Originally Posted by The Unnamable
An interesting distinction –what choices? The ones that are available. In the case of a single phrase that I mentioned in an attempt to lighten the tone, we can’t expect much control. No, it doesn’t ‘control’ you inasmuch as it doesn’t make you jump from a tall building or dye your hair green. In the sense that your very sense of who you are is determined by the language available to express such things, it does control all of us. It controls us by enabling us to construct a fictional reality while seeing it as natural, and by hindering us greatly from imagining that things could be otherwise.