Yes All Violence Needs To End
Petrarch:
First off I just want to say thanks for the respect your post communicated to me even while you take issue with some of what I say. That is the one ingredient most neccesary for mature discussion. And it is not nearly evident as much as we would all desire.
Now, as to your specific points. The first paragraph in my post was the following:
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I would actively support any inteligent and forceful statement or act that rebukes, in no uncertain terms, the sexism/vilolence against women that is glorified in rap and hip-hop songs.
In your response you summarized my argument as the following:
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that since black men have been opressed, it's O.K. for them to sing songs about the opression of women.
Short of censorship, if I could come up with some way of changing this horrible component of the hip-hop/rap culture I would. I am open to any suggestions. But I never implied or stated that I thought it was ok. It is not.
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Aren't black women then doubly oppressed?
You must have read my mind because just last night, after reading some posts and writing one, that is exactly what I thought of. I imagine black women are in an extraordinarily difficult position. On the one hand they are being blatantly and repeatedly disrespected, made fun of, and made into seemingly legitimate targets of violence. On the other hand if they speak out they are open, and I bet would receive, attacks that they are on "whitey's side" and seen as traitors to their culture/race.
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It's not right, and I think everyone regardless of skin color has not only the moral justification, but the moral obligation to say it's nothing to sing about.
I agree with you 100% and admire your willingness to speak about this in no uncertain terms.
Now as regards the race and gender issue that I wrote about. Any effort that is made to try and examine the causes of different violent behaviors is too often seen as making excuses or even giving justification for the acts. And as a result we only endorse measures that deal with surface issues and do not look at the deep systemic and psychological dyanamics causing the gang wars, the abuse of women, the abuse of children, and on and on...
I wish that I could wake up tomorow to a world where nobody was ever deliberately hurt by someone else. I really do. But there is considerable work to do before we can even begin to hope for that day. Hard work. Hard because the factors involved are demanding and not open to simplistic attempts at resolution. Certainly if it was easy to end violence it would have been over a long time ago. And so, while I have no problem with people speaking very clearly that using rape as entertainment is a profound betrayal of all things humane I do not think that criticism alone will be enough to solve this or other problems. I wish it was but it is not.
I want to look at just why there is such violence in hip-hop. And I do not want glib answers. The men and women willing to actually think when they would much rather just strike out are the ones who show the deepest dedication to peace making and justice. I want those here in this discussion being those who are also willing to keep on thinking and asking hard questions even when it seems we need not or should not.
The violence in hip-hop music can not be understood unless it is also seen within certain specific contexts. It is clearly a gender issue in terms of what is causing so many men, both men of color and white men, to be violent to women, to sing about such violence, to be entertained by such violence.
It needs to be seen in a race context as well. There is a profound sense of worthlesness that I sense when I hear these songs. A need to pump up the self using guns, gold and violence because the self on its own is barely able to stand. One of the things I feel when I hear much of these songs and watch the videos are men who still are fighting off a core (you are my slave black boy) consciousness by running 1,000 miles in some other direction. They are running to some supposed place on the top of the mountain where they are the kings. It is a dream.
And because that dream is also a dream of a capitalist I dare say that we, I am talking about white people here specifically, can not stand on the side-line all the while not owning our own deep complicity in the very system that is profitting off of that mythic gold, adolescent fantasy, dream male mountain top. I read a ways back that the ones who are actually making the real real big big money, I am talking billions here, are the CEOs and top executives of the major record labels. There is no AK 47 pointed at radio stations or record executives forcing them to play these songs. No. There is, however, money and lots and lots of it. They know this. They want it and they are doing what they need inorder to get it.
(I just had a thought, want to share it, is it possible that part of what is going on in the hip-hop culture and music is the black man saying hey white folk I am beating you at your own game. Look. Now I have the gold chain and now I have the big house and now I have the limo. And is it even also possible that part of what white culture hates about this is the degree to which we do feel beaten by those we once led by chains and whips...I do not think this is going on at a level of day to day awareness but it just feels accurate in terms of deeper levels?)
The best way we can approach the problem of black male violence is by dealing with it from a point of true deep integrity. That is, that we make it clear we do not simply have a problem with the violence they are singing about. No. We stand against all acts of violence and that must include the violence that is going on in their communities as well.
This may not sound fair. It might not be. In a better world we would not have to work so hard at dealing with such blatant acts of rage and arrogance. And I also am not some (despite what jon may believe)I am not some Michael Moore Berkeley CA liberal (I live in Oakland) who would never speak bluntly to those poor, hurting African Americans. I am simply trying to de-construct what I see as the web of factors underneath the seemingly juvenile, unthinking cultural productions we are examining.