I'll have to look at some quantum physics text to see if makes sense that those leptons and quarks are as small as one can get. I wonder if "particle" is even a good metaphor to use to describe them. With the detection of the Higgs boson recently, that theory is probably on firm ground, but I don't know much about it.
I think you are right about the problem. There is a difference between the process of getting closer and closer to an infinite collection of something and actually finishing that process and having the infinite collection to work with.
If one assumes one can actually have infinite sets of things then one can use logic to see what consequences follow even if in the real world infinite sets of things don't exist.
We won't be able to reach that galaxy to test out whether we would need to do anything special or not to play tennis or use a microwave oven. However, from the point of view of anyone on that galaxy moving away from us, we are in that situation right now. They think we're moving away from them at a fast speed.

