Originally Posted by
Dark Muse
That makes me think of the conversation Clay has with Blair near the end when she asks him if he ever loved her and at first he seems incapable of answering the question, and even after he finally denies that he ever really cared about her he still asks her to stay.
If Clay is incapable of understanding his own feelings, and doesn't even know how to respond when he is asked what he thinks or feels about something, than how can he begin to have any understanding of what anyone else is thinking or feeling?
He is completely disconnected from all those around him.
Clay hasn't even begun to truly know himself yet so he has no way of understanding or relating to anyone else.