Actually, I love the cooking, Janine. I'm not a great cook but I find it fun when I have the chance to play with it. I get too little chance to do it and I've always had fun cooking holiday dinners. Sure, it takes preparation time and work, but it's also endlessly creative. And this year, since my new grandson is allergic to both eggs and milk, and my daughter is breast-feeding so has to be careful of both in her diet as well, I'm faced with the challenge of re-creating some of my favorite dishes to conform to their needs. So I'm changing my "usual" recipes and approaching my turkey from a totally different direction as well as making a totally different "stuffing" that won't be stuffed in the turkey but cooked separately - the Food Channel gives great ideas! I love Rachel Rae and Emeril for all the inspiration they give.
Grandchildren are wonderful! Actually, I have four others, but they are not biologically mine. Mine is a second marriage for both myself and my husband. His three children have given us four wonderful grandchildren - two boys and two girls - who live, unfortunately, in Florida, far from our NJ home, so we don't get to see them very often. I love them dearly, but somehow there is a difference when you actually see the child of your own child. My newest grandchild is my "baby" daughter's son and he has bewitched me since the day he was born. A bit closer (in MA) than our other grandchildren, we get to see him more often - between us going up there and them coming here it's usually at least every couple of months or so - so I have had the chance to watch him grow in a way we didn't have with our other grandchildren, and it has been a joy. I hope you do get the chance to experience it soon!Quote:
(sorry, Virgil). I am jealous of you, Arlene, for having a grand-baby. I want one badly and may be getting one next year. There has to be some compensation for being this age!
By the way, I don't need any "compensations" for my age. I just turned 59 and I am enjoying every minute of it. I wouldn't want to be 20 again for a million dollars! I like myself soooooo much better now than I did when I was younger. Every day I learn more, about myself and the world I live in, and I have the experience and the knowledge now to really appreciate it and enjoy it, which I certainly didn't when I was younger. Sure there are challenges to getting older, but there are with any age. And I find that the rewards far outweigh the difficulties. And grandchildren are just one of the many "compensations" that I find. The most exciting thing is my increasing ability to explore my own interests and not have to put everyone else's welfare ahead of my own. For years, as a daughter, wife and mother, I have lived for other people. Now I get to live for myself and pursue my own passions like theatre and Shakespeare. And thankfully I have a husband who totally supports me in that.
I don't think it necessarily comes under a different thread, Janine. The original thread name was just Horatio and I thought it was to explore his character. It was Virgil who asked the question about Stoicism and that is just one aspect of his character. I've asked my question several times in the thread. It's just that we have yet to explore it because we got caught up in the Stoicism discussion. I can start a new thread if you think it would be better, but the question is already here... it just needs to be addressed.Quote:
Well, the debate rages on.... OR are we going to change gears and try to figure out what kind of a person Horatio really is....origins, personality, etc? Will be interesting to see where this goes from this point on. Arlene should you start a new thread on that topic?
Nonsense! My computer is always on. When I'm doing something else it waits patiently for me. But no matter how much there is to do, I can't and don't work at it constantly. My computer and discussions like this is my downtime. I may not answer ever question immediately, but I do get to them. No need to stop talking, just be patient in waiting for replies until we get to them. :)Quote:
We might all need to turn off our computers this holiday week :crash: So much to do, so little time!

