have you ever been unfaithful?

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Originally Posted by OrphanPip

I've never cheated. If I ever wanted to have sex with someone outside the relationship I'd just ask the bf beforehand (although, I'm pretty sure that wouldn't go over well with the current bf).

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How do you mean you would ask the bf?
Does he ask you too?

Seems like the cinversation is concentrating on sex mostly. Is sex necessary to be unfaithful?

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Originally Posted by Scheherazade

Seems like the cinversation is concentrating on sex mostly. Is sex necessary to be unfaithful?

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But how would you define unfaithfulness, to me sex is just the line, that clearly indicates unfaithfulness.

I would never get angry if my girl hung out with other guys even if it is just her and another guys, because I have plenty of friends who are girls and just enjoy hanging out with them too

I would not be bothered if she filtered with other guys because I like to flirt with other girls too, and that is healthy.

If she felt intimate feelings for another guy but she never acted on them I could not consider that unfaithfulness as despite what she felt she did not act upon it and by that clearly showed that she chose me over him.

So how else could you define unfaithfulness if not "the beast with two backs".

There is something about sex, especially for women, which implies a certain submission and intimacy, which gives a strong significance to the act.

re: Clinton v Monica Lewinsky covered that (at least in the US)

So anything from an afternoon $!()% j()$ on up would be unfaithful

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Originally Posted by Alexander III

But how would you define unfaithfulness, to me sex is just the line, that clearly indicates unfaithfulness.

I would never get angry if my girl hung out with other guys even if it is just her and another guys, because I have plenty of friends who are girls and just enjoy hanging out with them too

I would not be bothered if she filtered with other guys because I like to flirt with other girls too, and that is healthy.

If she felt intimate feelings for another guy but she never acted on them I could not consider that unfaithfulness as despite what she felt she did not act upon it and by that clearly showed that she chose me over him.

So how else could you define unfaithfulness if not "the beast with two backs".

There is something about sex, especially for women, which implies a certain submission and intimacy, which gives a strong significance to the act.

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Damn, women do love to hear those words in mid argument: "What a second, define unfaithful"

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Originally Posted by tonywalt

Damn, women do love to hear those words in mid argument: "What a second, define unfaithful"

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Hey, don't argue with the 19 year old who knows everything about relationships.

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Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandis

Hey, don't argue with the 19 year old who knows everything about relationships.

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If age is a relative sign of knowledge upon a give subject, then it would be hypocritical of you to do anything else except concede to Emil Miller that your liberal thoughts are merely reflective of your immaturity...

Actually age is a double edged sword. I use it to get out of heated discussions by saying "We're still young, it's alright. We don't know what we're talking about."

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Originally Posted by The Kid

Actually age is a double edged sword. I use it to get out of heated discussions by saying "We're still young, it's alright. We don't know what we're talking about."

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Yes good on you !!!the best line ever in the world :D

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Originally Posted by Alexander III

If age is a relative sign of knowledge upon a give subject, then it would be hypocritical of you to do anything else except concede to Emil Miller that your liberal thoughts are merely reflective of your immaturity...

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Yep. All subjects are the same when it comes age and knowledge.

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Originally Posted by tonywalt

re: Clinton v Monica Lewinsky covered that (at least in the US)

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That was a complete set up by the way the ''politic way'' that is.

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So anything from an afternoon $!()% j()$ on up would be unfaithful

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It is personal and down to the individual and it is called guilt.
Whenever you start questioning yourself feeling somehow guilty or becoming self conscious then that something is telling something is not right.

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Originally Posted by cacian

How do you mean you would ask the bf?
Does he ask you too?

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Open relationships work for some people, but the rules should be worked out beforehand.

Is there a difference between the first one and the last one?

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Originally Posted by Mutatis-Mutandis

Yep. All subjects are the same when it comes age and knowledge.

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do you mean that politics is more complicated than love or vice versa? Too me they seem equally complicated.

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Originally Posted by qimissung

Is there a difference between the first one and the last one?

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Three exclamation points.