Originally Posted by
AuntShecky
Good question, Lote-Tree!
In general, most of us would be better off if we thought with our minds rather than with our "hearts." The high divorce rate in my country attests to that. On a larger scale, more evil has been done in the world because of "feelings" rather than by real thought. Furthermore, many mental illness are caused by or are symptoms of misdirected emotions. (I don't mean the mental illnesses due to chemical imbalance.)
Much "pain" in the world is emotional pain; "My feelings have been hurt."
On the other hand, emotions are what distinguishes us from machines.
The emotions we could use LESS of are anger, self-righteousness, and outrage.
Embarrassment is something we're supposed to "grow out of" once we leave our adolescence. Many blameless innocent people feel needless guilt (possibly from religious upbringing); yet those who SHOULD feel "shame," such as certain political figures, corporation boards, CEOS, don't seem to be ashamed of themselves at all.
The emotions we could use MORE of: empathy, compassion, the kind of "love" that's often referred to as agape. If you think that a sense of humor is emotional rather than intellectual, the world could use much greater quantity of it.
There's an old quote -- maybe from Horace Walpole(?):
"The world is a comedy to those who think and a tragedy to those who feel."
If I had to choose one or th'other, I'd rather cast my lot with the former -- how 'bout you?
Auntie