Of Love - Henri-Frederic Amiel
Of Love - Henri-Frederic Amiel
How shall I find a name for that subtle feeling which seized hold
upon me this morning in the twilight of waking?
It was a remininscence, charming, indeed, but nameless, vague, and featureless, like the figure of a woman seen for an instant by a sick man in the uncertainty of delirium,and acorss the shadows of his darkened room. I had a distinct sense of a form which I had seen somewhere, and which had moved and charmed me once, and then had fallen back with time into the catacombs of oblivion. But all the rest was confused: place, occasion, and the figure itself, for I saw neither the face nor its expression.
The whole was like a fluttering veil under which the enigma - the secret, of happiness -might have been hidden. And I was awake enough to be sure that it was not a dream.
In impressions like these we recognize the last trace of things which are sinking out of sight and call within us, of memories which are perishing. It is like a shimmering marsh-light falling upon some vague outline of which one scarcely knows wheather it represents a pain or a pleasure-a gleam upon a grave. How Strange! One might almost call such things the Ghosts of the soul, reflections of past happiness, the manes of our dead emotions.
If, as the Talmud, I think, says, every feeling of love gives birth involuntairly to an invisible Genius or spirit which yearns to complete its existence, and these glimmering phantoms, which have never taken to themselves form and reality, are still wandering in the limbo to the soul, what is there to astonish us in the strange apparitions which sometimes come to visit our pillow? At any rate, the fact remains that I was not able to force the phantom to tell its Name, nor give any shape or distinctness to my reminiscence.
What a melancholy aspect life may wear to us when we are floating down the current of such dreamy thoughts as these! It seems like some vast nocturnal shipwreck in which a hundred loving voices are clamouring for help, while the pitiless mounting wave is silencing all the cries one by one, before we have been able, in this darkness of death, to press a hand or give
the farewell kiss. From such a point of view destiny looks harsh, savage, and cruel, and the tragedy of life rises like a rock in the midst of the dull waters of daily triviality.
It is impossible not to be serious under the weight of indefinable anxiety produced in us by such a spectacle. The surface of things may be smiling or commonplace, but the depths below are austere and terrible. As soon as we touch upon eternal things, upon the destiny of the soul, upon truth or duty, upon the secrets of life and death, we become grave whether we will or no.
Love at it's higest point- Love sublime, unique, invincible - leads us strait to the brink of the great abyss, for it speaks to us directly of the infinite and of eternity. It is eminetly religious: it may even become religion. When all around a man is wavering and changing-when everything is growing dark and featureless to him in the far distance of an unknown future - when the world seems but a fiction or a fairy-tale, and the universe a chimera-when the whole edifice of ideals vanishes in smoke, and all realities are penetrated with doubt- what is the fixed point which may still be his?
The faithful heart of a woman!
There he may rest his head; there he will find strength to live, strength to believe, and, if need be, strength to die in peace with a benediction on his lips. Who knows if love and its beatitude, clear manifestation as it is of the universal harmony of things, is it not the best demonistration
of a fatherly and understanding God, Just as it is the shortest road by which to reach Him? Love is a faith, and one faith leads to another. And this faith is happiness, light and force. Only by it does a man enter into the series of the living, the awakened, the happy, the redeemed- of those true men who know the value of existence and who labour for the glory of God and of Truth. Till then we are but babblers and Chatterers, spendthrifts of our time,
our faculties, and our gifts, without aim, without real joy- weak, infirm, and useless beings, of no account in the scheme of things,. Perhaps it is through love that I shall find my way back to faith, to religion, to energy, to concentration. It seems to me, at least, that if I could but find my work-fellow and my destined companion, all the rest would be added unto me,
as though to confound my unbelief and make me blush for my dispair.
Believe, then, in fatherly Providence, and dare to love.
