I think the father did what was the easiest. I really felt bad for the father after christopher found out about the dog and he became afraid of his father and wouldn't talk to him, that has to be a tough one.Quote:
Originally Posted by Scheherazade
I think the father did what was the easiest. I really felt bad for the father after christopher found out about the dog and he became afraid of his father and wouldn't talk to him, that has to be a tough one.Quote:
Originally Posted by Scheherazade
I believe that in one of her letters, she explains her actions in this way. I'll have to scan the letters to find it, but I'm sure you're right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Scheherazade
I also felt for the Father when Christopher stopped trusting him because of the dog inicident. Seemed like all his life's efforts meant nothing but I think that is just another example showing Christopher's inability to 'read' emotions;everything is 'black' and 'white' for him so when his father did something unacceptable like killing a dog, in his mind, he had a no choice but to get away from him: his father was a murderer in his eyes.Quote:
Originally Posted by papayahed
If you were Christopher's parents, how would you feel/react? What would you do if you were in his father's shoes?
I read this book over a year ago and had a strong reaction to it. I loved Christopher and his math equations and his hypernormal attention to details. I struggled to even like the parents and finally just gave up. Don't like'em. I can muster a little sympathy but that's all. I try not to judge them objectively or even in hindsight perspective, but their motivations were pure selfishness. They definitely love Christopher, but their personal agendas were a higher priority. The father thought life would be easier if the wife were dead. The mother certainly wrote some letters, but she made no convincing effort to bring Christopher to live with her and her new husband. Given Christopher's autism, I really don't see how they helped him although they successfully engineered their own fantasies of "cheating wife is dead" and "What kid? I don't have a kid."
Eliza
I agree with your comments on the parents, Eliza. I don't know what I would do if I were in their shoes but still their way seems to be the 'easy way out'. I would like to think that I would stick around and try to do my best. It is possible to grow resentful and weary over time yet...
I felt sorry for the Father that after his wife leaves him, he falls for the neighbour and gets refused by her as well (probably it was a rebound thing anyway rather than something serious?)
was the book what you expected?
No, I actually imagined to be a sherlock-holmesy type
i was thinking that it would be more like a detective book
but that was just a starting point
what did you think of the title?
very... accurate
i thought it would be a post modernist, hard to follow story
after reading the book?
Christopher-ish
the same?
on my book, it says on the back of the cover what the book is about
true
it never occured to me to check the blurb
if it weren't for it, we wouldn't probably bothered to read it
really?
I am glad you have read it :)
I copied that to a friend and she decided to read it
well, yes
its name seems sherlockholmesy and i dislike sherlock
Rarely great minds are appreciated like they should
i really love the way the story unfolded...
the author is very cleverly put things together, I thought
me too
it was very easy to read
reminded a bit of vonnegut, only easier
yes, it was... and by each chapter i was more and more drawn into it
i havent read vonnegut
nice way of numbering chapters btw
did you think there was a publishing mistake initially?
in the breakfast of the champions the author constantly draws pictures and says - this is what an apple looks like
chapter numbers? why is 2 missing etc
i think i missed the first one
but actually i understood it in about chapter 13
I noticed it earlier
and went back and forth a little trying to figure it out
then it dawned on me
well, it is very original
yes
what was your initial reaction to christopher and the murder of thedog?
actually, it was not very interesting
the beginning at least
thought it might have been his dog
So did I...
but chapter three was wonderful
did you think his reaction was too much to the death of the dog?
if he would of have been his, not really
if you found your dog killed by a fork I guess you might react the same way
well, no
would you go out for a murderer hunt on your own though?
depends
don't think so
I dont think I would
calling the police is easier
actually, me neither
what was your reaction to the discovery that mother was dead?
did you believe it?
yes
that she was dead? yep
i am not paranoid
I was a little puzzled about it because Chris wasnt allowed to go to the hospital or the funeral etc
it didnt seem to add up but i still believed that she was dead
i thought she died suddenly but the father couldnt tell him
so invented the hospital story and then finally broke him the news
well, the truth was improbable
what did you think when he found those letters?
then i knew that she was alive but left them
felt really sorry for Chris that he couldn't figure it out in the beginning
thought that those letters were sent before his mother died
hey, it was even hard for me to believe it
i thought that it had been perhaps written earlier
what did you think about the fact that it was the father who killed the dog?
now i understood why he got angry
no idea how him killing the dog fits into the story other than get Christopher to find out about his mother being alive
I thought it showed a different side of him as well
in the story we usually see him as this cool, calm man.. who deals with his wife's death silently while looking after an autistic son...
but now this terrible secret
he didn't seem that cool, calm man to me
before you find out about the mother and the dog etc, you didnt think so?
I admired him
how well he coped with everything etc
yep, before he was ok
and what did you think of him once you discovered that it was him who killed the dog?
well, my opinionon him went down
him speaking about the red fog
that he might have been drunk
thinking that he might have some sort of minor mental illness
that is what i thought too.. that he might have been drunk
well, it seems possible
you usually don't see red fog
and the fact taht he lied about the mother?
I think he should have told Chris that mum left and not died, I guess Crist would be able to deal a lot more with that
what do you think, what actually shocked chris more, the knowledge that his mother was alive or that his father had killed the dog
no idea, I'd say father lying to him
I thought telling Chris that his mother was dead was more of a resetment
but as it's not one of the options
to the fact that he was deserted
she was dead for him
and he expressed his resentment by telling Chris so as well
I thought his resentment ran that deep that he sort of wished her dead
i think that his shock started with learning that his mother was dead and the distrust deepened when learning who kille dthe dog
quite possible
I didn't think that his mother's death shocked him too much
I think he was shocked in the sense that his daily life was changed
not in the emotional sense maybe
as he is in a way incapable of that kind of shock
but he heavily relies on routines and such and with mother's absence there were changes in his life
a bit funny how chris is actually a materialist, but has this car thingy
it was interesting though
probably just to create routine
one would expect chris not to be prone such things
he said that yes, it was a bit stupid but he backed it up by reasoning
as he seems to be governed by logic
however, he finds comfort in numbers
because they are stable
one playwright and physicist once spoke thus about mathematics:
math is the very purest of things. In everywhere else, there are things that are not certain or hazy or unclean. When you do maths it sometimes feels as if the math itself did it. It is probably the same thing how religious people think of god
or something like that
that is interesting and i think chris felt the same way as well
numbers seemed to be the only thing he could 'read' without getting confused and they never betrayed him because once you cracked the code it always worked
math is art in a way
How did you feel when Chris refused to trust his father after the discovery?
he had a point
but the father must have felt awful
i thought that was a terrible thing
I thought that the father should have known better than to think he could lie to Chris when he knew how Chris was... reliant? on the truth and when someone you trust lies to you it just does't feel right whatever his reasons were
after all the things he has been doing for his son, being pushed aside and what's more not being trusted, i thought it must be devastating
what would you do in his place?
chris liked dogs even more than humans, if i am nt mistaken
I'm not sure
you have an already difficult life... an autistic son, and then your wife leaves you?
yes, he was very fond of the dog...
probably he thought they are easier companies than humans
so he thought it logical that if someone can kill a dog, he can also kill a human
humans are too complicated in general
he said so, he said that they had fewer emotions and expressions and were easier to understand
anyone else liked Siobhan? did you think she was real right from the beginning?
yes
I always thought she was a teacher
i thought she was real
though in some ways she was a bit mistaken
because in the beginning he said it was Siobhan who taught him those emotions etc
mistaken how?
when she said that people didn't want to read about math in a book
mind you, i solved the puzzle once when i came home from school in a bus
anyone wondered what happened to the original book his father confiscated?
he found that in the box, didnt he?
yeah but did he take it back or did he leave it there? he said he's start a second book... did he?
is that even relevant?
I thought he took it back?
not so sure now
I just thought that when the book was that important to him that he'd mention what befell to it
anyone else found the description of the guy with two mice in his nose funny?
yes
what did you think of the mother's behaviour?
well, i think it was not good of her to only send letters
she seemed normal to me, no super mum but there sure are worse, she just had problems copying with Christopher, not so sure anyone can handle an autistic child
she tried
but leaving like that? without an explanation?
which parent was worse?
I think the father didn't let her in to talk to Chris?
and she did explain in the letter
that was after she left
but she didnt talk to Chris herself
she let her husband deal with it
because the father didn't let her?
she could have visited him
break the news to Chris
and he did deal with it!
You are dead!
what could he do, when she went to visit them and chris opened the door?
but she didn't know what the husband told Chris, she just one day might have appeared at the doorstep
yes, but she took that risk
I thought she opted for the easy way
didnt want to deal with chris
yep, agreed
yes, it is true that it was a difficult situation
very hard
but she didnt even want the responsibility of telling Chris what was going on
no one did
well, neither of them
he found out when Mrs Anderson told him
yes, but since it was the mother who made the choice, she should have told Chris herself
and then hoping to do parenting through letters???
well, his reaction was more like : oh, really?
i think both parents failed chris
not gonna hear me argue that point
however we are all humanbeing
we err
some more than others
you aren't?
I am, are you?
i think i am
what did you think of the ending of the book?
the extra?
I liked Sandy
I like dogs
slight Chritopher like tendencies?
though in my opinion the ending was a bit predictable
but the ending was good too
yes, but i really wished the father to get a better deal
i coud use it as book therapy
and I like when Chris said he was ... about him getting the A
yeah, how so?
by reading it?
Are you satisfied with the ending?
everyone got a fair deal?
noticed you wanted the father to get a better deal
have to admit I thought Chris would move back in
you wanted the father and mother to make up and remarry?
no
history tends to repeat itself
do you think that is what is gonna happen?
no
nope
I thought that was implied
interesting
maybe the romantic in me
I think father is the guilty one.. because he neglected his wife and later on lied to chris
neglected Chris?
he also after being refused by the neighbour, killed her dog and did not tell the truth about it
why do you think so? before you said you admired him
so who is your fav character in the book?
christopher?
I have two
chris too for me
go, chris, go!
what did you think of mrs anderson?
the elderly neighbor?
she was nice
and what did you think of mother's boyfriend?
eeewwww
it was a pity that chris did not want to befriend with her
why did she like him in the first place?
yeah, i really wish that he was more friendly towards her
but he takes a long time to make friends i guess
i have no idea
i think mother just wanted to get out
anybody could have done and he happened to be there
same old story, he was lonely, she was lonely, so they decided to be lonely together
I'm in VCE (last year of high school) and am analysing this book to write a text response on. I found it very enthrawling to read about how Christopher reacted to situations, and how he had the dream of becoming an astronaut because he would be alone and amongst things he loved. This seemed weird to me. I also need to choose one important, 15 or less words, quote from each chapter to help me. If anyone could me give me any quotes from any chapters it would be much appreciated (it has to be said why this quote is important to the plot fo information of the story). Great book overall.