In Hamlet as life, we see the need for others to be our conscious to help show us when we have foundered and made severe moral errors. I believe when Hamlet visits his mother in her closet, he is acting as her conscious to show her the error of her ways. As Nirome stated in the introduction to this tread. "... the Queen recognizes that her son has not com to her chamber to be disciplined, but instead intends to show her how distorted her perception has become." Gertrude like all parents is not ready for her son not to be her little boy anymore. Hamlet has reached an age and started down a new road, in which he believe he is no longer able to be punished by his mother. This is because it is Gertrude, the mother, and not Hamlet, the son, who has strayed from what is morally right. Gertrude is not will or able to accept this fact at first and even goes as far as to sate, " Nay, then I'll set those to you that can speak. " (3.4.19) She wants Hamlet to take her side and admit that he is wrong, she goes as far as to threaten to go get someone more important that he will listen to. To me this seems a little ironic as the only person above Gertrude that Hamlet could listen to is Claudius, whom Hamlet has not respect for. The whole reason why Hamlet is coming to scold his mother is because of her relationship with his uncle, which Hamlet finds to be perverse and disrespectful to his father.
In Act II Scene IV lines 53-89, Hamlet list all the grievances he has against his mother, particularly the way she reacted to his father's death by marrying her husband's brother. I agree with Redzippelin when he states But I also believe that the mirror Hamlet "uses" can be a symbol of the truth he reveals to Gertrude. Hamlet not only shows Gertrude her sins in marrying her husband's brother but he also revels that his father was murdered by her now husband. (3.4.29-30) Can it be that this is to show that as members of the human race we are to be mirrors to each other, showing the inner selves of those around us??

