarchy
I'd like to say that I'm not self-conscious, but sometimes I am...I am human.:) I don't really show it on the outside. Again it goes back to my confident exterior and my rather timid interior. I don't go around however acting like someone else or dressing to fit in with the 'in' crowd. I may be a little self-conscious but no one can really tell...only because my stronger side squashes the thought. I hope that makes sense.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by PrinceMyshkin
I'm a very self-concious person, always changing my personality to fit in. i'm also *even thought most people think i'm not* extremely shy and easily hurt.
since when? just kiddinQuote:
Originally Posted by Bakiryu
i formed a block against other people in elementary school,i used to be like that, now i'm the cargo wearing kid with a book in one pocket, two pencils, some money and an ipod, your everyday teenager who is a shallow looking chasm. i don't let anyone in until they prove theor loyalty to me, then they get stuck their for eternity, kind of like a chosen prison, sorta
many people don't see my eyes, or my amazing ability to be th ebest vent in the world(emotional vent, someone you can tell anything tobetter than a psychiatrist because you don't pay, and there's no time limit
In elementary I used to be the fight kid. You know what I mean, that kid who's always suspended, witht the black eye and the ripped clothes *blush*. I thought there was nothing more enjoyable than a good, bloody fight. I am like a wall. I ignore people until they find a way to get in and then, zap! They can't get out.
I'm mostly a normal emo kid, you know, black clothes, black hair. 3 books in backpack, metal-spike necklace. I guess that's why people judge me. Because of my appearance.
lollerskates. oh, agreed. although, there are lots of emo kids/scene kids at my school. I just don't talk to people much... 'cus I'm emo. :lol: But it's true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bakiryu
But anyway, most people don't see my super silly fun side. I look mostly serious (prob 'cus I don't talk a lot).. but I'm always smiling. Inside I'm: :bawling:
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Originally Posted by Bartholomew
he he. well if you can't share your porn then there was never anything there to begin with
That I am the centre of the universe. Enough of this nonsense being taught about planets revolving around the Sun. Everything revolves around me dagnamit.
(chanted in monotone)Quote:
Originally Posted by kilted exile
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:lol: :lol: :thumbs_upQuote:
Originally Posted by Shalot
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Originally Posted by kilted exile
Don't encourage him! He will get so puffed up, he will float away like some kilt wearing hot air balloon. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by the silent x
I guess what people fail to see is that underneath this wild and tempestuous beauty is the brain of, well, just a brain I guess. ;)
(I don't think people see that I am really worth something....)
I could get to like this, and who exactly said you could stop. I demand the praise I deserveQuote:
Originally Posted by the silent x
Bah, nonsense. I have such a strong gravitational pull I could never float awayQuote:
Originally Posted by kathycf
OH BUT I SEE IT!!:DQuote:
Originally Posted by kathycf