Hi 'Matt the Man'. Just the place for you to be. I shouldnt be here either but how else can i welcome you? Lol.
stop crying, be a man!
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Hi 'Matt the Man'. Just the place for you to be. I shouldnt be here either but how else can i welcome you? Lol.
stop crying, be a man!
Cant believe I am actually typing this but I agree with kilted exile :lol: crying is only aloud when no one is looking, unless your a girl in which case you should make a career out of it.
No emotions at any other time? My my. uv just ruled out so many fun high emotions.
REVIVED.
Well, gentlemen - what shall we talk about in the absence of the ladies?
Ladies? :D
Beatiful Ladies? :D
"Beautiful" in what way? I suppose I might simply ask why is feminine beauty so incredibly powerful to men? (Or is that question too high-brow for a men only discussion?) Why does it almost hurt sometimes to see a beautiful woman?
Hehe, i was kinda teasing, the most important beauty is soul beauty to me. We will all lose our hairs, our skin will be like rubber, and every gifts of youth will be gone few years later. Then everything you have will be yourself. Your soul. It will always stay with you... Anyway i will continue;
Because we are ugly.:lol:Quote:
Why does it almost hurt sometimes to see a beautiful woman?
Well there ya go. So attractive guys don't experience this? What are you trying to say? :D
But regardless of how I feel about my own looks, I know it still hurts sometimes to look at a beautiful woman (which by the way does not happen for every pretty woman out there - only a very small few have the ability to make my stomach feel funny).
Hmm... Ok i am being %100 serious. I never felt something funny in my stomach when i see beatiful girls. Or it didn't hurt me when i see beatiful girls. Because i know i don't have enough money to buy their love.:lol:
Motion sustained. They are lovely, aren't they? Here's a question: excluding the parts they conceal in public (which are getting to be fewer and fewer these days), what is the most attractive aspect of a woman? (That qualification should keep us reasonably safe... :lol: )
I am not sure. Probably her flesh.:lol:
Ok being serious. For me most attractive woman is a smart, cute (behaviours i mean) and good one. Beauty comes after these kinds of things for me. What about you buddies? Virgil is married though, he can't answer this.:lol:
Well, a pretty face is first priority. But then I always liked a nice round back side in tight jeans. :D
oh dear! definitely shouldnt have popped my head in hear!:lol:
Cant you lot not talk about something other that beautiful women? How about you general nice women or are you going to tell me that we dont exist and that we are all money seeking preyinmantis'?:p
The danger of opening a "single gender" thread is that we'll "let our hair down" a bit and get caught doing so :D . I don't think any guy on this thread over the age of 30 is "fooled" by beauty anymore (at least I hope so); I, personally, know that beauty can often hide the most empty and vacuous of female minds, and that such emptiness wears very thin, very quickly. Personality and attitude go a long way in providing "sexiness" - that I know and believe. BUT: there is no denying that feminine beauty is very, very powerful to a male - but "powerful" does not equal "valuable" or "meaningful." For example, I can easily get slack-jawed looking at some of today's female celebs - but settle down with one and make a relationship? Nah - I can't see that. The teenager thinks that the beauty is the woman; the mature man knows that the beauty is only the first "layer" of that woman, and that what lies beneath will either enhance that first layer, or make it totally meaningless.
(OK boys - where were we?)
We where in a corner where we got warnings from Amazons. Fortunately you successfully changed the subject to protect us. :D
Right - so maybe we should shift the topic from what part of a woman is most attractive to what about a woman besides her body creates the impression of "sexiness"? Are there certain mannerisms, gestures, tones, expressions, ways of dressing or behaving that produce such an effect?
(We are free, of course, to degenerate back to the treasures of the female body at anytime though, being guys like we are. Maybe the girls won't notice? :D )
I don't believe in sexiness. It's just something feed by desires of genders.
Hmmm... That's really weird. You made me realize that i've never consider a woman as sexy. Hmmm...
WHOA. Come on...you're telling me that there have not been certain women who - by something about them - totally captivated you? Really?
You mean with her charm right? No. I look for a good heart first. I easily realize if a girl tries to be sexy and it makes me pity and despise her, because someone who has self respect won't do that.
Right - and I agree. But I'm talking about things she does that you find sexy more than her conscious attempt to be so. As well, I'm talking about those things that "speak" to you before you ever get a chance (if any) to know what her heart is like. "Charm" is pointing in the general direction, but are there specific things she might do or say that create the impression of "charm" or "sexiness" or whatever you'd like to call it?
Hmmm... I like sweet smilings and meaningful eyes.
The smile is a big one, yes. I find it irresistable when a woman touches my arm when she's talking to me. Dangling earrings also work for me. I also like it when women enjoy their femininity - when they appear to really like being a girl and enjoying "girly" things (careful! tread lightly... where are the radical feminists hiding?).
Well seeing as we are already discussing it:
SEXY
Belly buttons
Glasses
Pierced Eyebrow
Tattoo (singular, too many tattoos stop being sexy)
Corsets
NOT SEXY
Smoking
Nose studs
Overabundance of tattoos
Too much makeup
Thongs showing outside of jeans
They are not hiding anymore; i heard all of them had surgery and changed their gender. We don't have to worry about them anymore, because they are man as much as we do.:D
I understand you like when a woman touch your arm, but i don't like it personally. Actually hmmm... That's weird too. That never happened to me. No girls touch my arms; actually nobody touches my arms while talking. :lol:
I so like this thread:lol: :lol: :lol:
Red, what you said about women enjoying their femininity - when they appear to really like being a girl and enjoying "girly" things ...... is so sweet and it's a shame most of us sometimes forget or avoid for some reason being feminine.....:(
i like it when a girl can talk intelligently(not just a long ramble) for a long time, i also don't like girls that are hot and know so they flaunt it. my perfect girl would be laid back, quiet, subtle, and compassionate
Excellent!! Yes. "Enjoying their femininity" or put another way confident in their womanhood. I'm not sure I would agree about the touching though. I think that transforms the conversation, at least in my mind. I think the suggestion would be so sexual that I would be paralyzed. :lol:
I think (and this is very much my opinion, though I've heard other writers voice it as well) that men become more masculine in the presence of a "feminine" woman. Some of the comments I made in the "Will feminism replace patriarchy?" thread were meant in this vein - that women who like being women - who like pretty, lacy things - who like things like nail polish and earrings and such - are very, very attractive (and this has little if anything to do with their actual looks - it has to do with their joy at being a girl). I think many women are disappointed in how men act these days - but I wonder if part of our "wimpiness" isn't due to the fact that many women attempt to be "masculine" (i.e. "I don't need a man - I'm self-sufficient") when, in reality, the woman who "needs" a man is very, very attractive to a man - it brings out our protective "white knight" nature. Anyway... thank you.
Well, I mean when the touching is clearly how this person relates to all people - male or female - and it's fairly obvious that it's not meant in a sexual way. It just really works for me - like it says "I like physical contact" - and sexual or not, that's always sexy in a woman ;)