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Now that's not quite fair. There's a joke that says, "Ever since Eve gave Adam the apple, there has been a grave misunderstanding between the sexes about gifts." Girls have laid problems galore at the guys' doorstep, but you don't see us forsaking you entirely. Many of us are content to gather and complain communally from time to time--when our significant others aren't putting the kibosh on that, too.
maybe i think this way because i want to have a peacefull life!!!! i would rather stay on the sfae side of no problems than on the danger side of losing evry girl i love.
what do you think of love robinhood?
You sound like Jo in Little Women, who didn't want her sisters to marry and leave the house. I say that with affection!
Robin is true gentleman with the ladies, as you will see.
so what do you think of love?
I think love can bring you life or make your soul die. But it is the greatest emotion I ever felt and even though it tore me apart I wouldn't change anything...
i cant take pian physically or amotionally so love is not the right thing for me!!!!!
i can only love when i get married (if i ever do)
I can understand that. I wish you happiness anyway :cool:
Not meaning to sound rude our anything, but you can't shield yourself from love. It's not something that can be controlled. You can try, you can pretend it isn't there, but it still excists. It'll make life a lot easier if you accept this.
You say you want a peaceful life, but at the same time say are not willing to love because you are afraid of losing the love of your friends. I'll say this, if they are truly your friends, no love can break that bond. They will support you and be there for you when love is beating you down, and share your joy when love lifts you up.
Of course, love is not without dangers, but the pain it can cause will happen anyway, even if you want a peaceful live, love is unstoppable, and when you try to turn your back to it, it will hit you in the face like a ton of bricks, walking all over you, making you feel miserable. It is much better to open up to love, and be accepting of it. It'll make it's warmth reflect of your face. It can still kick you in the face too, but at least you'll see it coming, so it won't walk over you.
Anyway, I just had to say that, only wish I could have worded it a little better.
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Originally Posted by AimusSage
WOWWWWWW!!!!!!
You simply left me without words while I was reading your post!!!!!
I totally agree with you. I believe also that those who have experienced these feelings will agree too.
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"To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead." Bertrand Russell
love between man and wife, love between parents and children, love between friends, are these different loves? or just the same love in various camouflage?
many philosophers believe that there is a kind of justice exicts beeyong time and space. a Chinese philosopher calls it kindness. and some western philosopher say that it is knowledge.
maybe it is love that is dominating the universe.
or god in whatever religion. :nod:
myself,
It is not "love" that caused these problems for you.
It is the situation that caused them.
A bad relationship with an immature person, perhaps... Maybe so-called friends that did not treat you like a friend... Maybe you just weren't ready for a relationship yet.
I don't know the details of what happened, so I couldn't possibly say what DID cause the problems.
I CAN say, however, that "love" itself did not cause them.
If you are in a relationship that made you unhappy, and blame love, rather than the relationship, you are doing yourself a grave disservice by not taking a good, honest look at what happened so you can learn from it.
If you simply blame love, you are bound, almost guaranteed, to repeat the same mistakes.
Don't use love as a scapegoat to avoid life's problems because it simply does not work.
That's my advice.
Take it for what you may.
I can't believe what you have written ..... I actually thought you may be joking.
Love has no prescription. Love can not be bought. Love is down to chemistry - and i do not mean in a lab. I mean - you can't describe love. You just like someone and from there it grows into love.
Yes we live in an era of immense capitalism - but love can not fall into this realm.
Although it is no place for me to judge, but if your girlfriend really said what you say she did about the BMW - do you really want to be with someone like that? I would rather be on my own.
Love does exist but it won't if you don't allow yourself to believe in its existence. love is probably one of the only things left in this world that is free.
“They all want to escape from the pain of being alive. And, most of all, from love… It’s no good trying to fool yourself about love. You can’t fall into it like a soft job, without dirtying your hands… It takes muscle and guts. And if you can’t bear the thought of messing up your nice, clean soul, you’d better give up the whole idea of life, and become a saint. Because you’ll never make it as a human being.” Jimmy Porter Look Back In Anger
Love is a substantial extension of one's own being into which one's strength is freely, willingly poured, to embrace and support and secure the utmost well-being of another's whole personal essence.
OK one_raven i dont really blame love for everthing that goes wrong, i blame the opposite sex( no ofence), people say they are "in love" with some one else and start a problems. thesame problems started againg today. the same friend of mine got into a fight with the same girl that dated the guy she "loves". this girl again went out with new guy my friend "loves". im really fed up of this whole "i love him and he hates me" me thing between girl and boys.