Disquisition; are you perfect?

Disquisition; are you perfect?

Contrastive idioms of white and black; of fact and false; and of just and unjust, all among heathen and even educated hordes. It is an unjust world, unjust times, my fellow good people.
I realize that every human has flaw in this life. But none want to cast a single look at his but others. As one African saying goes; bad deed is a hill; everybody mounts his and descries that of another. So we are. A friend once told me that, it isn’t our culpable-meaning that is how we’re created with selfishness. Is that really so?
To be honest, let me reveal mine as the starting point.
1- I’m a bit aggressive-something very little can ignite my temper instantly, more especially when it’s not my fault.
2- I used to forgive but not forget what other did to me. Though, I very often do but it takes time…..probably days.
3- Lots of times, I don’t want a women’s company. Misogynist should I appropriately be called? No! This is something of misnomer because I love beautiful dames like my Ashley, Charity or Sadiya.
4- I also use to trust people from our first meet-up. This really has counted me a lot which is now healed but largely scarred.
Well, the subject is, I know, tough, yet gentle to your well-being as reasonable figure. So, what is/are yours?:crash:

I just write to welcome back my post that I lost days ago.
Thanks Admin

i think this is a great idea. because we do spend too much time decrying the faults in others that are often even worse in ourselves. so . . .

1) i'm slightly lazy
2) i talk too much
3) i'm too self-absorbed
4) i'm too gullible and trust people too much. i don't think this should be a bad thing, but people tend to take advantage of it so i guess it is.

come on, people! be brave! :)

Okay, just this once, I will reveal my weaknesses, I brought it down to one though, otherwise it would be too long of a list.

1. I am human :eek2: (I know this surprises some of you, but it is true)

lol aimus...

hmm...

I procrastinate...a lot...but not enough to make me want to solve that problem...so maybe that just makes me lazy...

I also don't care what others think of me, which many will say is not a fault, but in a world where how far you get is largely based on what people think of you, I've come to find that I offend many and this may hold me back in some ways...

I always, always forget birthdays, names, and my friends' fields of study...

and I often find myself egotistically thinking that I am better or smarter than the people I am surrounded by at my school, which gives me a negative outlook of my school, which makes me think that I could be doing much, much better and am not living up to my "potential." Like I said, egotistical, apparently I'm a self-centered...ahem....female canine?

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Originally Posted by Shannanigan

and I often find myself egotistically thinking that I am better or smarter than the people I am surrounded by at my school, which gives me a negative outlook of my school, which makes me think that I could be doing much, much better and am not living up to my "potential." Like I said, egotistical, apparently I'm a self-centered...ahem....female canine?

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How familiar, not the female canine part, but the school part :nod:

The worst of it is, I don't really mind, but my fellow students do, as some of them insist I'm too smart for what I do, which is rubbish, because it is perfect for my level of lazyness.

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

1. I am human :eek2: (I know this surprises some of you, but it is true)

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***choke***

Darn! You almost killed me there, Aim!

weekness??? ??? ???:D

heh:

1. sometimes I am too hasty.
2. sometimes I commit acts of piracy.
3. sometimes I am to helpful.
4. sometimes I am a jerk.
5. sometimes I am to arrogant.
6. sometimes I am to trusting.
7. sometimes I am to sarcastic, and people think I am serious...(maybe that is more than sometimes)

1. Sometimes I'm not aware of how other people will feel upon my saying something.
2. Like most, I tend to be a tad lazy.
3. I tend to be quite arrogant.
4. I tend to put too much in appearance, and judge people a bit too quickly.
5. Sometimes I will automatically discard the words of someone I am not particularly fond of, even when they are right.

what a question, am i perfect! really people, how can you ask me that....and there i thought you all knew me! :bawling:

Amius: human? Really? No! I mean the last time I checked...*blush and avoids eye contact* :blush: Did it hurt? You should have told me! I would have come to the hospital with you! :p

I tink my hamartia is that I am too independent and dont rely on anyone, which causes problems like it did today when we had to do group work, I wanted to do everything myself and my way and didnt listen to others people ideas (but it was ok in the end because thansk to my clever ideas we came top!) I get really bossy...the power gets to my head! Be grateful o you people of MArs that I am not your Queen!

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Originally Posted by TEND

1. Sometimes I'm not aware of how other people will feel upon my saying something.
2. Like most, I tend to be a tad lazy.
3. I tend to be quite arrogant.
4. I tend to put too much in appearance, and judge people a bit too quickly.
5. Sometimes I will automatically discard the words of someone I am not particularly fond of, even when they are right.

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wow!! You have just described me! Shock. Lets get together for coffee sometime...;) lol. (just dont tel amius)

its not fair! we should be allowed to double post cos what if after iv posted somethng i remember something else? so i say double post! (and todays debate winner is Ms Optimistic as Ever Nad)

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Originally Posted by optimisticnad

its not fair! we should be allowed to double post cos what if after iv posted somethng i remember something else? so i say double post! (and todays debate winner is Ms Optimistic as Ever Nad)

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Someone invented the edit button a while back. :nod:

i know! but what if your just lazy! and i havent figured out how to post two quotes at the same time! you failed the debate. a big fat FFFFFFF (dont eat that now! :-))

Someone also invented the multi quote button :nod:

i didnt know that! where? plz dont say right in front of me cos than Il have to visit my opticians again and Iv already spent enouh money as it is on that moron. I think he may 'fancy' me a little...he comes ever so close...

oh yeh, thats to examine my eye! lol. :-)

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Originally Posted by optimisticnad

i didnt know that! where? plz dont say right in front of me cos than Il have to visit my opticians again and Iv already spent enouh money as it is on that moron. I think he may 'fancy' me a little...he comes ever so close...

oh yeh, thats to examine my eye! lol. :-)

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There is this button, and it is the quote button, and to the right of it is *gasp* a multiquote button! when you wish to add multiple quotes to a post, just select the multiquote button, then for the final quote you want to take along, press the normal quote button, and voila, multiquote ability. :)

And I'm sure he's examining your eyes. :nod:

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Originally Posted by AimusSage

There is this button, and it is the quote button, and to the right of it is *gasp* a multiquote button! when you wish to add multiple quotes to a post, just select the multiquote button, then for the final quote you want to take along, press the normal quote button, and voila, multiquote ability. :)

And I'm sure he's examining your eyes. :nod:

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huh! I just learned something new also.

thank you, there should be 'the intelligents guide yo forum posting' :-)

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Originally Posted by optimisticnad

i didnt know that! where?

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Can someone help her by providing screenshot? :p

Hey guys, you have really talked tall and revealed mountain. One fundemental issue was forgot by all of you i.e What are the way of extricating oneself from such imperfection? Can we, eh? Well I think I'll start trying......waiting:idea:

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Originally Posted by muhsin

Well, the subject is, I know, tough, yet gentle to your well-being as reasonable figure. So, what is/are yours?:crash:

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Oh, well.

1. I'm shy. Wait, did I say shy? I meant: I am the personfication of shyness!
2. Once I start talking, there's no end. I can talk, talk, talk - See? Still talking -, talk and so forth...
3. I tend to be lazy too.
4. I also tend to repeat myself. But I'm not sure whether that's a fault, it's just - I say something and while saying it, I think 'Hey, I can phrase that better, I'm afraid, they didn't really get what I wanted to say' and thus, say it again - with more detail.
5. I am a worldclass sniveller. I can cry because of almost anything, preferably relatives making comments about my clothes, shoes, hairstyle, weight, et cetera.
6. I tend to show what I'm feeling on my face. Really. Roll eyes at people who disturb my sense of justice with their sense of justice(Relatives again!), e.g.

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Originally Posted by Themis

Oh, well.

1. I'm shy. Wait, did I say shy? I meant: I am the personfication of shyness!
2. Once I start talking, there's no end. I can talk, talk, talk - See? Still talking -, talk and so forth...
3. I tend to be lazy too.
4. I also tend to repeat myself. But I'm not sure whether that's a fault, it's just - I say something and while saying it, I think 'Hey, I can phrase that better, I'm afraid, they didn't really get what I wanted to say' and thus, say it again - with more detail.
5. I am a worldclass sniveller. I can cry because of almost anything, preferably relatives making comments about my clothes, shoes, hairstyle, weight, et cetera.
6. I tend to show what I'm feeling on my face. Really. Roll eyes at people who disturb my sense of justice with their sense of justice(Relatives again!), e.g.

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Uh, too much.......:crash:

Now, that makes me feel better! :D

awww, themis, im sure some of the tings that you have mentioned applies to most of us! and i say you can never have too many faults! (actually no i dont, but...)

(happy 500 posts to me. must mark this in my diray!)

I hope I don't have anymore faults! I'm still working on those mentioned above.

Yes, I am.

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Originally Posted by kilted exile

Yes, I am.

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Thank you, Kilted. My painfully humble nature was stopping me from posting an honest reply but now that you said it...

Why, yes! Of course!

:D

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Originally Posted by Themis

4. I also tend to repeat myself. But I'm not sure whether that's a fault, it's just - I say something and while saying it, I think 'Hey, I can phrase that better, I'm afraid, they didn't really get what I wanted to say' and thus, say it again - with more detail.

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I used to have this exact same problem...solved it by constantly repeating the following mantra in my head every time I opened my mouth:

"Shut up Shannon." "Shut up Shannon." "Shut up Shannon."

lol. It really forced me to get what I wanted out, and nothing more...and I saved all of the "better" ways of saying thigs for my writing...really improved my writing that way! :p

edit: oh! yes, I also meant to say that I am trying to work on my little personality defects all the time, and it is so silly because I'll get them under control and then others will surface, so I think I should just wait for a set of defects to surface that I am okay with and let those stick, lol.

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Originally Posted by Shannanigan

I used to have this exact same problem...solved it by constantly repeating the following mantra in my head every time I opened my mouth:

"Shut up Shannon." "Shut up Shannon." "Shut up Shannon."

lol. It really forced me to get what I wanted out, and nothing more...and I saved all of the "better" ways of saying thigs for my writing...really improved my writing that way! :p
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Good idea. I'll try that one out. :)

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Originally Posted by Themis

Good idea. I'll try that one out. :)

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(just make sure you use your name instead of "Shannon"...unless of course your name is Shannon, or for some reason you call yourself Shannon in your head, then go right ahead and use it :) )

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Originally Posted by Shannanigan

(just make sure you use your name instead of "Shannon"...unless of course your name is Shannon, or for some reason you call yourself Shannon in your head, then go right ahead and use it :) )

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No. :) I think I can remember to use my own name. Barely.

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Originally Posted by muhsin

Uh, too much.......:crash:

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Yours too are too much. Don't mind him temis.

:) Don't worry, I won't. But thank you.

Perfect??? Dear me, no... far from it, but I have one huge advantage over those who think they are: I can improve... :brow:

/Claes

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Originally Posted by Goodfella

Yours too are too much. Don't mind him temis.

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That makes me laugh hahaha. Don't you know how to jokes Mr Good....Never mind what he too said Themis.

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Originally Posted by ClaesGefvenberg

Perfect??? Dear me, no... far from it, but I have one huge advantage over those who think they are: I can improve... :brow:

/Claes

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How? We wanna imitate that way.....waiting

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Originally Posted by muhsin

How? We wanna imitate that way.....waiting

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Hey, I said that I can improve, not that I necessarily intend to. ;) I'll never be perfect. I'll be 47 soon, and at least I have learned that much :D

/Claes

-I procrastinate terribly

-I often come accross as a goody-two-shoes, though I am not. Actually I can get too wild at times!

-I'm very shy (working on that one)

-Sometimes I care a great deal about what people think of me, but most of the time I couldn't care less....both cause problems...

-I'm extremely talkative!

-I spend way way way too much money on music :D

-I have quite a temper!

-I'm very readable. People can always tell what I'm thinking.

-I'm very competitive, probably more than is good for me. This sometimes becomes pride, which is worse!

We're waiting to hear yours. Do you think you don't have any? Eh?

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Originally Posted by muhsin

1- I’m a bit aggressive-something very little can ignite my temper instantly, more especially when it’s not my fault.
2- I used to forgive but not forget what other did to me. Though, I very often do but it takes time…..probably days.
3- Lots of times, I don’t want a women’s company. Misogynist should I appropriately be called? No! This is something of misnomer because I love beautiful dames like my Ashley, Charity or Sadiya.
4- I also use to trust people from our first meet-up. This really has counted me a lot which is now healed but largely scarred.
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Have now changed some of the above. Surprise uh? Don't be. You too think of yourself, can't you change also? I bet you can. Try it.
Goodluck.