Romantic Love and Prince Myshkin
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virginiawang
Love transcends the boundary of reasoning faculties, consciousness and even sub-consciousness…Sometimes people even battle with the emotions that arise in their minds… Indeed the keenest observer cannot see through the minutes of the workings of his heart under this spell.
Thanks for explaining your view of romantic love. What you write about romantic love, Virginiawang, may well be true: transcending reason, an emotional battle, the workings of the heart, and an entrancing spell. Unfortunately for you, the nature of the love Prince Myshkin shows to all he meets, including Aglaya, has little in common with romantic love. To avoid confusion, let me label Myshkin's love: 'agape'.
Like Henrick Ibsen (in the plays Brand of 1866 and The Wild Duck of 1884), Dostoevsky borrowed the concept of agape from the great Danish philosopher, Soren Kierkegaard (the father of existentialism), whose awesome insights into Biblical psychology are radical even today. Kierkegaard explained the nature of agape in his "Works of Love" (1847).
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virginiawang
I don't know too much about God or its existence, so forget about it.
You can't entirely forget about God because Dostoevsky, a professed Christian, alludes to and is influenced by Biblical perspectives, and particularly as expressed in Kierkegaard’s writings. You do need to grasp his existential concepts. For instance, the scripture ‘God is love’ has nothing to do with romantic love. Interestingly, the existentialist philosophers that sprung from Kierkegaard (including Nietzsche, Heidegger, Jaspers and Sartre) were all atheist.
For Kierkegaard (Dostoevsky and Ibsen) agape differs from romantic love as follows.
- Agape is fundamentally an act of will - a decision, a work, an action, a duty.
- Agape is never an emotion, but a compassionate way of being.
- Agape rejects the preferential (the aesthetic, the romantic) choice of the other.
- Agape demands limitless self-sacrifice for one's neighbour (‘Love your neighbour as yourself’).
If agape sounds infinitely onerous, consider the courage and fate of Prince Myshkin (or Jesus Christ). Romantic love (infatuation) is not a trait of the prince.
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virginiawang
An idiot, when considered in another light, becomes an intelligence.
Equally true of Prince Myshkin and Jesus Christ: two lights shining in darkness.