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NikolaiI
Yes, my own opinion is that he should have tried harder to stay happy with the way things were.
But once experienced the happiness of this one amazing thing that is Lotte - how does one live bereft of meaning? How does one endure the pain of it all? If one was suffering from a painfull illness - doctors prescribe pain killers. what is the pain killer of love, what is the pain killer of living a life bereft of meaning? You could say that many people live a meaningless life and they can endure this meaninglessness quite well. But perhaps they live in view to finding some meaning whereas Werther found his meaning but can't live without it.
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He should have had enough character to live a happy life as friends with Lotte;
Yes, perhaps, and that would have been a challenge in itself. But it would still be a meaningless challenge?
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I admire Werther's intelligence and strength, but he apparently was not able to see the world a world he could live in
Yes. The world without Lotte is barreness, emptiness and pain and Werther was not able to endure this. But who would want to endure this?
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I think for Werther's amount of suffering it is dependent on his own actions in the relationship.
Perhaps. But how do you stop yourself from feeling?
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However, I think the situation he was placed in, with a woman as lovely as Lotte, would make a significant change to anyone who was in it, as evinced by the person who lost his mind over Lotte. Werther also sort of lost his mind, and his life.
Lotte is indeed amazing women. Her compassion alone is worthy of admiration. She is a provider of joy to people just by being herself. Losing your mind over something like this? Irrational indeed!
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Edit: I think Werther did himself all the harm, for being jealous at Albert, and too obsessive of Lotte. I mean I think possession of possessions is a wrong attitude, so of course possession of a person is.
Jealousy and obsessions are normal human trait. But his jealousy and obsessions did not go out to harm anyone on purpose.
Good tortured by itself can become evil?
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I think it is our own thoughts and actions that give us cause for guilt and things like that. So, as the Buddha says, if we transform our minds...etc.
Buddha also taught Love and Compassion is the key to enlightenment. But Buddha taught about unconditional love.
Was Werther's love unconditional?
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I think it was at least a little heroic although misguided. We are impressed by his appreciation for beauty and deep feeling- it is tragic what happened to Werther- but his ability to feel is a good thing, and we all need to be able to feel. Some us should feel more, some of us perhaps show fake feelings, and it is much better to be genuine.
Yes. This quality to feel perhaps makes Werther worthy of admiration. But perhaps this very feeling leads him inevitably to his death. And we can do no more than to accept his death as it was.
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I don't know. It seems inadequate to say what the meaning is; for me it raises philosophical considerations, and is interesting for the path leading up to it, and Werther's thoughts, all of that seems original; but if you could explain what you mean by meaning, it would help.
Yes. Perhaps the word "meaning" has too much a philosophical considerations. But simply put what did Werther achieve by his death?
End to his pain for sure. Is that in anyway something meaningful?
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Does it have any benefit? I think yes, and I realize might be a minority opinion. At least, I think it is possible that good would come of it.
Only "good" perhaps is end to his pain.
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I don't know if that is the most likely outcome. It could either be good or bad for Lotte's and Albert and the children and everyone's psyches, and it is certainly easier to explain how it is bad.
Yes. They would be affected by it for sure. So in this context Werther's actions is very selfish.
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As a good friend of mine told me once as advice, it's very important to have balance.
Balance is important. The middle way. Neither too extreme at either end. But how would we know the extremes if we only walked the middle path? ;-)
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He actually told me that just before I read Werther, so the two combined improved our friendship considerably...
Bueno! :-)