I would. In my experience, friendships can be maintained after a break-up so long as the couple has proceeded with emotional caution and are mature enough to try.
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I would. In my experience, friendships can be maintained after a break-up so long as the couple has proceeded with emotional caution and are mature enough to try.
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I would as well. I believe that, as long as you care for someone, it doesn't matter if the two of you can't be together as you wished. As Milord said, all that's required is a little maturity.
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well i have to make a decison bout it now lol
Yes - I did! I told her and wrote her a poem. We've been together for three years now. Fortune favours the brave!Quote:
Originally Posted by blondeatheart
I think that friendship is a good basis for a relationship. The fact that she is gorgeous, intelligent, funny etc. also help!
who knew you were such a romantic gentleman. I shall never think of you the same again. not that I thought anything negative, more like some mysterious stand up comic that bursts onto the forum with great funny and witty words and then vanishes once more to have a puff of that eternally burning cigarette. :D
I once did and it didn't go as I would have liked. Didn't really ruin the friendship though, I just thought of all the other fish in the sea, accepted that she wasn't interested, and we would joke about it. Not so anymore, we have since grown apart, due to many things not related at all.
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Well, yes. But that's happened to me twice and well it just about ruined the friendship both times, so I would be a little hesitant.
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would you tell ur best friend of the opposite sex how u rlly feel about them at risk of making it awkward, not knowing whether they feel the same, and with the possibility of totally ruining ur friendship?
http://www.clicksmilies.com/s0105/sp...smiley-036.gifActually, that's how I met my wife. We were best friends for years, but never dated because we were afraid of messing up the friendship. Then after my :blush: amazingly brilliant :blush: preposal *couldn't find a smilie with his foot in his mouth!* we went together 11 months. We have been married 26 years, and have three children.
I have been asked for advice on this often and I always say this: Look at the other person. Can you walk away, tell them good-bye, and have no regreats? If your answer is no, maybe you should think about it for a while, because you might just be really in love.
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Wow, beautiful story Sir Pen, and great advice for little blondeatheart. :thumbs_up
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Originally Posted by rachel
More of a Romantic gentleman - with portrait features and inkwell eyes! Sometimes. Probably.
I would but they wouldn't ever get it because I tell everyone I love them , because in some way I truly do. So it wouldn't spoil anything.It wouldn't help anything either! :mad: :bawling:
Would you deliberately throw a golf tournament as a player for your company if one of the players on the opposite team was someone you really loved and to whom winning was really important. And would you do this although the very reason the boss even asked you(he isn't that keen on you) was because of the stellar way you golf?
Nah. If winning is that important to them they'd understand and want to win on their own merit. I would never play golf 'for' a boss - especially one who didn't like me. Which is why I lasted about 5 minutes in the corporate world!
I can't think of a question, cos I'm too tired- so same to next?
nope,
you were in the corporate world? somehow now that I have read you a little more I think you are a handsome gentleman of the underworld who uses pomade on his sleek dark hair to look even sleeker.
would you wear a plastic bag with a belt over pajamas to a swank restaurant just to irritate the in laws you have to be with and who cannot stand a thing about you ?
As a would be "fashionista" I would have to say no. But, if they don't like me (and my ex-inlaws didn't, at least not my ex father-in-law ) then they have very poor taste indeed... ;)
Would you step on and squash a bug? (if it was outside, laying on a sidewalk for example)
Never!!!!! Rach, how can you ask such a question:D???? I would rather be single for the rest of my life than betray the beautiful game :pQuote:
Originally Posted by rachel
lol to kathcf's question bout the bug then yea...i mean i dont see y i'd do it on purpose but yea i wouldnt feel bad if i did it by accident or anything
btw thanks for all your advice before!!! especially pendragon those were some wise words!
sorry cant think of a Q...
hmmm...
how bout: after telling ur best friend who you liked, if he/she reacted shocked/appalled would you take it back and say it was a joke?
No, lies are hurtful for both the persons. I would let him/her time to think if s/he needed some and wait for him/her to call me back. Never looking back in regret, you never know what the future holds.
(By the way, I wish you all the best with your friend dear, just never let your hopes go...).
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yes well im not sure if i should tell her who i like i've told friends that dont go to the same school as me and him because obviously they wont tell and wel honestly they dont rlly care that much lol
thanks
yea continue with that Q
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Blondie. And welcome to the forum, I don't think I said that yet. Just call me Pen, everyone does. Yeah, I'd tell them. I've pulled pranks like that before when I worked in a factory, and I always would 'fess up, if the people got hurt or mad. If they could see the joke it remained a good mystery! Hee-hee!
Would you make your teenager (who has a pretty good job) pay for his/her own lawyer if they had to got to court and you knew before they went they were possitively not only guilty but had been downright careless?
no dear I would not because we only live once and by rescuing your child and showing God's unconditional love , when you are gone he/she will remember and that love will flow thru them and they will do the same for theirs. And I actually did do that twice so I speak from experienc.
Love you to pieces Pen and sorry about the msn thing yesterday, even though I logged on travis was using computer and was busy.
blondeateart is our newest baby girl to take care of!
would you go to a movie if you absolutely knew you were going to start crying and had a problem crying quietly because of the depth of emotion?
No.
Would you go to see a movie you didn't like if someone who likes it asked you to go with him/her?
depends how much I like the person, but generally no, why waste 2 hours of my live watching a romantic comedy when there is a great thriller showing at the same time?
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Yes, I would, because if it is someone I really like, I want them to be happy. (well,I like everybody to be happy,but you know what I mean...) I think a friendship is about give and take, so I am happy to compromise. Besides, then they will go to a movie with me that I like and perhaps they don't. :)
How far would you go out of your way to please someone, just as a nice gesture to them?
Average. I'll admit I tell people what they want to hear most of the time. I mean, what's the point of making them feel bad if it's too late to go back and fix it? I'll do what I can, but I won't go too far out of my way. Just yesturday, I swallowed down my friend's cake... I could taste chunks of baking soda in it... *shivers* I seriously could feel my stomach churning afterwards, but I ate it all the same, with a smile and compliments afterwards.
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'Just as a nice gesture'? Not that far I am afraid. It's nice being nice, but I don't believe in gestures.
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Why not just go on your own or with somebody who does like it?? Actually, it would do my head in to sit next to someone who doesn't like the movie I am watching! Yeah - get someone else to go or don't bother!Quote:
Originally Posted by kathycf
Ah! Saying that I have watched many a movie that was awful with kids - so yeah, for the kids, man!
Can't believe I just said 'movie' - film! I'll have to watch myself on these sites with such a large US contingent!
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Because. I was answering the question as it was asked.
"Would you go to see a movie you didn't like if someone who likes it asked you to go with him/her?"
that is why. I often go to movies by myself and prefer it that way, actually. But the question was not if I would go to the movies by myself, was it.
Apparently, I did not word my question in the "proper" fashion. I simply enjoy doing nice things for people I care about. And it certainly isn't an "empty" gesture on my part.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bandini
*edit* Forgot the next question. Sorry, I can't think of a question right now, so I guess I will say...same question.
Yes I would go to the movie, because they would probably return the favor.
Would you streak at a major sproting event for $10,000 dollars?
If it was in non sequential, unmarked bills, and I would be offered a free trip out of the country, I don't see why I would, so no streaking, I value sports to much to disturb them, I'll leave that to the nutters.
Would you have a pet dinosaur if they were still around?
Yes, I would. I'd have a sign on my front door saying "Beware of Fluffy."
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Hell yes I would have a pet dinosaur, with a strict diet of bunnies, kittens and puppies.
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I don't believe in keeping creatures in captivity and making pets of them for my pleasure, so regretfully I would have to say no. But I would like to befriend one and hope it came to visit me-to share lunch, not make me one!
would you star in a sphagetti western where you don't speak the language(you get those cool subtitles), cannot communicate except in the crudest way with all the others and know you will be in that situation for six months?
I definately would, not necessarily to make a movie but to be able to imerse myself in another culture and language would be great fun.
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would you star in a sphagetti western where you don't speak the language(you get those cool subtitles), cannot communicate except in the crudest way with all the others and know you will be in that situation for six months?
Sure. Why not. As long as I can keep my clothes on.
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Depends on how much spagetti I was offered!
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Yep, still would.
Would you bet on a horse race if you were given inside information?
No, I neither like cheating... nor horse races.
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I sure would, but I have a knack for betting on the wrong horse, inside info or not.
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