Oh, rachel has not gone. She is busy now a days, that's why she is not being able to visit the forum actually.
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Oh, rachel has not gone. She is busy now a days, that's why she is not being able to visit the forum actually.
Virgil--Thanks for letting me know Elizabeth's just been busy. I seemed to recall her mentioning having health problems and I was concerned that she is O.K.
Pensive--I'm sorry, I wouldn't have brought it up this way but I thought it was common knowledge that Rachel has been banned from here. You can see that her name is gone from the members list. Last time I was in touch with her she expressed wishes that everybody not make too big a deal about it or be too sad, but just to say she misses everyone and sends you all her love.
About banning.. you've got to realise that you do not always see the whole picture here. The decision to ban someone is *not* taken lightly, but ultimately done to maintain the integrity and best possible atmosphere for as many as possible at this site.
Awww I didn't know Rachel was gone!! She was the sweetest person and always so loving to all of us here. I am sure she has found a spot in all our hearts as she has found in mine.
HOLYJEEZWHATTHEHECKHAPPENEDWHILEIWASGONE???!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Petrarch's Love
Sorry...came as a bit of a shock.
And a cry rang out all though the night,
From each heart that she touched, each burden made light
We miss you, dearest Rachel
Goodness, I can't even write about it...
How could she possibly get banned??!! Or did she leave?
What do I have to do to be banned??? I am asking it because I don't want to be banned...:D , but someone might think that sometimes I'm a little bit evil and so(maybe because of Brothers :lol: ), but I'm just joking, no hard feelings...
Wow, I feel so incredibly stupid. I have been wondering for ages where Rachel and Mililail were...and now I know. . I guess I got caught up in my own stuff and missed the departure of two very kind people.
Whatever the reasons for their leaving, I will still miss them.
Oh I heard of something like that but I was away...
I've been thinking of this thread... because...where the hell is Kaltrina??? And emily??? And amuse??? And I'm sure there were others I was thinking of...
Uff, life is always changing, people come and go... :(
Yes, I always wonder when I haven't seen a person post for a long time. I hope that the ones that aren't here for whatever reason will be healthy and happy.
I'm with you guys.we want Rach back, I don't see any reason for her to be banned!!!
This issue is four months old.
*edit* oops, over two months old.
Sorry, moderating decisions made by myself, Scher, Jay, and Admin are not up for debate and discussion on the forums.
:bawling: :bawling: :bawling: :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Well, I am sorry I bumped the topic up but I honestly was unaware that some folks had been banned. I really can be very oblivious. :(
Well there's nothing wrong with missing people or wondering where they are.
But people do get banned simply because they don't follow the rules, nothing more to it. Matters that go on behind the scenes are kept private between the mods and the specific people involved.
Rachel was banned for not following the rules, and we did give her a huge benefit to as a normal person would have been banned far sooner for far less.
You do give warnings, before banning someone, maybe what they did was unintentional. They are not banned at their first mistake? Are they given another chance?
Everyone give it a rest already, what's done is done, I'm sure everyone is familiar with the old saying associated with a situation like this.
But in case you don't: It's no use flogging a dead horse!
I spoke with amuse a few days ago, and she has kept very pre-occupied with school lately (taking some summer courses, plus preparing for autumn courses). She remains very well - merely busy, and intends on visiting with more time. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Koa
:eek:...................................
weird after i read through this thread..
Where are all the faces I came to know and love last spring?
No kidding! :eek2:Quote:
Originally Posted by subterranean
The forum seems depressing and desolate without him! I miss his intelligent, witty posts, his dark humor, finely-phrased puns, and merely seeing his name around the forum. :(
I can only hope that he's completely well and the only reason that he doesn't check out the forum is because he's somewhere out there enjoying life (not that we onliners are not enjoying our life ;))!
(are we, subby? ;))
baddad indeed!!! I knew there was someone else I was missing!!!
ai, a great deal of the oldtimers have left!
It seems that we are almost at some sort of bizarre circular equilibrium...there were only a small group of people here when I signed up...and now it seems the same, but with new faces.
Where did camel lights go? he used to play those google images games and then one day he left (I am assuming it's a he --- I don't even know really)
his last post said he was leaving and I haven't really seen him since. I wonder where camel lights went?
I wonder when I will stop coming here. hmmmm.....
Oh, man...This thread is making me sad, dudes...:(
I wonder where RJBibliophile is. :(
Alright, where is kathycf? haven't seen her around these days. of course, I've been busy, and not here a lot so maybe she's been here and I've just missed it, but I pretty much come here everyday :blush: and I haven't seen her. don't be a lost one or i won't come back either (that is if I can overcome my litnet addiction!)