Originally Posted by
Marbles
The master-disciple relationship has been an integral part of Sufistic training for centuries. Usually it involved an older master taking on a younger disciple, and if the disciple was worthy, forming a special relationship with him. Instructions in Sufi doctrine involved spending long intervals of time alone or in the company of the master, in total seclusion. It's common for the disciple to write poetry in praise of the master and express their love using the established imagery of earthly love, often in female voice. In fact, I don't know of any major Sufi poet who hasn't done that, regardless of language or country. Rumi perfected the 'love for the murshid (master)' in his poetry and declared Shams the 'ultimate beloved,' a manifestation of divine love.
The modern mind is conditioned to see any expression of love as ultimately sensual, inevitably leading to physical congress, and this is what drives the speculations about gay relationships between Sufis, not only in the case of Rumi-Shams but many other Sufis as well. For the Sufis and their followers, however, expressing love for the master or even fellow disciples was not meant as an expression of sexual desire or orientation, nor was it is intended to be seen as such, despite the occasional sexual imagery employed in their poetry.