wow well I have a few points to add f I may...
First off I pretty sure Im agreeing with Unamable here except Im not sure I just understood everything. however anyways, first off the power of the choice of words.
In 1974 Loftus and Palmer did a study to prove that witness could be lead (meaning mislead) by the phrasing of a question. The short of it was tghey showed the participants a video of a car accident and divided them in to groups and asked how fast they thought the cars were going when, and heres where it differed, they either hit, contacted, smashed, collided or bumped into each other. Unsuprisingly the people who were asked using the word smashed estimated a much higher speed than those who were asked using the contacted.
My point is that the word leaves an impresion behind that influences a persons opinion whether (spelling :sick: ) consciously or not.
And the fact is the male equivelent is usually the stronger, rmore dominant , shiner if you like word, carrying the stigma of "better". Back to the bacholr and spinster anology.The word spinster often contotates a lonley woman of a certain age often assoiated with Cat ladies while bachelors are associated with freedom happiness James bond. ILL use starr as an example if you dont mind, just go and read some of his choice of words in some of his posts and youll see what Im talking about he illustarates about the best example I can think of off the tp of my herad this anolgy. And another thing(These arenot my words but part of a course I was doing before I dropped it in favour of literature) History? although come to think of it Im not convinced by this point.
As for the backing up of this in popular culture I first saw grease last year for a media studies essay and was leant the copy because all my classmates were horrified I hought I was deprived because I had never seen it. I was shocked I mean what message does that film give out? Women should change to suit men! I wrote a nice angry essay on it. But now I am gettng distracted. Point here being this film (which someone recently said is the most pure bit of americana ever to be capture on screen) illstrates a cultural norm women should change for men becasue men are right or better or somthing and language backs this up and this kind of idea backs language up so that they are so mixed up its pretty much impossible to seperate them.
I think that about it for now:D